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Angelina

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I’m sick and tired of men who have a history and baggage expecting to be with someone who has persevered themselves from the sake of Allah. I’ve seen your posts in the past, you’ve shown time and time again that you used to have loose morals and if you’ve changed, MashaAllah, hence you should give your bride the benefit of the doubt and hope that she has also repented as well.

I also have to add, as a person before marrying, you need to do your background check. You married her without making sure about her past, but I also have to add, Allah is just and it might be that Allah has blinded you to her past because ultimately this is what you deserve.

Instead of coming on this forum and being advised by a bunch of teens who are barely adults, ask yourself, do you want another divorce under your belt? Do you want to traumatize a girl of 22 who has clearly been through a lot? Not only do you also have a lot of baggage, you’re also significantly older. How about you man up, take accountability and try and hold down your family and steer BOTH of you in a God conscience direction in which you both repent and turn your backs on whatever it is you’ve done which most on this forum know and also convince your wife to also become closer to the deen.

Both of you, my advise is to seek refuge in Allah.
 
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