Preserving the wider community takes precedence over the individual, even if that means terrorising or murdering a few of them to maintain a healthy order.
If you don't do this and let these people loose broken homes will be everywhere, dysfunction explodes, and the results will be more murder, dom and every other degeneracy we see today.
That's how it's sold but it's really there to destroy the poor working classes and keep them down-trodden, dependent and in a state of perpetual dysfunction to never rise above.
The money the working class man earns is about the same welfare that is paid to his wife if she kicks him out.
This serves as a tremendous financial incentive for her to do so and there is nothing he can do to counter it, especially our fathers that fled civil war.
Today we are suffering the consequences of these broken homes, an entire generation raised upon dysfunction.
If men had any say, you wouldn't see these ridiculous cost of weddings, no sane male want's this garbage or even worse desires to go into debt for it.
These doqon's simply do this because they belief that woman would otherwise not marry them, that's the bitter truth and that alone reinforces what I stated while it refutes yours.
Re-read what I said.
Im sure some abuse it but that doesn't mean everyone should suffer the same consequences?
So you believe men have no autonomy? I don't think youre giving men the benefit of the doubt here lol. Esp with our Somali culture you are either naïve or actively choosing to ignore. You haven't refuted anything lol atleast I acknowledge maybe yes there are cases of what you said .you on the other hand..