Ofc there's no free lunch. But who do you ally yourself with? A country (UAE) that is blocking the development of your ports to ensure their dominance of the Red Sea trade for Jebel Ali port? Or a country that needs your oil and gas which they don't naturally have? And you can parlay that into a win win situation? To me it makes more sense strategically to ally with a NATO power like Turkey with a proven military prowess than a jilbaab wearing Arab who can't even project power against Israel, their traditional rival
First you have to try to understand what they're really after. Only after understanding your opponents can you start to hold leverage over them.
First of all Turkey isn't after oil because
1. we don't have any proven deposits so why would they go through all that trouble if it's not even guaranteed
2. if we somehow did have oil then Turkey wouldn't even be in line to take a drop of it even if they provided 10x of what they already did. A single cough from a multinational oil giant would have them on their knees. They might be a super power to us but to the real big powers they aren't worth shid.
What they're really after is pretty much an ego play by Erdogan and a way to make money. He wants to create a neo Ottoman empire or sphere of influence since he thinks that would somehow play well with his domestic followers... it's just all posturing.
Erdogan is also using it to funnel Turkish tax payers money on Somali development projects into his own pockets by hiring his family and friends to take on the construction jobs.
So he using Somalia to posture to Turkish voters that he's rebuilding the great Turkey of the past while also using Somalia to probably fund his re-election schemes and to keep his political lieutenants happy.
Like all other dictators all he cares about his holding on to power. That's his real goal with Somalia.
Once we know that we have him by the balls and there are plenty of ways we could use this as leverage to get them to help lift the embargo.
As for UAE the western condoms? Not sure what they're real goals are. The west isn't a monolith bloc like Turkey.