Men hit their prime at 30+
When do men expire for marriage?
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Men hit their prime at 30+
Financial prime right?
There is a reason why many footballers retire when they're in their mid 30s.
Thats true, that women are really indifferent about their mens age. The thing is, while us men might get kids for long time, our body changes. After your 20s, you are not as strong, energetic and overall fitter as you age. Even with good exercise and dieting you age.
This is why I recommend that men marry young, you get more out of your marriage versus while you are older
Financially this might be true, but physically? Absolutely not. You are at your fastest, strongest and in your most energetic stage in your life when you are in your 20s. Marrying in this age gives you a lot of advantages
The idea that women don't care about age is a major myth. Historically, women had no choice but to not care as survival was based on men looking after you. If the majority of men with the finances are older, you're going to have to put the need for physical attraction to the side and marry the man that can help you and your child, even if he's balding with a pot belly.
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Men only become more desirable as they age. Women prefer older men and as you age you gain more knowledge and money which women like. I’d say that the younger you are the worse it is.
It depends on the women in question and their life stage. When I was in undergrad I knew Somali guys who were easily a decade older than me (and had it together). I had a sense of deference to them with the respect one would accord their elders but that was it. Some were good looking and seemed mature as well but there would have been an imbalance in power dynamics. In retrospect, I had zero interest in them in spite of their financial solvency. The age discrepancy seemed too great at the time, there was less relatability and there was competition for your attention by guys slightly older or your age (which probably had more in common generationally and in mindset). Somali girls in the west have changed in the sense they are more inclined to want to marry an age peer than their predecessors. And if the girls back home were afforded that luxury (where financials were not a huge factor) they would too.
- Don't be bald/look visibly old
- Be in good shape, 15% bodyfat or lower
- Be interesting
- Have your shit together
The energy/fitness thing can be resolved by hopping on TRT.
That's a hard one. I think for a lot of Western women in their 20s, a guy in his late 30s is a hard sell, generally that is.
Hmm, when I think most women in fact do marry within their age group. My comment was related to what I have seen in real life. Women are more likely to marry someone older, between 5-10 years older. Not all, but something I have noticed.
Limiting your dating/marriage pool to women in their early 20s if you're nearly 40 is a piss take. But you can easily bag a 28-32yr old if you don't look like a skinny-fat Uber driver lol
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This is true, but my comments where more family orientated and beyond. Having kids while you are relatively young in my opinion is good and leaves you more options as in how to navigate your life as opposed to having kids later.
Think about the generation though.
Most Western Xalimo in their 20s are married to Abdis in their 20s. All the western raised ones are married to a man who is of the same generation as them. Are your friends marrying girls ten years younger?
No they aren’t. However I have seen that people I know (men) are more open about marrying someone 3-5 younger. So something like 25 and 20. For women I have seen them marry someone 3-8 older. This is all anecdotal.
I don't believe women expire in their early 30. I've seen women they still look great in their late 40s and others that where gorgeous in their 20s but let themselves go
For guys, ir they have never developed themselves to be successful and attractive past their 20s. They never got a chance to expire
Pre-expired???
Not sure if your can class women as lucky or not but they got their value from birth then declines
While many women would love all men to value them for everything they built as they developed themselves in life. They probably wouldn't never be valued the same way they were like in their 20s
For guys, ir they have never developed themselves to be successful and attractive past their 20s. They never got a chance to expire
Pre-expired???
Not sure if your can class women as lucky or not but they got their value from birth then declines
While many women would love all men to value them for everything they built as they developed themselves in life. They probably wouldn't never be valued the same way they were like in their 20s
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