Bro trust me, he was happy with not going back for what he gave her, he's like "I'm lucky I managed to get out of that in fact"
Bruv I wanted to marry my high school sweet heart, this Somali girl I met in year 10. I told my mum I wanted to get married at 17, I've been working since I was 12 at my aunties shop so I managed to save good money. And by good money I mean £2700, which was basically my whole life saving at that point. So my mum and dad heavily advised against it, they took the whole thing as a one big joke and I put them up to it. So we go to her mum's house (She was raised by a single parent so a big ) her mum proper embarrassed us saying if I want her daughter I need to do better and the money I brought couldn't even cover her Mehr. I'm just go smacked and heart broken by this point. We leave and it was a very awkward drive him with my parents.
I spoke to the girl and told her to run away with me, and to put it on her mum but she wasn't having it. I laid low and told her it's okay I'll come ask for her hand in marriage when I saved up more with no plans to ever go back to that girls mum. A few years later just before I moved away from London to Manchester for university, I took that girls virginity and give her a shit load of baggage along side it and left with no trace.
Her abtiyaal tried confronting me but I told them straight up, her mother didn't allow me to get married to her so she got fucked by others niggas and now you're blaming me for your problems. That got them off my case, I blocked her on social media and got a new number, now that's a baggage the next guy gotta deal with thanks to her mum.
Honestly saxib, you sound 10 times worse than her and her whole family put together. Her mum not wanting you to marry her due to finances doesn't justify this whatsoever.