Cut your old man some slack.. You sound like he's married to you and not your mom..
Are you justifiying cheating and zina? If your wife does not satisfy you go divorce her, but there is nothing that justifies cheating
Where did I justify zina? This girl is afraid her future husband will cheat on her, this from reading an news article about a cheating mayor lol. And on the suspicion of her old man cheating on her mom.. That's why I wrote if a wife can satisfy her husband then he won't have any reason to look for other women.. But I understand there are exceptions to this hypothesis. Anyway why are you getting all emotional over my comment?
Because what you are saying is nonsense, many cheaters don't cheat because they don't feel satisfied but they are just saqajaans who do it out of a power move or because they like the secrecy of it, any normal muslim men would just end their marriage if they aren't satisfied and not do such a crime.
Doesn’t work that way. That mayor has been married for 40 yrs and a being a good woman doesn’t halt the aging process. He’s having an affair with a woman whose old enough to be his daughter who is younger than the length he’s been married. Men cheat due to wanting variety, no longer being attracted to their wives ect. That isn’t something a woman can help.
Never got so many qashin ratingsyou’re way of handling this subject is pretty bad.
I’d hush if I was you.
So what's wrong to want a variety, after 40 years in prison.. I mean marriage doesn't a guy deserve to explore other options without getting ruined totally?
It's all good, no hard feelings, we are just exchanging opinions right?
that aint it chief, sounds like victim blaming to me
That’s a stupid excuse that men use to justify themselves.
They want to put the cause of their disloyalty on a woman’s shoulders. There are women out there who have given the world to their men and done everything he wants. he STILL cheats.
This is why you only do a reasonable amount for these ungrateful little shits. They’re gonna cheat if you’re a good wife, they’re gonna cheat if your a bad wife. Damned if you, damned if you don’t. 
A man Will only be loyal if HE wants to be loyal. He chooses out of his own accord and free will. There is nothing a woman can do to make him loyal, so stop trying to make it seem like his loyalty has something to do with @Baarisiyomoos’s mother 
Men will cheat if THEY WANT to, there is nothing one can do to stop it. It is solely their decision to make
Are you saying men are dogs? What about the women they cheat with?That’s a stupid excuse that men use to justify themselves.
A bit of consistency mate. Didn’t you just say if a woman is good her husband wouldn’t cheat? Now you’re saying what’s wrong with variety? So you’re admitting it’s not nothing to do with being a good woman?
You’re forgetting that young fertile women don’t want to be used up and tossed in old age. The first wife was once everything the husband wanted and the thanks she gets after all of these years is the knowledge that the husband no longer really wants her, but when he gets a terminal illness, she’s meant to selflessly still continue and be there for him.
