All the black girls I went school with, grew up with, went college with all had a preference for not only just black men, but darker skinned men. You might not buy it but statistics as well as those that have been around a lot of black people will tell you this.I never believed this whole "black women are loyal" thing, most people are selfish and will try to get the best offer they can. If white men reciprocated attention given to them by BW, they would have jumped ship a long time ago. But unlike Asian women who they have a genuine attraction for, black women aren't afforded that privilege, hence the gatekeeping/mate guarding of BM.![]()
black people have their own subculture and growing up, madow men are presented to black women as being cooler, more masculine, having more rhythm ect. Being someone who has been around a lot of madows, I’ve seen it play out. Also, the only white guys I’ve seen do well with black girls tend to be the Jack Fowler types, he was on Loveisland. He had a group of black friends. Had the exact speech patterns and had the same urban demeanor and mannerisms.
Also, look at black women white men couples, generally the black girl isn’t necessarily more attractive than other black girls, but they tend to not be as part of the black community, usually they wear natural hair and a running joke is that when they do opt for wigs/extensions it tends to be awful due to not having a lot of black friends to help them with their image.