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Dude was just very jealous also very insecure.

He genuinely thought I was some property lmaooooooo, like telling me what to do, how to act and what to wear?

Dude was so mental in his head for no reason. Most of my male friends are Somali but he had an issue with them for the stupiedst things, whenever we were all talking in Somali he was having a fit like a baby. He eventually wanted me to drop my childhood friends which I simply said View attachment 210575

Eventually my patience was done when he was telling me to send pictures of what I was going to wear??? Like who does he think he is??? My father? He wanted me to do that everyday!!!

I eventually broke up with him and told him to find a servant for himself because I was not a servant and was a human being with opinions lmaooooo he seriously gave off small dick energy because what kind of person acts like that? He became a ***** to me so I had to get rid off the *****.

I also didn’t like his family
This is what I hear from Somali girls who've dated an arab or in general dudes from the middle eastern culture (turkey and Iran included) they're very controlling of the females.
 
I mean you seem like someone that respects servicemen and women and would fight for Queen and Country (being a bit of a loyalist) but never took you as someone who would enlist. I suppose you never know.

No this guy wants to engage in the ry. Living in a camp full of men and testosterone is dream for this guy. :damedamn:
It’s like telling a straight man you’ll get to live X amount of years on an all female island and you have a good chance of running thru a whole bunch.
 

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I have had experiences that were not in the positive realm but I have no regrets. Everything is a lesson that we can improve on :)
 

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This is what I hear from Somali girls who've dated an arab or in general dudes from the middle eastern culture (turkey and Iran included) they're very controlling of the females.
Yeah wollahi this! Idk if it’s a cultural difference between us but my previous boyfriends (who were Somali btw) never acted mental like this? They definitely had their own issue but they didn’t act as if I was their property at all! I was literally their equal but the Moroccan dude? Yuck never again
 
Yeah wollahi this! Idk if it’s a cultural difference between us but my previous boyfriends (who were Somali btw) never acted mental like this? They definitely had their own issue but they didn’t act as if I was their property at all! I was literally their equal but the Moroccan dude? Yuck never again
Arab girls prefer Somali dudes for this reason, I had some arab girls tell me how they prefer to be with faraxs compared to their own because of this reason.
 

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Arab girls prefer Somali dudes for this reason, I had some arab girls tell me how they prefer to be with faraxs compared to their own because of this reason.
It's in their culture. My father knew this Somali man studying in America in the 70s. This dhegocase girl begged him to marry her. He refused.
 
Yeah wollahi this! Idk if it’s a cultural difference between us but my previous boyfriends (who were Somali btw) never acted mental like this? They definitely had their own issue but they didn’t act as if I was their property at all! I was literally their equal but the Moroccan dude? Yuck never again
They trash as f*ck and treat women like slaves f*ck them
 

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Arab girls prefer Somali dudes for this reason, I had some arab girls tell me how they prefer to be with faraxs compared to their own because of this reason.
Yeah wollahi this! Idk if it’s a cultural difference between us but my previous boyfriends (who were Somali btw) never acted mental like this? They definitely had their own issue but they didn’t act as if I was their property at all! I was literally their equal but the Moroccan dude? Yuck never again

Reminds me of this:
Whether it was a good or terrible thing, Somalis were never really a hyper-religious group:

Though superstitious, the Somal are not bigoted like the Arabs, with the exception of those who, wishing to become learned, visit Yemen or El Hejaz, and catch the complaint. Nominal Mohammedans, El Islam hangs so lightly upon them, that apparently they care little for making it binding upon others.



Islam was adopted in a syncretic manner by our ancestors because it came to the region peacefully so a lot of the pre-Islamic culture and customs remained hence the attire and customs like keeping shepherd dogs in the past or practicing all kinds of weird shirk.

Even more recently I've listened to stories of older relations and one thing an old ayeeyo told me that really caught my eye was that, to her, Arabians were generally more fussy toward their women than the Somalis of her time. She told me a story about how a Somali who'd grown up in Saudi was her close family friend and she and her husband and his brother and sister had visited him in Riyadh back in the day and, according to her, he had adopted "dhaqan carbeed" and was over the top with how controlling he was toward her and the sister. Kept insisting they not leave the hotel needlessly and that he would bring them things they needed and when they visited him in his office he'd tell his male coworkers to not speak to them and to stay away. According to her this was not Somali custom and her husband and brother in law were not nearly as controlling and concerned with the comings and goings of women.
 
It's in their culture. My father knew this Somali man studying in America in the 70s. This dhegocase girl begged him to marry her. He refused.
I prefer my own kind over an ajnabi, when you marry someone you'll also marry into their family, for that reason one should be careful about marrying an ajnabi.
 

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i have a decaying tooth, will cost 15k to fix, wish i didn’t eat so much sugar…

I'd have probably lost my teeth years ago if it wasn't for my low-carb, carnivore way of eating for years now. I have recessed gums due to my previous orthodontic work from my teens and some poor bone support. The ortho I visited a few years back for an assessment seemed kinda surprised I even had teeth, let alone very clean, strong teeth like mine. I get the sense that if I'd continued to gorge junk these last several years I'd be wearing loads of implants right about now, brushing or no.
 

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I prefer my own kind over an ajnabi, when you marry someone you'll also marry into their family, for that reason one should be careful about marrying an ajnabi.
I agree. The preference for ones own was always strong especially in those days. In the above scenario the girl wanted to escape her home, was far from respectable and he probably had someone to marry back home waiting for him. I do not think the Abdi wanted to be with that type aka a Rahaf lite.
 

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I wish I picked up boxing when I younger instead of being a saqajaan :mjcry:
Muhammed Ali always been one of my heroes ever since a tender age even :kendrickcry:

I retardedly sold Ethereum from having bought it in the cents and sold it when it hit about 10 bucks. I thought Vitalik Buterin was an untrustworthy Russian scammer.

Biggest mistake of my life. :kendrickcry: :mjcry:
 

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I retardedly sold Ethereum from having bought it in the cents and sold it when it hit about 10 bucks. I thought Vitalik Buterin was an untrustworthy Russian scammer.

Biggest mistake of my life. :kendrickcry: :mjcry:
Holy shit. such regret would last me a lifetime unless I become super religious
 

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Meh, it happened to a lot of people.

Before the 2017 cycle without the legitimation by Wall Street types many people thought crypto was a big scam.
Some Influential investors like Chamath Palihapitiya saw potential in Bitcoin since 2011
 

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