Toxic Somali Women

[Desert Flower]

Bruh that’s nothing

I’m glad I didn’t waste my time explaining what those terms are for you, since you lack the empathy to consider other people’s situations and feelings.

Good riddance.

 

[Angelina]

Ok yeah that definitely makes sense! It’s no wonder I have a visceral reaction to them because it’s novel yet disturbing/pathetic. It’s gross seeing guys behave like that. Tbh a lot of the younger generation of our men are like this, even the western born ones but the fobs are worse.

I've always found it feminine. Sitting around discussing women and to think these men will end up being fathers with grown kids and grandfathers calling women for not conforming to their standards. Aaf xaar. It isn't dignified whatsoever, at least older odeys simply discuss politics and faadi ku dir rather than what hablaayo is doing.

 

[jabsveg276]

I’m glad I didn’t waste my time explaining what those terms are for you, since you lack the empathy to consider other people’s situations and feelings.

Good riddance.

Sxb random Twitter trolls are nothing, but I agree that some Somali men are trash

when @Angelina said micromanaging and policing somali women, I thought she meant Somali men IRL harassing Somali women over clothing, going out etc, not some random trolls online

sorry if you took that the wrong way

 

[jabsveg276]

Attacking everything a Somali girl does they don't agree with. Its pathetic as there are millions of us, so there are bound to be Somali girls that go off the rails, similar to the way there are bound to be Somali guys that are messing up as well.

Oh ok, would you say their are people who are toxic and micromanaging on both sides? Or is it just from men?

 

[Mozart]

A large proportion of Somalian women are witches. Look at how they expose one another online

 

[jabsveg276]

A large proportion of Somalian women are witches. Look at how they expose one another online

Somali women on Facebook and maxadro are fucking weirdos

 

[Mozart]

Somali women on Facebook and maxadro are fucking weirdos

They’re so ruthless to each other. It’s why the faux female unity on this site is jokes

 

[jabsveg276]

They’re so ruthless to each other. It’s why the faux female unity on this site is jokes

Hodaay this thread was about toxic Somali women/toxic Somali aunties and somehow the convo turned into toxic Somali men and shit

 

[jabsveg276]

I'm confused. I thought I replied respectfully to @Snacks.

He's just a kid, i'm not going to be rude.

I’m almost 18 so calm down

the thread was about toxic Somali aunties, but you guys took a few trolls online and applied their toxic rhetoric to Somali men

 

[Kanan]

Notice the same complaints with Habesha teen/youth.

It doesn't effect me though every habaryar wants to hook me up with her daughter so they're super friendly and shower me with praise on every occasion lol

Their life do revolves around their families and often times have this annoying bi weekly visits straight up without invitation talking about latest updates and gossiping.

It's like when their kids become adults they have nothing else to do with their life shaqola'animo 101

 

[TekNiKo]

Whats funny is most of these habars were living their best life during the 80s and 90s.

 

[Desert Flower]

Whats funny is most of these habars were living their best life during the 80s and 90s.

It’s the blatant hypocrisy for me.

 

[Angelina]

Sxb random Twitter trolls are nothing, but I agree that some Somali men are trash

when @Angelina said micromanaging and policing somali women, I thought she meant Somali men IRL harassing Somali women over clothing, going out etc, not some random trolls online

sorry if you took that the wrong way

Hey, this thread isn't an attack on Somali men or women. We've highlighted the problem with women and men. It isn't a gender war and I feel both the men and women on this thread have been pretty respectful. I'm not upset about some of the guys assessment of some Somali women being toxic because some can be. It is what it is.

 

[TekNiKo]

It’s the blatant hypocrisy for me.

They lived their best years and wanna police young Xalimoz. Most didnt wear hijab at all until 2000s.

 

[elite1337]

A large proportion of Somalian women are witches. Look at how they expose one another online

i wouldnt say large but theres definitely some sixir users out there

 

[orangeskys]

They lived their best years and wanna police young Xalimoz. Most didnt wear hijab at all until 2000s.

and they were quick to put their 3 year olds in hijabs

 

[Desert Flower]

and they were quick to put their 3 year olds in hijabs

This is a problem. We’re the only people who do that. Why? A girl doesn’t have to cover until she’s reached puberty.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Whats funny is most of these habars were living their best life during the 80s and 90s.

13 year old me listening to get rich or die trying

my hoyo turn off music listen to quraan, 10 mins later somali tracks blasting in the living room

 

[Angelina]

This is a problem. We’re the only people who do that. Why? A girl doesn’t have to cover until she’s reached puberty.

I've always wondered why we're the only community who will encourage a 4 year old to wear a jilbab which isn't exactly a smart move as they're young and prone to tripping. Other communities don't do this and their girls turn out just as modest MashaAllah.

 

[orangeskys]

This is a problem. We’re the only people who do that. Why? A girl doesn’t have to cover until she’s reached puberty.

Sadly I know a lot of girls who took it off as teens/in early adulthood because they felt like they were stripped of the choice growing up.