West african Muslim sisters asks why somali men insult Somali women who divest

[AbrahamFreedom]

You gotta point we aired out our dirty laundry for the world to see most insults people use against Somalis were created by Somalis themselves

The other thing is alot of people out there are miserable and like to see other people that are miserable too. Somalis feed them this stuff so of course non-Somalis will enjoy what they're viewing. A happy and content non-Somali has no interest in this kind of material.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

The other thing is alot of people out there are miserable and like to see other people that are miserable too. Somalis feed them this stuff so of course non-Somalis will enjoy what they're viewing. A happy and content non-Somali has no interest in this kind of material.

Alot of people hate us and are waiting for us to slip up you can notice this on twitter when something bad happens to us youd think they won the super bowl the way their celebrating idiots still don’t seem to notice this

 

[The Somali Caesar]

I maybe in the minority but I couldn't care less if a Halimo wanted to marry a Tyrone or a Steve or a Abu Hamza. So long as she ain't related to me. Not my problem

 

[hinters]

I was on tiktok a few weeks back and I saw a live full of Eritreans mocking some Eritrean girls/guys for marrying black Africans (they were all ugly too).
I had my Habesha boy translate it for me and he said they were calling them all sorts of names ranging from monkey to slave etc.. there were literally well over 1k people in the live many of which were being racist in the comments.
They were being just as racist if not more racist than any Somali trolls but no one ever says anything to Habeshas. Why? Because when they are racist they do it in there own language. Everyone was talking in Tigrinya and many were typing using the Ge’ez script so ajnabis won’t have a clue what there saying unlike Somali trolls who choose to be publicly racist in perfect English.

I gotta brush up on my somali so I can be racist more discreetly

 

[Angelina]

Somalis and their lack of accountability. You’re out here calling your women ‘cheap and clean’ in ENGLISH for the world to see and you think you won’t be questioned? You literally celebrate when the men marry out but smam the comments of women when they do calling them for everyone on tiktok to read so yes, people will comment.

Also, Lol @ the Somalis here who say that Somalis never talk about West African and madow issues. You do, especially on this forum and I’ve seen it online in which you mock them for their baby mother culture or that their men often marry out.

At the end of the day, if you don’t want your shenanigans to be public, don’t bring it to the public domain, don’t insult your people in public and mind your business about who Somali women and men marry and then maybe others would mind their business as well. Imagine being so public and insulting your people for the whole world to see and then get angry when other nationalities question you in public.

If you behave like a fool on the world stage then outsiders in turn will ask stupid questions as well. That’s my take.

I honestly think Somalis online are so disgraceful and I hope more ajnabis question you lot so that Allah can put a bit of shame in your hearts. From the dancing Xalimo fobs in tight Baatis and gabasar to the Geeky Macrobian incels who abuse women, you lot need to be sorted out.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Somalis and their lack of accountability. You’re out here calling your women ‘cheap and clean’ in ENGLISH for the world to see and you think you won’t be questioned? You literally celebrate when the men marry out but smam the comments of women when they do calling them for everyone on tiktok to read so yes, people will comment.

Also, Lol @ the Somalis here who say that Somalis never talk about West African and madow issues. You do, especially on this forum and I’ve seen it online in which you mock them for their baby mother culture or that their men often marry out.

At the end of the day, if you don’t want your shenanigans to be public, don’t bring it to the public domain, don’t insult your people in public and mind your business about who Somali women and men marry and then maybe others would mind their business as well. Imagine being so public and insulting your people for the whole world to see and then get angry when other nationalities question you in public.

If you behave like a fool on the world stage then outsiders in turn will ask stupid questions as well. That’s my take.

I honestly think Somalis online are so disgraceful and I hope more ajnabis question you lot so that Allah can put a bit of shame in your hearts. From the dancing Xalimo fobs in tight Baatis and gabasar to the Geeky Macrobian incels who abuse women, you lot need to be sorted out.

