The true definition of Ceeb..

You don't think that's inconsiderate at all?

If you come home from a days work working 8 hours and chilling rest of the day compared to her cooking and taking care of the house 24h everyday
While I'm at work. And she's at home. Wtf is she suppose to do? Nothing? Just sit around and finally do something only when I come? In other words what's her responsible during those 8-10 hours I'm away from the house? Answer me that.
 

Mercury

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While I'm at work. And she's at home. Wtf is she suppose to do? Nothing? Just sit around and finally do something only when I come? In other words what's her responsible during those 8-10 hours I'm away from the house? Answer me that.
I told you before if you're working and she's staying home by the time you get home the house and everything will be done

So why refuse to help her the the rest of the day?
 
I told you before if you're working and she's staying home by the time you get home the house and everything will be done

So why refuse to help her the the rest of the day?
If everything is done, then it's done.

You expect me to pay the bills and still do house chores?

Being a housewife comes with a trade off: she gets free rent, roof under her head, free food, and luxury things. But if she's not doing those things then she deserves to be nexted.

This thread is interesting though. Before I get married, these are the type of questions i will bring up. If woman responds positively then she's a keeper. If not then it's on to the next one. It's a tool to weed out the real women from feminists.
 

Mercury

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If everything is done, then it's done.

You expect me to pay the bills and still do house chores?

Being a housewife comes with a trade off: she gets free rent, roof under her head, free food, and luxury things. But if she's not doing those things then she deserves to be nexted.

This thread is interesting though. Before I get married, these are the type of questions i will bring up. If woman responds positively then she's a keeper. If not then it's on to the next one. It's a tool to weed out the real women from feminists.

 

Zuleikha

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There is nothing simp about helping your spouse with chores and cooking. Thats how normal and healthy marriage suppose to be.
 

Mercury

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There is nothing simp about helping your spouse with chores and cooking. Thats how normal and healthy marriage suppose to be.
I mentioned the bare minimum if your wife is a housewife by the time you come back from work all the chores and everything is probably already done so it wouldn't make sense to still refuse to help around with something just because you came from work

You could chill with the kids while she rest her head or look at their homeworks
Or even make a quick snack for them
 

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So you want to work for the family, cook and clean, do the dishes, look after the kids, diaper changing and childbearing?

Your wife will leave you for a real man because you're nothing more than a beta cuck who wants to play both genders.
 

Mercury

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So you want to work for the family, cook and clean, do the dishes, look after the kids, diaper changing and childbearing?

Your wife will leave you for a real man because you're nothing more than a beta cuck who wants to play both genders.
Y'all must be deaf I said I would share the load not take on everything by myself And if she's a housewife and I get home from work that's when I'll help her around the house
 

World

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Y'all must be deaf I said I would share the load not take on everything by myself And if she's a housewife and I get home from work that's when I'll help her around the house
If your wife is staying at home and doesn't work, then household duties is her FULL responsibility. It takes literally 2-3 hours to cook, clean, do the dishes etc and if she isn't willing to do that and instead wants to be a lazy looser who sleeps all day whilst you work both genders then you're a CUCK and she's using you. Go and learn what a housewife is wtf.
 

Gadiid

So much depends upon a red wheel barrow.
Some here have strange fantasies.
Why are you going to extremes?
Sounds like fear fam.
Mum probably knocked your tooth out for not cleaning the house or something so you can't wait to take it out on someone else.
:drakekidding:

No one is suggesting the man does everything while she sits about being lazy.
Just help each other out.
 

Mercury

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If your wife is staying at home and doesn't work, then household duties is her FULL responsibility. It takes literally 2-3 hours to cook, clean, do the dishes etc and if she isn't willing to do that and instead wants to be a lazy looser who sleeps all day whilst you work both genders then you're a CUCK and she's using you. Go and learn what a housewife is wtf.
You still don't get it lemme dumb it down so you can comprehend If she's a housewife by the time I get home all household chores are done

But When I'm home I will help with taking care of the kids washing em and help em with the homework
 
@Mercury I´m amazed by all of these cretins talking like helping your spouse makes you a "cuck".
At the moment i´m in a relationship with my habeshi queen that i also live with.
Both of us are a year fresh out of uni, but we got full-time jobs. Since we both are ajanabi and newly done with our education, we both work a little bit extra, and put in more work than our co-workers for obvious reasons. We have a hectic schedule, so we have to help each other with everything in the house, it would be insane if i let her do all the work. Mind you, we have no kids so we only have each other to attend to, but it would be insane if we had kids and i didn´t do shit other than what "men" are supposed to do.

