TOO MANY HENNESSY-Ravaged Geeljires dying in Canada. I put the blame squarely on their hooyo. These grown idiots eat & sleep at hooyos place

[King Khufu]

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@King Khufu is a King Cobra.

 

[KobeBryant]

Well he better implement it or his skinny a$$ going to be more skinny from AIDS

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[Abdisamad]

She didn’t say all fathers are dead beat (it’s somehow this argument that many Farah’s here use to dismiss and invalidate when someone else (namely a woman) calls out the problems in the community.

The excuse that the mother won’t allow the father to see his children is BS. Unless there is a restraining order put in place, a father living in the West has every right to see his children. He can always go through the courts if he cares that much. Most (again, not all) Somali men willfully abandon their children, and then come around once they’re older and close to death, or when the children are grown, in order to get a couple hundred every month from children they barely know. They’re nothing more than sperm donors, let’s keep it one hundred.

This is true, and this is the majority of the fathers in our community. Can we for one second stop putting our heads in the sand and address the issues head on?

I refuse to believe any sane man would abandon his kids.

 

[Desert Flower]

I refuse to believe any sane man would abandon his kids.

They do. The issues such as Somali boys being murdered in droves wouldn’t be happening if the fathers were present and not wandering Africa or the coffee shop.

We are not much different from the African Americans that we seem to love to put down.

 

[Jaale]

You expect a Farax to know how to pull out? safe sex does not exist in a farax vocab.

Condoms exist. Pills exist. I have seen some guy use pregnancy as a trap. He turned out to be a major a hole and basically told her you can't get rid of me.

 

[Jaydaan]

I refuse to believe any sane man would abandon his kids.

You right. But most Somalis are not sane though

 

[Jaale]

And she proceeded to marry him? Taas wa dooqon ba ku iri. It’s those girls who then cry after 2 kids how useless their husbands are, but knew about his lazy neglectful ways, yet still married him.

Yep. Some think it's smart and finenessing the system instead of an indication of the person they are

 

[Jaale]

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I have seen too many women messed about. One girl who was nice and cheery got married off. Now hardly speaks to anyone, dead inside, dead eyes. Even though the guy is there, he might as well not be.

The problem with these discussions is that it degenerates to gender war fkd and the whole thing turns toxic.

 

[Saredo]

Yep. Some think it's smart and finenessing the system instead of an indication of the person they are

Didn’t she ask if he had a job before getting married ? Or ask about his finances? These are basic questions you ask while talking. We can’t predict the future obviously, but it’s very important for women and men to take their time before getting married and avoid losers.

 

[King Khufu]

What i feel really bad for tho tbh is how someday some poor xalimos will marry these guys expecting a levelheaded husband and father not realizing that the average is as shortsighted and as logical as a 4th grader or year 5 kid

You right. But most Somalis are not sane though

First here's my unwanted opinion, learn to when you investigate someone by having a conversation thoroughly with them genuinely rather than instigate insults them.
That's just good tactic to find better character types.

You cannot criticize someone to have an unsound mind (such as being insane or like a 5 year old) if you donot give them good reasons to behave nicely around you.
You can't give what you don't got!
Just all of you reading this remember that.

A balanced behaviour is well listened and observed to understand (basically on point)

Look; seek this carefully!
When it comes to childish people they already hurt themselves by not being so smart in their choices which eventually becomes bad onto others because they lead selfish stupid choices. So it's important to either lead those types into being better people or just watch them fall off the cliff themselves, that's really all there is to it. Don't need to judge it's hurtful when bad things happen but that doesn't mean be abusive in return because good people want to be loving but it hard to if you don't give the chance first to be taking full advantage to be shown.

 

[Jaale]

Didn’t she ask if he had a job before getting married ? Or ask about his finances? These are basic questions you ask while talking. We can’t predict the future obviously, but it’s very important for women and men to take their time before getting married and avoid losers.

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[Amirah]

I have seen too many women messed about. One girl who was nice and cheery got married off. Now hardly speaks to anyone, dead inside, dead eyes. Even though the guy is there, he might as well not be.

The problem with these discussions is that it degenerates to gender war fkd and the whole thing turns toxic.

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[Lostbox]

I went to a distant cousin's wedding once and someone told me at the wedding that the girl asked her husband to be where they will be living and he pointed to her belly and said council caloosha ku jira.

It is a fact too many of these guys are absent, not involved, too much in makhaayad or marfesh.

I would advise any Xalimo getting married to not get impregnated by a Farax for at least a year.

Basra, I am not exaggerating, I know my kind, a lot of them are terrible.

It's sad that I believe this story because of the quality of guys Somali women are willing to settle with.

Parents will marry of their troubled son to a good Somali girl so the she can fix him up...

and they always seem to find a women in are community will to settle with them...

 

[Jaale]

It's sad that I believe this story because of the quality of guys Somali women are willing to settle with.

Parents will marry of their troubled son to a good Somali girl so the she can fix him up...

and they always seem to find a women in are community will to settle with them...

That is one of the saddest parts. They always find maskiin girls for these bummy demons. Sometimes they send them to Somalia, which is worse for the girls there.

There's no type of responsibility or accountability. Just pawn them off to maskiin girl so they "can calm down" but it usually just ends up with them abusing the girls.

 

[Zoobear]

The nigga didn’t care loooool

I was headed towards jail or death, drastic changes were needed. Having to survive made me put all my unnecessary attitudes/feelings to the side. There's no motivation like hunger.

He eventually relented after my improvements and paid for my college/university.

 

[Zoobear]

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[Desert Flower]

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That’s true, but there are girls who think they’re getting over the system by living in the projects, which are dirty, old and run down. They don’t understand that they’re raising children in the ghetto. How are you “finessing” a system that doesn’t care about you and will lead to worse life outcomes? How dumb is that?

They also make it easy for the husband to f around because he then won’t contribute to the household (as he doesn’t have to). This is stupid.

 

[Abdisamad]

It's sad being a Somali

 

[Abdisamad]

Guys % girls..
I have a small suggestion.. Instead of fighting each other, pointing fingers at each other drawing a sad and gloomy picture of our people.. How about we discuss ways to improve our community.

 

[Abdisamad]

How can create a better and more robust community that helps and sticks up for each other. What does it require to change the status quo? Let's have some fruitful discussion enough with the negative talk.