This somali jamaican girl harassed because of her mixing

[Odious Delirium]

I remember when I was in my early 20s being called a doqon by a fob girl who told me that if a man isn’t buying her a phone or throwing her 50-200 dollars here and there what is the point of talking to them? It was truly an eye opening moment. Western Abdis come for us, but Wallahi we’re miskeen and don’t expect men to be giving us stuff of the bat and we’re more content with making our own money.

Yeah they call us all doqons in the west

Ain't no way I'm spending money like that on a girl I ain't married to or at least engaged to. Those guys that get rinsed deserve it but a lot of them are shaydaans and expect them to give it up before marriage because they feel entitled and they will go to crazy lengths to make it happen back home.
I'm not even stingy I would gladly spoil a woman aslong as she's my wife so I see that as a red flag for a woman to expect gifts and money without commitment.

 

[A Mean Guy]

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Well you have to understand that she was getting old and had no children. You get lonely being by yourself at an old age.
Her young husband worked for her so he saved most of his salary. I think she married him thinking that he wouldn't leave her. Also you can't start abusing people financially as they will just leave you and if you keep changing guys, it will ruin your image (people will start calling you a Dh*ilo)
Realistically if you are with a partner that is 20+ years younger than you, there is a very high probability that they will leave you once their done fattening their pockets.
Who the hell wants to take care of an old man/woman in their 70s when they reach 40.

 

[Angelina]

Yeah they call us all doqons in the west

Ain't no way I'm spending money like that on a girl I ain't married to or at least engaged to. Those guys that get rinsed deserve it but a lot of them are shaydaans and expect them to give it up before marriage because they feel entitled and they will go to crazy lengths to make it happen back home.
I'm not even stingy I would gladly spoil a woman aslong as she's my wife so I see that as a red flag for a woman to expect gifts and money without commitment.

Back home? No. I was truly surprised how giving men are and not expecting much in return in that regards. It’s simply the culture there in which men know if they want a girl to take them seriously, they need to gift her. Obviously, they’re going to spend within their means but their mentality is definitely different to Western Faraxs.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Back home? No. I was truly surprised how giving men are and not expecting much in return in that regards. It’s simply the culture there in which men know if they want a girl to take them seriously, they need to gift her. Obviously, they’re going to spend within their means but their mentality is definitely different to Western Faraxs.

I have heard stories and yeah those guys are dumb for doing that giving stuff without any commitment is just plain stupids and there asking to be taken advantage of which the girls back home do but there changing right now because the halimos back home don't appreciate the effort

All the guys back home are listening to that xalliye guy

 

[Angelina]

As per usual grown men think it’s cool to bully a little girl. If she feels more closer to Jamaicans and is not taking the side of Jamaicans, I don’t blame her. Somali men on ticktock are cruel. She’s a kid. Leave her be for goodness sake.

 

[Angelina]

I have heard stories and yeah those guys are dumb for doing that giving stuff without any commitment is just plain stupids and there asking to be taken advantage of which the girls back home do but there changing right now because the halimos back home don't appreciate the effort

All the guys back home are listening to that xalliye guy

Yep, Xalliye, I can’t take stand the man but he is truly a product of his environment. When I listen to his long winded calaacal about how much Somali guys are taken advantage of, I end up up sitting there thinking what a load of xaar, until I remember that the man is in Kenya/Somalia so Yh, he probably does have stories for days. I heard he too is a victim as well.@TekNiKo, you’re back home, are the girls finessing on another level? Does Xaaliye have a right to be bitter?

Tbf, fob men and women are simply cutthroat compared to us. The men might be giving but they’re savage in other ways tbh. I suppose hostile environments create ruthless men and women.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Yep, Xalliye, I can’t take stand the man but he is truly a product of his environment. When I listen to his long winded calaacal about how much Somali guys are taken advantage of, I end up up sitting there thinking what a load of xaar, until I remember that the man is in Kenya/Somalia so Yh, he probably does have stories for days. @TekNiKo, you’re back home, are the girls finessing on another level? Does Xaaliye have a right to be bitter?

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[Internet Nomad]

I don't understand mixing with people like Jamaicans, what do you gain?? They don't have any real amount of culture and their "language" is just a mixture of broken French and English, they aren't financially stable, they have almost no developed family structures, and they're not even culturally similar to you. Why?

Do you marry someone because of their culture or is it because you love the person.

 

[...j]

Do you marry someone because of their culture or is it because you love the person.

I could never love someone who has no culture

 

[Internet Nomad]

I could never love someone who has no culture

Jamaican people have a culture. Its an absurd claim to say they done have a culture.

 

[...j]

Jamaican people have a culture. Its an absurd claim to say they done have a culture.

In the same way that U.S. Blacks have a culture

 

[Internet Nomad]

In the same way that U.S. Blacks have a culture

Yes they have a culture. You may think its degen but they do have a culture. For example black people in the US have pioneered the music we listen today. The way we talk maybe influenced by black culture. To say black people have no culture is absurd.

 

[...j]

Yes they have a culture. You may think its degen but they do have a culture. For example black people in the US have pioneered the music we listen today. The way we talk maybe influenced by black culture. To say black people have no culture is absurd.

You may consider it genuine culture but I don't as it's New-World

 

[Internet Nomad]

You may consider it genuine culture but I don't as it's New-World

Doesn't matter what we consider of it. Personally their culture promotes many haram things i disagree with. However i can also recognise that Black people have a long and impressive culture/history.

 

[...j]

Doesn't matter what we consider of it. Personally their culture promotes many haram things i disagree with. However i can also recognise that Black people have a long and impressive culture/history.

200 or so years is not long

 

[Internet Nomad]

200 or so years is not long

Either way its impressive they were able to create a culture from nothing that is prolific through the world rn.

 

[Qeelbax]

I don't understand mixing with people like Jamaicans, what do you gain?? They don't have any real amount of culture and their "language" is just a mixture of broken French and English, they aren't financially stable, they have almost no developed family structures, and they're not even culturally similar to you. Why?

It doesn’t matter. Y’all don’t harass the half white ones who come from liberal shitholes with no dhaqan or deen.

 

[...j]

It doesn’t matter. Y’all don’t harass the half white ones who come from liberal shitholes with no dhaqan or deen.

I don't harass anyone, the above post applies to the American Whites with no culture too

 

[Barni]

It doesn’t matter. Y’all don’t harass the half white ones who come from liberal shitholes with no dhaqan or deen.

You should see the comments left on half somali half cadaan chicks videos. These niggas will even claim the ones with somali hooyos as somali just so they can get their attention.

 

[Qeelbax]

In the same way that U.S. Blacks have a culture

How do AAs not have culture?