Yaraye
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you forgot the rest: "also if you did those things, find a woman who did those things too" Don't stain the innocent.
Talking to a girl and just found she drank once before ?
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what if someone repented tho ?
Somethings are better off taking it to the grave.
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@Geeljire lotus Why are you aiming for someone without a past when you have one yourself? Pure men are for pure women and vice-versa.
She's not a virgin if she drank alcohol.
Make a thread titled: Talked to a Somali guy just found out he watched p*rn, should I continue to talk to him? (*don’t get triggered)
So many women from sahaaba drank and gave it up upon revelation, does that make them a zani. Throwing blanket accusations around is going land you in - not the women you despise, in naar. Also quit the culture of demoralizing sinners. Nobody is perfect. Life is a work in progress. If the ummah has leaders like you who profit off of demoralizing and cancelling people because of their shortcomings and life struggles we would be dead. Thank god your not at the healm bro
Geeljire lotus
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I had to ask her straight up if she was a virgin and she said she was. Said she only drank once in collard didn’t like it. She’s a homebody and is at home all the time and doesn’t go out one of the reasons I liked her was because she was so miskeen and sweet. Her admitting to drinking really threw me off wallahi
If she repented, and appears to sincerely have changed her ways; then pursue her in a halal way brother. NOT dating or talking for years.... either marry her or cut off relations.
Geeljire lotus
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Yes I’m saving up for marriage, do you think I should continue sxb ? She seemed to sincerely repent. But I’m worried about what else I don’t know her in her past. I cannot accept a non virgin
SPMLegend
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She had other experiences in college too
Leave before she gets emotionally attached
Bundasliga
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There's no woman/men who is perfect & sinless. Just make sure she not for the streets .
Good akhi, may Allaah bless you and make it easy for you; no doubt, if you truly are seeking marriage to protect yourself from zina, Allaah will make it easy for you.
Yes, maybe have some sitdowns with her and her wali-father, uncle, etc.
I don't know how you guys do it, but my cousin (oromo) and his wife (harari) had sitdowns, and he asked her straight up if she ever been with a man.. i don't know how he phrased it though.
BUT there are ways to find out. If she is a good Muslimah, then proceed.
Somali women lie all the time when it comes to getting picked but they are bad liars. She probably told you she only did it once to see your reaction and if you would be OK with it and she only did it because you made her feel comfortable. She's not telling you everything. Everyone becomes a homebody when they get older saxiib. You can be a pump and dump and then become a homebody when you become older. There's a million Somali girls to pick.
You really gone take a chance with a women who drank khamri lol? Who was she surrounding herself around to make that happened
reformed th0tties are not to be taken seriously bro. Just hit it if shes bad
Abu Hesi
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Don't marry her, you are already having doubts. This will eat you for the rest of your life and you will always bring up her past. Leave her alone.
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Tbh this is a very common pairing within the Somali community. Awkward religious Somali girls and reformed ciyaal suuq Somali guys compliment each other more than you’d think lol.What makes you think that an innocent/religious woman wants "someone like you"?
even you don't want someone like yourself
your words, not mine
