The Sad State Of Men!

Xaruun

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Its simply because men think they 'own' women. Its why they don't think its disloyal for them to marry out and get with foreign women, because women are essentially objects owned by the men of their culture whilst they are free to be attracted to and date different women from different backgrounds. Its the same mentality that plagues some Somali men.
I said men don’t own women and you gave me qashin :pachah1:
I don’t think all women are ****s but I agree that she isn’t your girl and it’s just your turn. This is the case even if she’s ‘your’ wife
 
It's an universal issue within races and ethnicities.

Genetic prevalence; one must have half of a brain to even think that a "hot" girl from his tribe will suddenly date him, out of racial solidarity. In reality, women are less tribal, less territorial than men and will date whoever they find attractive. (men do it more, but are less shamed)




Maybe that Asian guy has a bigger...brain than all of them combined. And it's even worse for a man to comment and degrade another man's looks (sounds like repressed-homos tbh).




Anyhow,
GG to our brother, he's having fun with a 10/10 QT, while they are secretly masturbating to her naked pics.
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That’s not exactly true. Racial solidarity is a reason to be with someone but not the only reason, it definitely does play a factor though. I would never consider a Somali guy that was married to an ajnabi for example because he has a weak or no racial solidarity
 
I said men don’t own women and you gave me qashin :pachah1:

Its just 'your turn' is qashin redpill talking points that act like all women are promiscuous. Proper disrespectful to talk about your own wife this way. That is completely different to Xalimo down the road who doesn't even know your name marrying out.
 
Sex is great but you quickly find it's quiet hard to find a women you actually like as a person.
This is something a lot of men has problem with. Women as human beings are not that interesting and fun be around. They are like grown children. Constantly crying about something and are pessimistic by nature. The goal is to find one that doesnt annoy you
 

Xaruun

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Its just 'your turn' is qashin redpill talking points that act like all women are promiscuous. Proper disrespectful to talk about your own wife this way. That is completely different to Xalimo down the road who doesn't even know your name marrying out.
It means you don’t own women and they can leave at any time if they wish.
 
This is something a lot of men has problem with. Women as human beings are not that interesting and fun be around. They are like grown children. Constantly crying about something and are pessimistic by nature. The goal is to find one that doesnt annoy you
There’s a Somali saying dumurka waa caruur caga weyn you might be on to something :stressed:
 

Lostbox

「Immortal Sage」| Qabil-fluid
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I bet all the none white fans were clapping for him

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Majority of somali females are loyal to their options and don't care about somalinimo and cultural pride/loyalty. Women don't pass down wealth, assets and lineage. So why would they be picky who they make babies with. For men it's essential that they keep their wealth and assets within their group it ensure success and longterm development. Why do you think Chinese and Europeans are successful ? It's because they pass down their wealth to their homogenous offspring. You will never be successful community if you share your wealth with foreign women 💯. Women marrying out does not effected the longterm development of group it only slightly decreases the number of women to mate with. As for men you can see that if they choose to marry out more than women it had long lasting negative effects of identity and intergenerational wealth. Community building starts with passing down wealth and knowledge with one's ethnicity and make sure cultural pride and loyalty is instilled. Men lose alot more marrying out especially of their wealthy.
 
Nothing has ever hurt me more than seeing beautiful somali gabar with an ajnabi. I was physically hurt, had tears in my eyes and I was walking like a zombie. Alhamdulillah I haven’t seen this in real life but tiktok has left me traumatised


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Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Majority of somali females are loyal to their options and don't care about somalinimo and cultural pride/loyalty. Women don't pass down wealth, assets and lineage. So why would they be picky who they make babies with. For men it's essential that they keep their wealth and assets within their group it ensure success and longterm development. Why do you think Chinese and Europeans are successful ? It's because they pass down their wealth to their homogenous offspring. You will never be successful community if you share your wealth with foreign women 💯. Women marrying out does not effected the longterm development of group it only slightly decreases the number of women to mate with. As for men you can see that if they choose to marry out more than women it had long lasting negative effects of identity and intergenerational wealth. Community building starts with passing down wealth and knowledge with one's ethnicity and make sure cultural pride and loyalty is instilled. Men lose alot more marrying out especially of their wealthy.

So you legitimately believe women have no incentive to marry from their in-group. That's a very disposable view you have of women. And certainly doesn't seem to reflect the prevailing view espoused by the female members on here. Which are more wadani than some of the brothers. The truth is most Somalis marry from their in-group more so to preserve their heritage, because of commonalities, less parental pushback and comfort level/familarity. If you think women who are loyal to their in-group are doing so due to a lack of options, I have news for you. That isn't true. I have always had options but I'm into courting men from my culture and will marry one Insh'Allah.
 
I remember a couple of years ago when StPeach a Twitch TH*T revealed that she was dating an Asian man. The amount of racist comments that came from the SIMPs who watch and pay for her content was crazy. Why do men d*ck police other men? I don't care who a Xalimo dates or marries. I sure as hell would never type racist comments at those men who choose to date or marry them.

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There is no reason for men to be jealous. What is there to be jealous of?
Either way, never let jealousy consume you. This is my advice to the men out there!
Langaabs.
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So you legitimately believe women have no incentive to marry from their in-group. That's a very disposable view you have of women. And certainly doesn't seem to reflect the prevailing view espoused by the female members on here. Which are more wadani than some of the brothers. The truth is most Somalis marry from their in-group more so to preserve their heritage, because of commonalities, less parental pushback and comfort level/familarity. If you think women who are loyal to their in-group are doing so due to a lack of options, I have news for you. That isn't true. I have always had options but I'm into courting men from my culture and will marry one Insh'Allah.
To be honest most women from traditional cultures are not incentivise to stay within their group. Only thing that's stopping from divesting is their parents and community. Most Islamic countries besides the gulf tolerate women and celebrate men. Traditionalism is dying/practically dead. Women are hypergamous they look for the highest bidder. For somali women their mostly liberal and far leftist which negates the average somali man. This something that's effecting the ethiopian community also. Please let's be realistic they're more nationalistic and prideful somali men than women specifically amongst millennial. My moms generation I would say are more prideful than the men.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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To be honest most women from traditional cultures are not incentivise to stay within their group. Only thing that's stopping from divesting is their parents and community. Most Islamic countries besides the gulf tolerate women and celebrate men. Traditionalism is dying/practically dead. Women are hypergamous they look for the highest bidder. For somali women their mostly liberal and far leftist which negates the average somali man. This something that's effecting the ethiopian community also. Please let's be realistic they're more nationalistic and prideful somali men than women specifically amongst millennial. My moms generation I would say are more prideful than the men.

So you are using Twitter as an example soomaha. On SSpot you often have the reverse where there are more coon Abdis than Halimos per capita.

I do not believe in the notion of female hypergamy in terms of its universalism. We live in the 21st C and are not being traded for geel and other livestock. We aren't impoverished/materially deprived and forced to marry for money alone.

Anyone who chooses wisely would prefer an equal match founded on similar life principles, character, attraction, commitment with a drive to succeed in lands with greater opportunities for education, and better access to social services and health care than the mother country. We have a considerable amount of privilege.

And when you look at it the best marriages are between individuals with the most commonalities on dimensions of education, ses, faith, values and even heritage. Generally the more similar the background the better that bodes for marital success.
 

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