What's something you disliked about how your parents raised you?

[anonymous34]

Cis male



So I open up and you ask if I am trolling of not!!! Your a really small individual. It takes a lot of courage for me to say what I said. I needed to let it out. It was driving me crazy. Couldn't keep it in any longer.

I'm really sorry. Although sorry is a bland meaningless word and i simply cannot begin to understand or feel your pain. May Allah keep you strong and make you resilient. Inshallah

If you need any help know the you can speak to any trusted individuals on this website. But please be careful to who you talk as there are dickheads on this website.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I was forced to finish the canjeero before I scould go school so I use to hide it under the table miise chair only to come back and get waa shamsi waa dhuxaa the kharbash of the century I love my parents I wouldn't be the man I am without the kharbash they gave me that's love right there may Allah bless them and grant them janatul firdous amiin.

 

[Codeine]

I was taken off my Ice Hockey team because apparently my parents thought i was becoming Cadaan Washed

I got half my team to say stuff like "wallahi" and "hoyada Wase" So safe to say i got them Somali Washed

They did you wrong my ninja.

I hate how Somalis declare everything even remotely different cadaan. Worst part is, even younger Somalis do

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Domestic abuse and Butt whoopings. I used to go to school wirh bruises all over my body and say it was from falling.

 

[emptyheartsflow]

Domestic abuse and Butt whoopings. I used to go to school wirh bruises all over my body and say it was from falling.

bruises are sexy though.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

bruises are sexy though.

Spoken like a true Arab worshipper.

 

[Apollo]

Quran school.

Very pointless. No benefit whatsoever.

 

[Mercury]

Answer my question

Im a Guy and I Cook and clean cause otherwise it would be pathetic to ask My mom or relatives to fix me food and clean for me when Im an adult

I get that some Enjoy being treated like a toddler thats waiting to be fed But thats not for me

 

[oday1kenobi]

Absolutely loathed madrassa

After all i went through, i can't even remember alif, baa, t...

I forgot.

 

[McLovin]

I hate how non restrictive they were, practically the streets raised me. It couldve turned out horribly but fortunately i had a good head on my shoulders so i avoided most trouble

Very bad parenting technique, would not follow

 

[government]

I hate how non restrictive they were, practically the streets raised me. It couldve turned out horribly but fortunately i had a good head on my shoulders so i avoided most trouble

Very bad parenting technique, would not follow

It's complete opposite of my parents technique

 

[McLovin]

It's complete opposite of my parents technique

Only thing that mattered to them was my grades

Are you girl by any chance? They were the complete opposite with my sister too

 

[government]

Are you girl by any chance? They were the complete opposite with my sister too

No I'm a man my parents thought that if I go out with my friends we will all smoke pot together

 

[Codeine]

I hate how non restrictive they were, practically the streets raised me. It couldve turned out horribly but fortunately i had a good head on my shoulders so i avoided most trouble

Very bad parenting technique, would not follow

Same here, we were just expected to not do dumb shit. And guess what, we didn't. Most Somalis I've discussed this with always seem to praise it and see it as ideal. But I'm witchu, terrible technique. 4/10, would not recommend

 

[Jjero]

My abtiyo use to touch me and whenever I would tell my family they would say lying is haram and sku xishood nin baad tahay.

That's sad wallahi
same thing happened to me but with my dads friend

 

[Codeine]

That's sad wallahi
same thing happened to me but with my dads friend

Did anything happen to him?

 

[Jjero]

Did anything happen to him?

I don't know
it was back in Ethiopia, and i left about 4 years ago

 

[McLovin]

Same here, we were just expected to not do dumb shit. And guess what, we didn't. Most Somalis I've discussed this with always seem to praise it and see it as ideal. But I'm witchu, terrible technique. 4/10, would not recommend

I still did dumb shit its just that i rarely got caught

 

[waraabe]

if my room is messy don't come in

very simple

 

[Apollo]

Well, perhaps the only positive benefit of Somali Quran School was that I got to know almost all the Somali kids from my city through it. Only about ~100 of them at the time.