I love qabiil it's part of my identity as a Somali. I just don't like qabyaalad and negativity in generalIf you don't like the qabiil you don't have to.
I love qabiil it's part of my identity as a Somali. I just don't like qabyaalad and negativity in generalIf you don't like the qabiil you don't have to.
How is it qabyalad to want to stick to your clan?I love qabiil it's part of my identity as a Somali. I just don't like qabyaalad and negativity in general
I never said it is walaal you assumed I didn't like qabiil and I said that I do like qabil but not qabyaalad. I didn't say that marrying from you own clan is qabyaalad. All I'm saying is it is good to be open-minded and marry other qabiils.How is it qabyalad to want to stick to your clan?
I understand but that's just naive because on a race level people are more likely to marry the same race.I never said it is walaal you assumed I didn't like qabiil and I said that I do like qabil but not qabyaalad. I didn't say that marrying from you own clan is qabyaalad. All I'm saying is it is good to be open-minded and marry other qabiils.
I dont think so. I have pretty much every single tribe in my family outside of Raxanweyn.After civil war, we married limited the intermarriage between tribes
Tell that to Cali Waraabe whose wife is from Baidabo and said that Reer Konfur women are better than Reer Waqooyi.Nothing wrong with marrying from your clan/ subclan.
People from the same clan or neighbouring clan have the exact same culture, same dialects.
For example a man from Burco is going to struggle to understand a girl from baidabo, also the culture would be different.
That’s why most weddings back home are from the same clan, sub clan or neighbouring clan.
I dont think so. I have pretty much every single tribe in my family outside of Raxanweyn.
I have seen some parents that marry from the so called "enemy" tribe, but they wouldn't approve the same thing for their children though lol.That's why I'm a bit surprised about that.
I always heard it was weird to marry from the same subclan, you should marry from other clans. Are you iska dhal?I have seen some parents that marry from the so called "enemy" tribe, but they wouldn't approve the same thing for their children though lol.
I am from the same sub sub clanI always heard it was weird to marry from the same subclan, you should marry from other clans. Are you iska dhal?
I am from the same sub sub clan
But my grandparents from both sides are from different sub clans.
My parents are an exception in the family, my uncle is married to an Abgaal lady.Doesn't that prove Canucks point?
Your dad is from Laascaanood, is your mum from the same town?My parents are an exception in the family, my uncle is married to an Abgaal lady.
I am literally the only one in the family that is Dhulbahante on both sides (and my siblings of course)
Tell that to Cali Waraabe whose wife is from Baidabo and said that Reer Konfur women are better than Reer Waqooyi.
Nah, it is the other way around. My mum was born in Laascaanood and came to Xamar only for university whilst my dad is from Xamar, and his family is from Kismayo. He has no family in the North.Your dad is from Laascaanood, is your mum from the same town?
True but it's less common to marry someone of your own race now more than ever. I think it's the same with qabil too as in the west there is more qabil mixing than there has ever been back homeI understand but that's just naive because on a race level people are more likely to marry the same race.
Interesting. My grandmother was born in the north but raised in the south, she sounds more northern though. Only my grandfathers side are in the north.Nah, it is the other way around. My mum was born in Laascaanood and came to Xamar only for university whilst my dad is from Xamar, and his family is from Kismayo. He has no family in the North.
True but it's less common to marry someone of your own race now more than ever. I think it's the same with qabil too as in the west there is more qabil mixing than there has ever been back home