Our bullshit online seems to more highly visible then any other African community I’m also starting to get highly suspicious of these Somalis who make proactive comments about race and gender online it just doesn’t seem natural tbh some of these people could be ……

 

[Angelina]

Our bullshit online seems to more highly visible then any other African community I’m also starting to get highly suspicious of these Somalis who make proactive comments about race and gender online it just doesn’t seem natural tbh some of these people could be agents

Agents? I don’t see why agents would infiltrate the Somali community. It makes sense as to why Somali weirdo macrobians would make comments about race and gender since we’re from a war torn country and many Somalis deep down have low self esteem because of that, hence their only way of feeling above others is obsession with Somali history and policing women due to patrilineal reasonings.

Also, I can imagine some of them were bullied for being Somali so when they see a Xalimo with a foreign male, they take it to heart and use that as an example of how undesirable they are, despite that Xalimo being a complete stranger who has probably never met them. That’s why their insult are incredibly vitriol.

They also do the same when it’s the opposite. If they see an Abdi with an ajnabi, particularly a pretty one, they use that as a marker of their desirability, hence why they get overly happy in the comments.

It’s loser behavior when you intertwine your personal identity and personality to that of the overall ethnicity. They have 0 sense of individuality.

 

[Al Adnani]

She is correct in this case. We should not give excessive attention to cases like this as it only ruins our image. Or at least do it in our mother tongues Arabic/Somali

 

[Layu]

Agents? I don’t see why agents would infiltrate the Somali community. It makes sense as to why Somali weirdo macrobians would make comments about race and gender since we’re from a war torn country and many Somalis deep down have low self esteem because of that, hence their only way of feeling above others is obsession with Somali history and policing women due to patrilineal reasonings.

Also, I can imagine some of them were bullied for being Somali so when they see a Xalimo with a foreign male, they take it to heart and use that as an example of how undesirable they are, despite that Xalimo being a complete stranger who has probably never met them. That’s why their insult are incredibly vitriol.

They also do the same when it’s the opposite. If they see an Abdi with an ajnabi, particularly a pretty one, they use that as a marker of their desirability, hence why they get overly happy in the comments.

It’s loser behavior when you intertwine your personal identity and personality to that of the overall ethnicity. They have 0 sense of individuality.

Are you describing "divestors"?
Somali women look at other communities and try to imitate them without the social or historical background.

Anybody who uses the term "ma3ro4ian" is mentally ill. They are broken.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Are you describing "divestors"?
Somali women look at other communities and try to imitate them without the social or historical background.

Anybody who uses the term "ma3ro4ian" is mentally ill. They are broken.

the macrobian trolls in our community behave more like the white supremacist trolls then anything even down to certain lingo even the femcel trolls employ different tactics then divestors

 

[Garaad Awal]

The lady is right but Somalis are only vicious when a Somali woman marries a black man.

 

[HabarSteven12]

Never discuss other communities problems publicly, just makes you look like a beg. She weird man.

This is what happens when you are too much online. She needs to touch grass.

Ina adeer ha caayin gabarta. Somalis are also involving themselves in other people's business. Just look at the constant degrading tweets about black people made by Somali nationalist Incels. You are being one-sided and unfair. Somali nationalists are always aggressively asserting themselves in conversations they have nothing to do with.

They are always degrading black people, instigating race wars, dehumanizing Somali women, and spreading outrageous historical inaccuracies about historical empires the Somali people had nothing to do with. Your comment is full of emotional subjectivity. Stop blaming Gabarta Miskeenta.

 

[HabarSteven12]

Our bullshit online seems to more highly visible then any other African community I’m also starting to get highly suspicious of these Somalis who make proactive comments about race and gender online it just doesn’t seem natural tbh some of these people could be ……

What do Ajanabi gain from cosplaying as Somali and causing havoc on Twitter? Serious question! Our community is extremely dysfunctional, and we lack international prestige or influence in the social, economic, and political arenas. Why would anyone want to cosplay as a Somali and spend their entire day harassing random Somali women and black people on social media? We don't pose a threat to any community. Ajanabis really don't think about Somalis like that. Somalis really need to stop deflecting blame on others for the serious problems within our community. We have a serious, growing, and raging Incel subculture in our community that needs to be urgently confronted.

