What should I do?

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Brother you think I didnt try that already? I told her that I am feeling frustrated its not lack of sex its lack of pleasure during intercourse! I am not attracted to her

If I think you're talking about what I think you're talking about, then Kegel exercises should help.
Why's your wife not taking birth control sxb? Having kids one after the other is exhausting wallahi.

 

[TekNiKo]

Sxb what is the main cause for your dissatisfaction? Is the Malab not the same as when you married her?

Something like that bro gimme advice

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Something like that bro gimme advice

I can’t think of anything at the moment. Is the girl from back home or Canadian?

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I can’t think of anything at the moment. Is the girl from back home or Canadian?

The mrs strengthening her pelvic floor muscles is the only thing that would help OP's situation.

 

[cawaale]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

You went to Somalia to marry an fgm xalimo and now your complaining, nacala, sexual predators like you should be in jail

 

[greyhound stone]

You went to Somalia to marry an fgm xalimo and now your complaining, nacala, sexual predators like you should be in jail

SXB LAY of his case. Your moving like a fed kmt. Yes I feel sorry for family xalimos but he's not the problem here

 

[KobeBryant]

Whats her clan

 

[Western4Life]

Just say she has become loose. You're beating around the bush.

@TekNiKo is freaking out because the second child is on the way, which will make it even more loose. I imagine he wants more than two children.

I would recommend you stay in the marriage for the sake of your children. Their success in life largely depends on being in a 2 parent household. If that means no young punani for you, then so be it. Sex is less enjoyable as years go by anyway.

 

[Mozart]

Is it true ethnic women are lazy in bed ya akhi ?

 

[TekNiKo]

Thanks guys I have decided not to go ahead with divorce and have taken your overwhelming advice. I wiill try to be patient and overcome for the sake of united family.

This is why I love Sspot I had no other avenue to ask for advice thanks.

 

[Ladylike]

Thanks guys I have decided not to go ahead with divorce and have taken your overwhelming advice. I wiill try to be patient and overcome for the sake of united family.

This is why I love Sspot I had no other avenue to ask for advice thanks.

Trolling

 

[Calaf]

GYM. Bang it out. You will 100% enjoy it

Mashallah and Mabrook on the second child. But don't divorce. It ain't worth it.

 

[BobSmoke]

I dont watch **** often. Pre baby she was good now I feel nothing.

Have her doing kegels and use a yoni egg. I heard these things makes the walls tighter and stronger

 

[Abba Sadacha]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

she is your wife, right? she loves you, she is there for you, she takes care of your kids, helps you in dunya and Islamic affairs... so, for that, I'd say, sit her down, maybe after the baby is born inshaaAllaah, and have an open, heart to heart talk... do not be so quick to divorce, as divorce is the most hated halal thing to Allaah.... have patience, remember, a good woman is rare and if you have one, it's better than all the money, cars, and things in this dunya combined....

 

[Dontcomefome]

Um why don't you tell her these things maybe spice things up in the bedroom order things from Amazon, Sex stores etc

 

[Ladylike]

she is your wife, right? she loves you, she is there for you, she takes care of your kids, helps you in dunya and Islamic affairs... so, for that, I'd say, sit her down, maybe after the baby is born inshaaAllaah, and have an open, heart to heart talk... do not be so quick to divorce, as divorce is the most hated halal thing to Allaah.... have patience, remember, a good woman is rare and if you have one, it's better than all the money, cars, and things in this dunya combined....

Actually divorce is better in a lot cases. A lot people stay married yet abuse one their spouses. If Allah hated divorce he wouldnt have allowed it so stop it. If there is abuse i say divorce.

 

[pirater]

nah man you're weird. You're willing to leave your child and your wife just because you arent getting horny. There's so many things you can do. buy a sex toy. do some freaky shit.

 

[Abba Sadacha]

Actually divorce is better in a lot cases. A lot people stay married yet abuse one their spouses. If Allah hated divorce he wouldnt have allowed it so stop it. If there is abuse i say divorce.

Yes, but we are not talking about a lot of cases. We're talking about this case in particular. This isn't abuse. This is an issue that can be solved with patience and work, if it's just a matter of physical gratification.

 

[pirater]

Actually divorce is better in a lot cases. A lot people stay married yet abuse one their spouses. If Allah hated divorce he wouldnt have allowed it so stop it. If there is abuse i say divorce.

divorce for basically no reason is wrong. This isn't abuse. he wants to leave just because he doesn't get horny the way he use to.

 

[Djokovic]

Your extreme love for farmaajo has turned you gay