This is what i deal with on reddit.

[Goodbye ✌]

The end of an era. My third and final reddit account. [Closed]

 

[Peache]

Being fetished as a man is not a "thing" for men as it is for women.
Besides we faraxs don't marry "out" and being fetished by "Betty xaar iska dhaqin" is not something we would sought after

But how do y'all even converse with people like that? Do y'all discuss religion first then bash other African women

Sigghhhhh… @Zaamzaam help me explain this.
This isn’t about us “marrying out”, or whatever else. And I clearly said “these guys” will bash other African women to us, thinking that’s cute to say.
I NEVER said we bash African women subhannalh.
I said they usually approach us, or in this case approach through social media and proceeded to bother this girl despite her politely saying no.

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

Sigghhhhh… @Zaamzaam help me explain this.
This isn’t about us “marrying out”, or whatever else. And I clearly said “these guys” will bash other African women to us, thinking that’s cute to say.
I NEVER said we bash African women subhannalh.
I said they usually approach us, or in this case approach through social media and proceeded to bother this girl despite her politely saying no.

Lool I'm not one of those guys that have a issue with y'all marrying out qalanjo, I'm just saying that we mostly keep to our own. U can't fetish what u don't know.

And the last part was just me being cheeky I know y'all don't bash other African women relax

 

[Peache]

Ok but in what situation? Like "I can't be with u cause your west African and my parents won't allow it" and then they say "it Xaaraam to think like that" which is true though.

Do they succeed in guilt tripping or is it the attempt that baffles y'all?

I would never say that to someone. Us Somali women get fetished so much, I can’t even pick an example of the things they say to us.
But in my experience they use religion or even straight out say some inappropriate things, to which I decline and then they will proceed to flip out and cuss you out, talking about “Somali women are all stuck up anyways lmaooo”.
It is the attempt that’s cringy and weird, just talk to us like normal women. Not like women that are an endangered species lol.

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

The end of an era. My third and final reddit account. [Closed]

The virtual world is like the real world remember that, creeps can be themselves online without any filters, so keep your info and location hidden

 

[Goodbye ✌]

@Maxaa kaa galay nobody should be fetishized. It’s a sickness. You can’t speak on women as you are not one and don’t know what Somali women experience no offense.

 

[Peache]

Lool I'm not one of those guys that have a issue with y'all marrying out qalanjo, I'm just saying that we mostly keep to our own. U can't fetish what u don't know.

And the last part was just me being cheeky I know y'all don't bash other African women relax

Lmaoooo aight, I see.
But these guys do fetish us tho. And no East African women should be flattered hearing that anyways.

 

[Peache]

@Maxaa kaa galay nobody should be fetishized. It’s a sickness. You can’t speak on women as you are not one and don’t know what Somali women experience no offense.

That’s why I asked if Somali or other East African men get fetished like the level that we do. Do they have folks breathing all heavy when they ask if they East African and get all excited and proceed to compliment you and get sweat on their forehead? Lmaoooooo.

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

I would never say that to someone. Us Somali women get fetished so much, I can’t even pick an example of the things they say to us.
But in my experience they use religion or even straight out say some inappropriate things, to which I decline and then they will proceed to flip out and cuss you out, talking about “Somali women are all stuck up anyways lmaooo”.
It is the attempt that’s cringy and weird, just talk to us like normal women. Not like women that are an endangered species lol.

I didn't know it was that bad for y'all endangered species kulaha social media is weird, but to be honest we faraxs are blessed with beautiful women, and when y'all not u personaly share pictures online y'all attract every kind of people normal and creeps alike. It's a challenge for y'all to overcome somehow, if you feel endangered or stalked call police or tell your male relatives.

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

That’s why I asked if Somali or other East African men get fetished like the level that we do. Do they have folks breathing all heavy when they ask if they East African and get all excited and proceed to compliment you and get sweat on their forehead? Lmaoooooo.

La Xawla

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

@Maxaa kaa galay nobody should be fetishized. It’s a sickness. You can’t speak on women as you are not one and don’t know what Somali women experience no offense.

Never claimed to know once how y'all feel so don't worry, i didn't even know it was a thing until know

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

I can't even imagine being fetished, we Faraxs or men in general can't even cope with being overly complimented

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

Find yourselves a good muslim man that will take care of y'all ladies and stay of the internet. And if y'all don't want to be troubled in real life then walk around with a fake I'm out

 

[Peache]

I didn't know it was that bad for y'all endangered species kulaha social media is weird, but to be honest we faraxs are blessed with beautiful women, and when y'all not u personaly share pictures online y'all attract every kind of people normal and creeps alike. It's a challenge for y'all to overcome somehow, if you feel endangered or stalked call police or tell your male relatives.

Some of us don’t have that male presence to help us when we getting sexually harassed and bothered, Miskeen.
Fetishizesation or however you spell it, towards East African women is based on colourism and more so featurism.
To hear someone mock a creation of Allah swt ( other African and black women ) isn’t it.
Now when they complement us based on our beauty and that alone, that’s not an issue.
They also like us based on topics of inappropriate sexual nature, and that’s super unfortunate.

 

[Peache]

Find yourselves a good muslim man that will take care of y'all ladies and stay of the internet. And if y'all don't want to be troubled in real life then walk around with a fake I'm out

If I told you, while married with a ring.. and pregnant.. I still had men approach me but that was creepy older Somali uncles.
They don’t care if you married.. just off the fact that he wasn’t living with me is what they say.

So wearing a ring don’t work. What works is if you insist on saying no and declining and just walking away.

 

[__08]

I told him I’m not interested (he fetishes Somalis) and stopped responding to him. He messages me from another account and follows me. Ya Allah protect me from these creeps.

That website is creepy. I asked for skincare advice one time (last time) tell me why some creepy dudes asked me weird requests uff.

 

[Unbothered]

Gabon

Block him, hun

 

[Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid]

I told him I’m not interested (he fetishes Somalis) and stopped responding to him. He messages me from another account and follows me. Ya Allah protect me from these creeps.

Princess of Allah? What kind of blasphemy is this supposed Muslim spewing? Must he one those ex convict Abu Tyrones

I wonder what goes through the mind of a xalimo that leads her to marry a convict

 

[El Nino]

The guy is the definition of down bad Subhanallahh. Man said he felt a connection through post on r/interestingasfuck kkkkk

@Zaamzaam

Read your adkaar and ayatul kursi just in case, the guy sounds like a nutjob. Hes 100% a weirdo.

 

[Boujie]

I told him I’m not interested (he fetishes Somalis) and stopped responding to him. He messages me from another account and follows me. Ya Allah protect me from these creeps.

This guy sounds like if you feed ai a bunch of posts from islamic reddit and have it talk to people, so incoherent for what?