 

[Angelina]

the macrobian trolls in our community behave more like the white supremacist trolls then anything even down to certain lingo even the femcel trolls employ different tactics then divestors

White supremacists tend to be the losers in their community. I was watching a documentary of this former white supremacist who basically said he did it because he didn’t have a lot of be personally proud of, hence he tied his identity to that of his group as some sort of protective shield. Macrobian trolls think the same way. They’re ashamed of Somalia in its current state and they probably don’t have a lot going for them personally so they use our culture and history as some sort of shield. Women marrying out reinforces their own insecurities as well.

 

[Xoriyo]

Somalis and their lack of accountability. You’re out here calling your women ‘cheap and clean’ in ENGLISH for the world to see and you think you won’t be questioned? You literally celebrate when the men marry out but smam the comments of women when they do calling them for everyone on tiktok to read so yes, people will comment.

Also, Lol @ the Somalis here who say that Somalis never talk about West African and madow issues. You do, especially on this forum and I’ve seen it online in which you mock them for their baby mother culture or that their men often marry out.

At the end of the day, if you don’t want your shenanigans to be public, don’t bring it to the public domain, don’t insult your people in public and mind your business about who Somali women and men marry and then maybe others would mind their business as well. Imagine being so public and insulting your people for the whole world to see and then get angry when other nationalities question you in public.

If you behave like a fool on the world stage then outsiders in turn will ask stupid questions as well. That’s my take.

I honestly think Somalis online are so disgraceful and I hope more ajnabis question you lot so that Allah can put a bit of shame in your hearts. From the dancing Xalimo fobs in tight Baatis and gabasar to the Geeky Macrobian incels who abuse women, you lot need to be sorted out.

Black men call Black women that go with white men bed wenches and in the UK, Black men refer to Black women as UK Beasts. While Black woman refer to Black men as bullet bags. Yet, Black women wouldn’t tolerate a Somali woman speaking on this.

There is a gender war in literally every community online and most do it in English using vile terms. Just got stuck on Albanian tiktok recently where they completely degraded Albanian women that go with Black men. Same with Arabs/North Africans that use vile terms that are easily understood.

The difference is that most people don’t tolerate outsiders speaking on their issues but ajanabis have realised that too many Somali women especially will easily consign an outsider speaking on inter community issues.

Especially when it’s under the cloak of the deen, sisterhood or ‘Africannes’. I have noticed the complete lack of any loyalty or setting of boundaries amongst too many Somali girls.

I dare a Somali girl to speak on how vile and abusive Black men are to their own women…Black women will be the first to tell her to shut up and mind her own business.

 

[Angelina]

Black men call Black women that go with white men bed wenches and in the UK, Black men refer to Black women as UK Beasts. While Black woman refer to Black men as bullet bags. Yet, Black women wouldn’t tolerate a Somali woman speaking on this.

There is a gender war in literally every community online and most do it in English using vile terms. Just got stuck on Albanian tiktok recently where they completely degraded Albanian women that go with Black men. Same with Arabs/North Africans that use vile terms that are easily understood.

The difference is that most people don’t tolerate outsiders speaking on their issues but ajanabis have realised that too many Somali women especially will easily consign an outsider speaking on inter community issues.

I know and I’ve spoken about how madow men are on this forum and tbh frank if madow men don’t want ajnabis like me to talk about them, then they need to behave themselves and stop dragging their women on the wide web. I find some of their behaviors sickening.

Especially when it’s under the cloak of the deen, sisterhood or ‘Africannes’. I have noticed the complete lack of any loyalty or setting of boundaries amongst too many Somali girls.

Sis, I can’t have boundaries when my people are wearing Baatis and gabasars shaking their ass and our men are behaving like insecure fools screaming ‘cheap and clean’ to such an extent everyone and their hooyos can see.

