Toronto Mayor Resigns After Caught Having Affair With Colleague

[Abdisamad]

Exactly. My mother had 3 C sections and 5 children. She cooks, cleans, works, everything. My dad has never washed a dish in his life. After all she’s done for him he repays her like this. And it’s not my marriage like a lot of people here are saying but I’m scared that that is what’s waiting for me. And men are saying “make sure you vet the man to see if he is a good man and you’ll be fine”. But my father is a good man! So how do I even win? I don’t even want to get married at this point.

You need to put your trust in Allah, only Allah knows a person's future, we can't know or preplan our future faith or what's going to happen to us..

 

[Yaraye]

You need to put your trust in Allah, only Allah knows a person's future, we can't know or preplan our future faith or what's going to happen to us..

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[Amber]

Halimos get mad when you marry a 2nd wife when first wife gets old. Mr. Tory would probably do the samething if given the option. Men always desire young fertile women, it is natural.

that doesn't help the cause, walaal Just shut up about 2nd wives

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

You need to put your trust in Allah, only Allah knows a person's future, we can't know or preplan our future faith or what's going to happen to us..

Well that wasn’t good enough for my mother. Of course I put my trust in Allah but there has to be other precautions I can take. You can’t say “Allah will watch over me” and then leave your door wide open at night. Illogical

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

that doesn't help the cause, walaal Just shut up about 2nd wives

These men think that women are attracted to their 50 year old, fat, balding, nagging husbands. They aren’t. These men are acting on sexual impulse alone whereas women are more loyal and think of their children. Why are so many of these men so weak willed and controlled by lust? Degenerates

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

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They will never understand it. And if the man fcks off to his new wife the mother is left solely raising HER children. What a mess

 

[Yaraye]

that doesn't help the cause, walaal Just shut up about 2nd wives

I can see why someone named telecommunication Technology will cheat.

empathic and emotionally-aware person my ass! ​

 

[Abdisamad]

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Lool.. I meant in general walaal.. I can't even give you girls any advice without being met with suspicion and skepticism

 

[TekNiKo]

Cadaan men cheat or some others make an arrangement with the wife to join a swinger clup all this to escape the prison of being in the same relationship for 30-40 years

We are blessed with Islaam, if you have a righteous wife she will be happy with you. If you and your wife are really close she will approve it herself!

 

[Abdisamad]

Well that wasn’t good enough for my mother. Of course I put my trust in Allah but there has to be other precautions I can take. You can’t say “Allah will watch over me” and then leave your door wide open at night. Illogical

Of course you have to chose a good man and take all the normal precaution standard procedures etc.. But in general we can never know what will happen to us in the future.. Just follow your heart and put your trust in Allah, otherwise you'll end up as a period person.

 

[TekNiKo]

You need to put your trust in Allah, only Allah knows a person's future, we can't know or preplan our future faith or what's going to happen to us..

Daddy issues are seeded by the mother who abuses her children’s father and program them to hate their father.. No wonder we have so many confused BLM halimos bashing Somali men on twitter

 

[Yaraye]

They will never understand it. And if the man fcks off to his new wife the mother is left solely raising HER children. What a mess

my advice to women:
1- keep your beauty (gym, basic skincare, minimal makeup, hygiene)
2- be social (don't isolate yourself after marriage, have people in your corner)
3- this one is very important! DON'T HAVE MORE THAN 1 OR 2 CHILDREN WITH ANY MAN.
It is easy to remarry if you only have 1 or 2 children but not if you have more than that, they know you are stuck with either with them or singleness. And because of that, they know that many women will stick it out rather than be single. They'll try to get you to have many children then will start pulling BS on you. Most men will not marry a woman who have more than 2 children. There are obviously some exceptions who can get remarried with more children but that's rare. if singleness is something you don't mind, then this doesn't concern you. I speaking to those women who ever want to remarry if their husband pulls bullshit. You gotta keep your options open by only having 1 child ideally or max 2.
LADIES WATCH OUT!!!

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

We are blessed with Islaam, if you have a righteous wife she will be happy with you. If you and your wife are really close she will approve it herself!

Lies. Women get jealous too and polygamy has broken up many families.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Daddy issues are seeded by the mother who abuses her children’s father and program them to hate their father.. No wonder we have so many confused BLM halimos bashing Somali men on twitter

Everything ever is a woman’s fault to you lot of course men are helpless weak willed little babies, my apologies

 

[Yaraye]

Lies. Women get jealous too and polygamy has broken up many families.

yes, even the prophet wives did get jealous. Its if she isn't jealous, thats when you truly got a problem

 

[Abdisamad]

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[Baarisiyomoos]

my advice to women:
1- keep your beauty (gym, basic skincare, minimal makeup, hygiene)
2- be social (don't isolate yourself after marriage, have people in your corner)
3- this one is very important! DON'T HAVE MORE THAN 1 OR 2 CHILDREN WITH ANY MAN.
It is easy to remarry if you only have 1 or 2 children but not if you have more than that, they know you are stuck with either with them or singleness. And because of that, they know that many women will stick it out rather than be single. They'll try to get you to have many children then will start pulling BS on you. Most men will not marry a woman who have more than 2 children. There are obviously some exceptions who can get remarried with more children but that's rare. if singleness is something you don't mind, then this doesn't concern you. I speaking to those women who ever want to remarry if their husband pulls bullshit. You gotta keep your options open by only having 1 child ideally or max 2.
LADIES WATCH OUT!!!

So true abaayo I’ve seen women with 6, 7 children get left for 20 year old wives. I will not give my life away to any man when they see fit to up and leave whenever they want. Additionally, make sure that if you aren’t working you have money on the side so you are never dependent on him.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

yes, even the prophet wives did get jealous. Its if she isn't jealous, thats when you truly got a problem

They don’t care that women feel jealous or get sad when their husbands marry other women. Women are just a means to have children and serve as homemakers im so jaded wallahi at this point I don’t even want to get married. I would love to have children but if this is the life that awaits me I refuse

 

[Qeelbax]

We are blessed with Islaam, if you have a righteous wife she will be happy with you. If you and your wife are really close she will approve it herself!

Allah beenta!!!! Are you trying to convince us or yourself?

 

[Yaraye]

Lool.. I meant in general walaal.. I can't even give you girls any advice without being met with suspicion and skepticism

what you expect? You got a track record