It seems like a lot of Somali youth on the West Coast had a pretty good life compared to those of us in the Midwest, like Ohio and Minnesota. I can't help but feel a bit jealous, not in a bad way though, as I see their parents and communities creating a nice environment. Where I grew up, violence and drugs were common, with too many funerals for friends lost. I've noticed their parents helping out with weddings, even though I personally think the guy should handle that. Despite the perks, there are downsides, like some of them not really experiencing real struggles and sometimes trying to act tough despite growing up in a wealthy setting. Plus, some are less religious, which is different from the strong religious influence in our Midwest community.