Pros of ajanabi: there are so many of them, so itās easy to find what youāre looking for.
Cons of ajanabi: differences in culture, habits, traditions and āloveā doesnāt solve this. All these differences can lead to conflict and tension.
Pros of Somali: Same culture, religion, language, you just āgetā each other and thereās a level of intimacy (emotional, mental etc.) that cannot be replicated with an ajanabi. Thatās 100% facts. Your kids will be Somali.
Cons of Somali: Hard to find compatible men, but they are out there. Somali guys (at least from the older generation) donāt help around the house. Many ajanabis do. Other than that, not many cons with Somali men.