Yes it is 100% gay.Not wanting to f*ck people you've built trust and deep interpersonal relationships with = gay?
I hope you're in your teens, otherwise that might've been the most jaw-droppingly retarded thing I've seen a grown man post on here for a while
The only time a man should ever have a close relationship with a woman is when he is married to her, this should be a time where it is a sexual and intimate relationship.
If you are able to have close relationships with woman and not be sexually attracted to them you have gone against your fitra and become more feminine, any man who can be close friends with woman and hang around them all the time absorbs there feminine energy and becomes more womanly.
In fact your relationship with your wife will not be special at all, as all parts of your relationship that you have will already have been shared between other woman in ur life, and u would have already experienced it before