What's something you disliked about how your parents raised you?

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31/12/16 - 04/04/20
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I'm really sorry. Although sorry is a bland meaningless word and i simply cannot begin to understand or feel your pain. May Allah keep you strong and make you resilient. Inshallah

If you need any help know the you can speak to any trusted individuals on this website. But please be careful to who you talk as there are dickheads on this website.

Thank you soo much. This made my day better.

That's sad wallahi
same thing happened to me but with my dads friend

Sounds awful
 

ThreeTwentyOne

It's too damn HOT!
Sharing. I hated sharing my chips my games and my room with my siblings. It killed me inside to know they had the rest of the half I enjoyed. I am over it now.
 

BobSmoke

Flying over your heads
I disliked the psychological put downs basically pointing out my inability to do anything no matter how much I tried to please them.

The fake promises they made and the mixed messages they displayed to me as a child of very impressionable age and the lockdown preventing me from exploring hobbies and acquiring crucial social skills as a kid.

Needless to say I grew up as a kid who was anxious and generally insecure on many aspects of myself such as intelligence, sociability, my weight and a ton of f*ck shit.
They still do that til this day but I swore to myself to follow my intuition even if it were leading me to my demise.

Only good thing that came out of it was my love for books of role models of mine. From there I understood that my identity is never set in stone therefore reformable according to my aspirations.

I have also learnt to redefine taking L's from taking losses into taking lessons.

Another major key I realized was also that whenever people are talking to each other, they dont care what the other person says.
They only want to hear their own voice and merely uses the other person as a soundboard.
I'm guilty of that too, perhaps it's the dhiiga soomaaliyeed kicking in or perhaps I really enjoy my soothing voice.
 
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