these girls should be more careful. these r not the days your sin stays between you and Allah. with the internet and qrxis culture, its over for you. and we dont come from a culture where the guys have anything to lose, they actually want people to see them engaged in sin, and on top of that they have no respect for women or a conscience. its not an equal playing field.
		
		
	 
Can't believe this has to be said, but its true. I remember hearing a story where a guy and a girl were at some hotel and wanted to get intimate, then the guy pulled out a video recorder and convinced the girl to let him film them. They broke up and he exposed her to everyone.
My advice to sisters is that if a guy 
ever asks you for nudes or videos, block him. I don't care who he is. These men have no xishood and will expose you, and your rep will be ruined forever. I mean, look at how some of the men on this forum talk about women. That tells you all you need to know. Keep your head up high, and the right guy who won't ever ask you for ish, let alone has no idea what you look like underneath your clothes, will be more than happy to be with you, and accept you for who you are. Naag nool iska dhig.