To women only: what are the pros and cons of marrying faraaxs vs ajnabis?

[Mcqueeny]

• I've noticed that faraaxs love to clown women that marry out but love to tap dance for foreign women. So whats your opinion on somali men vs non somali men?

 

[Guure]

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

 

[Nalle]

I’m confused about the question here really, the title is asking something else and you’re talking about how abdis are contradicting themselves?
I wanna read your opinion on the matter

@Mcqueeny
what are the pros and cons of marrying faraaxs vs ajnabis?

 

[Furioso]

Pros of Faraxs

- same culture, language, and religion

Cons of Faraxs

- small community, harder to find someone

Pros of ajanabis

- Easier to find a partner that meets your standards.

Cons

- Identity issues, differences in religious beliefs, societal pressures, and parents might not be accepting

 

[Madd]

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I thought white men were more your type.

 

[karkaar]

Pros of Faraxs

- same culture, language, and religion

Cons of Faraxs

- small community, harder to find someone

Pros of ajanabis

- Easier to find a partner that meets your standards.

Cons

- Identity issues, differences in religious beliefs, societal pressures, and parents might not be accepting

spot on

 

[psyche]

Ajnabi

Pros: Healthier children

Cons: Somali culture doesn't regard them as Somali.

But let's be honest Somali culture is pretty problematic so who cares.

Life is too short to care about irrelevant practices, marry who you love and move on.

 

[Desert Flower]

Pros of ajanabi: there are so many of them, so it’s easy to find what you’re looking for.

Cons of ajanabi: differences in culture, habits, traditions and “love” doesn’t solve this. All these differences can lead to conflict and tension.

Pros of Somali: Same culture, religion, language, you just “get” each other and there’s a level of intimacy (emotional, mental etc.) that cannot be replicated with an ajanabi. That’s 100% facts. Your kids will be Somali.

Cons of Somali: Hard to find compatible men, but they are out there. Somali guys (at least from the older generation) don’t help around the house. Many ajanabis do. Other than that, not many cons with Somali men.

 

[karkaar]

Ajnabi

Pros: Healthier children

Cons: Somali culture doesn't regard them as Somali.

But let's be honest Somali culture is pretty problematic so who cares.

Life is too short to care about irrelevant practices, marry who you love and move on.

Its women only m8

 

[psyche]

Its women only m8

I identify as a woman now do you have a problem?

 

[Awdalia Rising]

Another con of marrying a xalimo is that you have to deal with threads like this being made

 

[Mcqueeny]

Another con of marrying a xalimo is that you have to deal with threads like this being made

Lol what about Abdi Exit? It seems you guys can dish all sorts of insults at women but get triggered over this!

#Boy bye

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Mcqueeny You still haven't learn how to quote properly

 

[Nostalgia]

Somali
Pros:

• Same culture
• Same language (kids will speak Somali)
• No worrying about him kidnapping the kids (like some ajnabis do)

Cons:

• Faraaxs aren't so romantic
• Skinny baasto legs or a caalool weyn, not many are fit
• The guy might leave you with the kids, Somali men are known to be absentee fathers and there's no guarantee the guy you marry won't be

 

[sambuusi]

a con to add for marrying an ajnabi is that if anything happens, you're more likely to be on your own

 

[Odkac WRLD]

I identify as a woman now do you have a problem?

What
The
f*ck

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Pros of Faraxs

- same culture, language, and religion

Cons of Faraxs

- small community, harder to find someone

Pros of ajanabis

- Easier to find a partner that meets your standards.

Cons

- Identity issues, differences in religious beliefs, societal pressures, and parents might not be accepting

Also haram for the most part in case you didn't know