And so my question is to you muslim faraxs out there, is your dear prophet a cuck? he clearly helped his wife but you guys insist only b*tch made men help the women with cooking, cleaning or attend to your child. In this world we need usually two checks to run a household, how do you justify this kind of behavior towards your wife?

Go get a shaqalo (maid) straight out of moqdishu.
 
There is a difference between 'helping out' especially when required as opposed to completely taking over her role which you are advocating, not only will you diminishes her role/self-worth but you will also biologically put her off from you.

I know a lady that went through 5 divorces, 4 of those man were like you, they even bathed her apparently taking the kids to school while they all worked decent jobs, the last one she got with was a jobless thug that used to just abuse her and she put up with it until he one day decided to walk out on her (the other 4 she divorced)

She was recently asked (many years later) which one she considered the best and she shamefully responded the last one that regularly abused her, citing how he was a rock star in the bed

While the other 4 man regularly bought her stuff, she bought the thug a car and he ran away with most of her money as well (given to her by her previous husband for the kids), you hear these kinds of stories on a daily basis, in my life time I heard over 1000 such stories while knowing about many of them personally.

This is how you will end up if you persist on this, because the fast majority of women love nothing more then a doqon like this that will either safe her after she rode the cock carousel for years or someone that can be fleeced easily for child support.
Ala Somalida xaasidsana! Been badana, kun kumalahanoo.

Mercury these men don't want you to have a good marriage. Don't take advice from men who come from a community where divorce means nothing.
 
I never said taking over that's where a lot of you get confused What I described was just the bare minimum and it's not even a whole lot

If I'm working and she's a stay at home wife that means that majority of the time she will be cooking and cleaning since she will be home most of the time

I said I will help her around the house with the household when I'm home which I don't see any wrong with where you get this weird shit from 4 of her last husbands bathed her that's weird as hell
You did not make this clear, I first assumed that's what you meant until I read your post which did not communicate this and I suspect the fast majority of other people got the same message, I did not read your posts beyond the first were you may have clarified this in subsequent posts.

No one has issues with helping out, even the Prophet helped out at home, for man that have lived alone for many years, they have been cooking and cleaning for themselves for some time already, this is not suddenly going to change just because they got married.

The only ones that take issue to this are the ones whose mothers cook and clean after them daily having never lived alone until the day they marry, they are the useless ones that would refer to this as ceeb, you should have clarified this clearly in your opening post and I would have backed you on it.
 
There is a difference between 'helping out' especially when required as opposed to completely taking over her role which you are advocating, not only will you diminishes her role/self-worth but you will also biologically put her off from you.

I know a lady that went through 5 divorces, 4 of those man were like you, they even bathed her apparently taking the kids to school while they all worked decent jobs, the last one she got with was a jobless thug that used to just abuse her and she put up with it until he one day decided to walk out on her (the other 4 she divorced)

She was recently asked (many years later) which one she considered the best and she shamefully responded the last one that regularly abused her, citing how he was a rock star in the bed

While the other 4 man regularly bought her stuff, she bought the thug a car and he ran away with most of her money as well (given to her by her previous husband for the kids), you hear these kinds of stories on a daily basis, in my life time I heard over 1000 such stories while knowing about many of them personally.

This is how you will end up if you persist on this, because the fast majority of women love nothing more then a doqon like this that will either safe her after she rode the cock carousel for years or someone that can be fleeced easily for child support.

So, only the abusive husband can please his wife in bed? Does he grow extra inches too while he's being abusive, how does it work? That woman in your story sounds really dysfunctional.
 

Abdalla

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I remember going to the kitchen to grab something when I visited Galkayo. My aunt threatened me if she ever saw me again in the kitchen. I know we need change, but I won't be the Rosa Parks for Somalis. f*ck that.
 

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