Trying to be understanding: what do you as a Somali women or man wish the other gender understood about you?

[Octavian]

Like how could we better understand your perspective and what you go through? Like something you are afraid to say. But you are more than welcome to say it here.

I’m not judging!

expect everything from makeshift armada of drones and chill soldiers somalia ain't invading it self

 

[Jaydaan]

Who said I wouldn’t? What’s with the assumptions?

Even not married I just find solo travelling weird. just like solo going to restaurant or cinema. But if my "lesser" half said she wanted to travel alone I would freak out no lie

 

[Desert Flower]

Even not married I just find solo travelling weird. just like solo going to restaurant or cinema. But if my "lesser" half said she wanted to travel alone I would freak out no lie

That’s on you. Identify the reasons “why?”

 

[Jaydaan]

That’s on you. Identify the reasons “why?”

because its not normal behaviour. Married people dont go on vacation alone

 

[__08]

I‘d want him to be my cheerleader, when I come home from work I want him to cater to me. When he sees I‘m in a bad mood, I want him to know just by looking at my waji and immediately do anything to cheer me up. No buuq, no calaacal nothing. That is all. Guys, is it too much, will I stay single for life?

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Aww you can definitely get that. That’s not impossible.

 

[__08]

1. Stay faithful/loyal
2. stay fit and healthy
3. educate yourself, so we can have intellectual discussion on many topics or so your knowledge can be to help
4. Be supportive and obey whatever i see except for if I say something that is against the Deen

That is what I want from a wife

Fair enough.

 

[__08]

expect everything from makeshift armada of drones and chill soldiers somalia ain't invading it self
I totally get that.

 

[Gambar]

Dhimo doesn’t really mean dhimo.

 

[Octavian]

my ask what you think about my relatively reasonable proporistion madam

 

[Odkac WRLD]

I‘d want him to be my cheerleader, when I come home from work I want him to cater to me. When he sees I‘m in a bad mood, I want him to know just by looking at my waji and immediately do anything to cheer me up. No buuq, no calaacal nothing. That is all. Guys, is it too much, will I stay single for life?

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This is simply too much.

 

[__08]

Dhimo doesn’t really mean dhimo.

Heat of the moment arguing?

 

[__08]

my ask what you think about my relatively reasonable proporistion madam

Sounds reasonable.

 

[__08]

This is simply too much.

I bet you wife will be a Goblin, her speech is not words but high pitches screaming, she’d slid the plate of food to you saying *weird noises
Then y’all go to bed. And you tell people you have a lovely wife but we never see her!

 

[Odkac WRLD]

I bet you wife will be a Goblim, her speech is not words but high pitches screaming, she’d slid the plate of food to you saying *weird noises
Then y’all go to bed. And you tell people you have a lovely wife but we never see her!

I will utterly dominate my household what is this habaar you are throwing my way?

 

[__08]

I will utterly dominate my household what is this habaar you are throwing my way?

Imaooo

 

[Gambar]

Heat of the moment arguing?

It just means leave me alone.

 

[__08]

It just means leave me alone.

Ok I see. That would scare me.

 

[Reformed J]

Men need to know we’re not putting on makeup to impress them we really aren’t that desperate ! We are doing it for ourselves.

 

[Gambar]

Ok I see. That would scare me.

Are you even Somali? Dhimo is regular lexicon.

 

[Octavian]

This is simply

coorect I wonder how her father treated her as a child