I dare a Somali girl to speak on how vile and abusive Black men are to their own women…Black women will be the first to tell her to shut up and mind her own business.

I’ve had conversations with madow female friends about their men. They’re in total agreement. I’ve had conversations with Pakistani sisters about in-law abuse. Unfortunately, it comes a time when things are so apparent to the world there is no hiding. Hence, I need my people, Somalis to start having a bit of shame and stop jumping on TikTok and screaming nonsense in English for the world to see. Also, instead of fearing others commentary, we need to fix up. Act like fools and the masses will treat you like one.

 

[Xoriyo]

I know and I’ve spoken about how madow men are on this forum and tbh frank if madow men don’t want ajnabis like me to talk about them, then they need to behave themselves and stop dragging their women on the wide web. I find some of their behaviors sickening.

Sis, I can’t have boundaries when my people are wearing Baatis and gabasars shaking their ass and our men are behaving like insecure fools screaming ‘cheap and clean’ to such an extent everyone and their hooyos can see.

I’ve had conversations with madow female friends about their men. They’re in total agreement. I’ve had conversations with Pakistani sisters about in-law abuse. Unfortunately, it comes a time when things are so apparent to the world there is no hiding. Hence, I need my people, Somalis to start having a bit of shame and stop jumping on TikTok and screaming nonsense in English for the world to see. Also, instead of fearing others commentary, we need to fix up. Act like fools and the masses will treat you like one.

Sis, I agree with you about the embarrassing antics of our people online and if it was up to me, tiktok would be banned to Somalis of all ages and genders.

However, there is clearly an agenda at play here. Madow female friends might agree with you privately about their men but they would not tolerate you speaking publicly on their behalf.

Nigerian men are notorious for selling their women on the streets of Europe which is widely publicised by Western Media. Do you think that a Xalimo could do a video on this without some backlash?

All I am saying is no matter what, we shouldn’t let outsiders that have their own issues speak freely on us. Especially not madows whose gender wars are far more notorious than ours. Not when they wouldn’t accept us doing the same.

 

[Ozymandias]

Sis, I agree with you about the embarrassing antics of our people online and if it was up to me, tiktok would be banned to Somalis of all ages and genders.

However, there is clearly an agenda at play here. Madow female friends might agree with you privately about their men but they would not tolerate you speaking publicly on their behalf.

Nigerian men are notorious for selling their women on the streets of Europe which is widely publicised by Western Media. Do you think that a Xalimo could do a video on this without some backlash?

All I am saying is no matter what, we shouldn’t let outsiders that have their own issues speak freely on us. Especially not madows whose gender wars are far more notorious than ours. Not when they wouldn’t accept us doing the same.

Naagnool gacanta baan ku taagay. Dadkan in ay howlaheena soo galaan ma aha wa ceeb iyo xaq daro. Its like a stranger coming into your house and telling you to clean up your own house, weird af

 

[Angelina]

Sis, I agree with you about the embarrassing antics of our people online and if it was up to me, tiktok would be banned to Somalis of all ages and genders.

However, there is clearly an agenda at play here. Madow female friends might agree with you privately about their men but they would not tolerate you speaking publicly on their behalf.

Nigerian men are notorious for selling their women on the streets of Europe which is widely publicised by Western Media. Do you think that a Xalimo could do a video on this without some backlash?

All I am saying is no matter what, we shouldn’t let outsiders that have their own issues speak freely on us. Especially not madows whose gender wars are far more notorious than ours. Not when they wouldn’t accept us doing the same.

You know what, I actually agree with you.

 

[Himmler]

All I am saying is no matter what, we shouldn’t let outsiders that have their own issues speak freely on us. Especially not madows whose gender wars are far more notorious than ours. Not when they wouldn’t accept us doing the same.

I agree with this but Somalis need to stop airing out our dirty laundry for the whole world to see, if there are Somali men/women who have genuine grievances with the opposite sex then we should have our own circles where we can have productive conversations on these matters but instead Somalis want to shit sling on public social media platforms for the ajnabis to see