What should I do?

[TekNiKo]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

 

[@shininglight]

My significant other doesnt satisfy me any more. I am very sexually frustrated ever since she had our daughter she doesnt satisfy me any longer. Now she is pregnant again and its even worst I feel angry and sexually frustrated

Is this enough grounds for divorce? She just aint the same we are.married 4 years

 

[Material]

Get yourself an affair.

 

[TekNiKo]

Get yourself an affair.

Bro I dont want to commit zina, the whole reason I got married was for halal. She wont even let me get a 2nd wife. I am reaching the boiling point.

 

[romanzolanski]

men like you are really just such pathetic creatures
you can’t go without sex? what a coomer....

 

[AbdiS]

Worry about raising your daughter and your soon to-be-born new child. You get married to do such things, not having wasmo every 2 days.

Trust me, for the sake of your children (if you actually have them), get off the internet and spend as much time with them. Spend a lot of time with your wife as well. You'll be answerable to Allah (SWT) on judgement day for having blessing you children, and not raising them properly.

If you do such things, then Fabi'dnillah, your private affairs with your wife would slowly get less frustrating Inshallah.

 

[TekNiKo]

Worry about raising your daughter and your soon to-be-born new child. You get married to do such things, not having wasmo every 2 days.

Trust me, for the sake of your children (if you actually have them), get off the internet and spend as much time with them. Spend a lot of time with your wife as well. You'll be answerable to Allah (SWT) on judgement day for having blessing you children, and not raising them properly.

If you do such things, then Fabi'dnillah, your private affairs with your wife would slowly get less frustrating Inshallah.

Bro I love my daughter very much and spend alot of time with her. But isnt it the right of husband for his wife to be pleasurable? I am just not getting same pleasure after baby and can barely get off. I need a new wife that is young, now I shall do family planning for 5 years inshallah.

 

[TekNiKo]

Its you, not her. Stop watching **** its unrealistic.

I dont watch often. Pre baby she was good now I feel nothing.

 

[greyhound stone]

Wait and be patient. Kids come before your pleasure. The reason why many somali kids are the way they are is because of fathers putting pleasure before his children. Your kids are number 1 priority. There is ways of getting pleasure. Dolls, sexual toys etc.

 

[TekNiKo]

Wait and be patient. Kids come before your pleasure. The reason why many somali kids are the way they are is because of fathers putting pleasure before his children. Your kids are number 1 priority. There is ways of getting pleasure. Dolls, sexual toys etc.

Sexual toys? Come on! This must be a troll post nothing is better than the flesh of a woman.

 

[greyhound stone]

Sexual toys? Come on! This must be a troll post nothing is better than the flesh of a woman.

OK then you could speak to your wife. Make a resolution with her. Sxb being quite won't get you no where. You have to explain what you want

 

[AbdiS]

Bro I love my daughter very much and spend alot of time with her. But isnt it the right of husband for his wife to be pleasurable? I am just not getting same pleasure after baby and can barely get off. I need a new wife that is young, now I shall do family planning for 5 years inshallah.

I get it, saxiib. Just don't think about s^x a lot. Trust me, if you do, the pleasurability of intercourse would feel significantly more better. You need to relax your mind & thoughts from thinking about such things.

Soo ciibaadayso sxb. It's Ramadan, just forget about having sex and focus on remembering Allah (SWT). Get off the internet as well. When you're on the internet too much, reoccurring thoughts of fornication will pop up. I also have the same problem. I usually read Quran to ease my sexual temptations, and would do a lot of dhikr when I feel too horny. You could also pump some iron in the Gym if Ciibadaah gets too tiring for you.

If it's getting too much for you, and you desperately need your spouse to pleasure in bed, then by all means, go for another one! However, what'll happen to your children once you leave? How would your daughter feel about her father changing spouses? How would your wife feel about her divorce, knowing that the motives behind it was due to a lack of pleasurability in bed?

It's too much rafaad and hassle to switch wives sxb. Just stick to one and find something more than wasmo to your wife.

 

[Empress of Hawiye]

Wait and be patient. Kids come before your pleasure. The reason why many somali kids are the way they are is because of fathers putting pleasure before his children. Your kids are number 1 priority. There is ways of getting pleasure. Dolls, sexual toys etc.

@greyhound stone giving relationship advice

 

[greyhound stone]

@greyhound stone giving relationship advice

You'd dont know me sxb. Cut the hate

 

[KawhiLeonard]

you should post this on reddit.

 

[TekNiKo]

OK then you could speak to your wife. Make a resolution with her. Sxb being quite won't get you no where. You have to explain what you want

Brother you think I didnt try that already? I told her that I am feeling frustrated its not lack of sex its lack of pleasure during intercourse! I am not attracted to her

 

[TekNiKo]

I get it, saxiib. Just don't think about s^x a lot. Trust me, if you do, the pleasurability of intercourse would feel significantly more better. You need to relax your mind & thoughts from thinking about such things.

Soo ciibaadayso sxb. It's Ramadan, just forget about having sex and focus on remembering Allah (SWT). Get off the internet as well. When you're on the internet too much, reoccurring thoughts of fornication will pop up. I also have the same problem. I usually read Quran to ease my sexual temptations, and would do a lot of dhikr when I feel too horny. You could also pump some iron in the Gym if Ciibadaah gets too tiring for you.

If it's getting too much for you, and you desperately need your spouse to pleasure in bed, then by all means, go for another one! However, what'll happen to your children once you leave? How would your daughter feel about her father changing spouses? How would your wife feel about her divorce, knowing that the motives behind it was due to a lack of pleasurability in bed?

It's too much rafaad and hassle to switch wives sxb. Just stick to one and find something more than wasmo to your wife.

Wallahi I know sxb its heartbreaking, but I am feeling miserable and unhappy. Should I stay in a sexless pleasureless marriage for the sake of my children? This is akin to torture.

 

[exposedmeat]

did she gain weight, if so you guys need to work out

 

[Muzaffer]

Bro I dont want to commit zina, the whole reason I got married was for halal. She won't even let me get a 2nd wife. I am reaching the boiling point.

bro having a 2nd wife is halal and you have the right to have 3 more wives.

bro wallahi if my wife tries to stop me from marrying another woman I will divorce her immediately..

 

[exposedmeat]

bro having a 2nd wife is halal and you have the right to have 3 more wives.

bro wallahi if my wife tries to stop me from marrying another woman I will divorce her immediately..

''what'' nigga calm down