We need bride kidnapping like in blessed Kyrgyzstan

[AussieHustler]

So you prefer poor skinnies paying 20k for mehr?

Cambuulo is partially correct. Bride kidnaping was the result of putting a heavy burden of yarrad (the money given to the parents and not the meher) on the shoulders of the groom and his family. The asking price was as high as 100 camels which only few wealthy nomads could afford. It’s still practiced but sporadically. The qudbosiro (secret) marriages has made a huge comeback and has replaced it, it’s even practiced in the diaspora with the abundance of single mothers.

 

[Zuzu5]

yes. not fluent though

all jokes aside, its cool that you know Swahili. I heard it was bantu and arabic mix.

 

[Adan]

Do you know what ZUZU means in Swahili?

Unajua kiswahili wacha uwongo!

 

[Disappointed]

That culture needs to be changed. Those women have to look over their shoulders every day. Only sick fucks want this for out beautiful Somali noblewomen.

 

[Mercury]

This happens around somalis if the Guy is too broke he Will run away with her

And if hes denied cause of his qabiil they elope

 

[Blade1]

Somalis elope not kidnap.
It's haram to kidnap a girl who doenst consent to the marry and is considered zina if you... you know do that.
It is haraam for the guardian (wali) of the woman to force her to marry someone she does not want and does not like, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The virgin should not be given in marriage until her permission has been sought.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6968; Muslim, 1419.

The apparent meaning is that this is general and applies to every virgin and every guardian; there is no difference between a father or any other guardian, hence al-Bukhaari interpreted the hadeeth by saying: “Chapter: The father or other guardian should not give a virgin or previously married woman in marriage except with their consent.”
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: With regard to giving her in marriage when she is reluctant, this is contrary to the basic principles and common sense. Moreover Allah did not allow her guardian to force her into buying or renting without her permission, or to eat or drink or wear something that she does not want, so how can he force her into sleeping with and living with someone she does not want to sleep with, and living with someone she does not want to live with.


You shouldn't elope either since getting blessing from father is very important in islam and our culture. I don't think there's any man that is good enough for me to even think about eloping

 

[Luna]

Some Somali guys used to kidnap women and force them to marry them.
Never would have believed this if it hadn't happened to a relative of mine