I was raised in a single mother household and so was many of my close somali friends. We moved all around the UK before settling in the north, and my mother struggled to take care of us. Now she's living comfortably while all my siblings send her lacag every month! Put my story aside this is an epidemic in the somali community that cannot be overlooked! It should not be that easy to call off a marriage. Somali men should look at the consequences of raising kids in a broken home and think with their heads, not with their sex organ. Like @Nin-culus says, look at the bigger picture please!!!