What should I do?

[TekNiKo]

bro having a 2nd wife is halal and you have the right to have 3 more wives.

bro wallahi if my wife tries to stop me from marrying another woman I will divorce her immediately..

Absolutely I need a 2nd wife. She can meet my sexual needs and I can still be a great father and husband to my 1st wife. But she absolutely won't budge when I told her I need it she said she will request a divorce. So either way divorce is on the table.

 

[Muzaffer]

''what'' nigga calm down

I'm just joking.

I personally see that he should talk with her seriously and find a win-win solution.

 

[Muzaffer]

Absolutely I need a 2nd wife. She can meet my sexual needs and I can still be a great father and husband to my 1st wife. But she absolutely won't budge when I told her I need it she said she will request a divorce. So either way divorce is on the table.

of course but first, have talk with her and take deep thinking because mostly it's a one-way ticket.

 

[Lostbox]

Just rub one out mate

 

[Mukhy]

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[Hared]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

forget about second wife you were not even mature for the first one judging from your posting.
do you know how much she is putting up by your lack of satisfying her. rue the day our somali ladies
decide to hold as to account on matters satysfaction

 

[Basra]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

Marry a second wife-- a digital one. Anime?

 

[Lostbox]

Marry a second wife-- a digital one. Anime?

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My second wife will be 2D

 

[TekNiKo]

For all the men here who say I or any of the girls are bullshitting when we say Somali men make bad husbands and even worse fathers and that absent father is rampant and the number one cause of troubled youth and young adults in the community...well here’s exhibit A!

Dude got married only 4 years and has 1 kid another on the way and he uses terms like this “I need a new younger wife!” Apparently 4 yrs has aged his wife by decades and she’s no longer young or new like she’s a car or a phone! By having his kid he now looks down at her instead of being grateful and uplifting her! And his family planning is only for 5yrs! Lol not 20 or 30 yrs nope just 5! This type of caqli lix saac self serving attutude towards marriage/family has wrecked our community. Clearly this guy sees marriage as a temporary means to an end....his pleasure! He could careless about his kids or wife. No decent man would think about divorce when his wife is pregnant and a toddler at home in the month of Ramadan nonetheless!

Decent I spoil and wine and dine her and do everything. I deserve to be satisfied and its s religious right, its the pillar of marriage. Never did I physically abuse her nor did I abandon my kids. Stop slandering me. Sexual frustration can destroy a.man you just cant understand the way we feel. Its why polygamy even exists. Or would you rather I cheat? Which is much worst

 

[elite1337]

im not as experienced as u are but are u really sure u wanna go through all that divorce stuff and ur kids being in the mix too?

 

[@shininglight]

did she gain weight, if so you guys need to work out

What has gaining weight got 2 do with sex?

 

[TekNiKo]

Patience, compassion and love for your wife is also a pillar! Allah did not instruct you to bail at the first sign of trouble. You say I don’t understand sexual frustration for a man but you don’t understand even a greater issue here and that’s pregnancy! Two pregnancies in four years it’s a lot! And if you can’t even show her empathy and patience when she needs most, then what kinda husband are you? what kinda of man are you? Also Allah did not okay polygamy so a man has access to sex 24/7! Are you insane! Wtf. There are men who are celibate for years for the sake of Allah, if you can’t even have patience with your physically pregnant wife, whose carrying your own child than maybe it’s time you stop blaming her and look inwardly because something maybe be wrong with you. Smh

Patience, compassion and love for your wife is also a pillar! Allah did not instruct you to bail at the first sign of trouble. You say I don’t understand sexual frustration for a man but you don’t understand even a greater issue here and that’s pregnancy! Two pregnancies in four years it’s a lot! And if you can’t even show her empathy and patience when she needs most, then what kinda husband are you? what kinda of man are you? Also Allah did not okay polygamy so a man has access to sex 24/7! Are you insane! Wtf. There are men who are celibate for years for the sake of Allah, if you can’t even have patience with your physically pregnant wife, whose carrying your own child than maybe it’s time you stop blaming her and look inwardly because something maybe be wrong with you. Smh

Whats wrong with polygamy its a win win she gets to stay with me while I can release.my urges with 2nd wifey every other night. Some men have a high libido and cannot wait. Also its not haram so I dont know why you keep saying "during Ramadan". You know sex is halal after sunset right? We aint Jews.

 

[elite1337]

My second wife will be 2D

i mean its halal so why not

 

[Hared]

Whats wrong with polygamy its a win win she gets to stay with me while I can release.my urges with 2nd wifey every other night. Some men have a high libido and cannot wait. Also its not haram so I dont know why you keep saying "during Ramadan". You know sex is halal after sunset right? We aint Jews.

nothing wrong with polygamy, its just for real men not toddlers like you who cant even handle one

 

[Destiny]

What a lame troll thread. Do better next time.

 

[TekNiKo]

nothing wrong with polygamy, its just for real men not toddlers like you who cant even handle one

And I am sure you can Mr.Millionaire as if a millionaire would be on Sspot instead of balling irl.

 

[Hared]

And I am sure you can Mr.Millionaire as if a millionaire would be on Sspot instead of balling irl.

thats the problem with being rich in a society of poor people, they think that being rich makes you superhuman
you are as normal as any other with the same human challenges facing others albeit in a bit more comfortable
setting

 

[Ladylike]

Men are so selfish. Dont put your worth in a man young ladies.they’re busy chasing the next nut.

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

Sxb what is the main cause for your dissatisfaction? Is the Malab not the same as when you married her?

 

[Desert Flower]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

Sexual pleasure in marriage goes both ways. It’s not just about your needs. Don’t dissolve a marriage simply because of your “appetite.”

Have sabr and work together to fix this issue. Running to marry another woman isn’t the answer and you could have the same issues. Learn to deal with the problems in your marriage. You’re a whole father.