Talk to her father instead of talking to the woman you are interested in

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

This is the most effective way to get married. If you know a woman you want, just go straight to the father. No need to even talk to her. If you are a good man, the father will do the work for you. He will vouch for you. Invite him for tea or food. My friend did this and is now married. It is also more halal this way. Not only is it more halal but you will get results right away and you will get a more favourable decision. You will get to know her personally later in the marriage. Before that, you need to know what her status is which is what you get from the community. Once you get the community's input then you go to the father for his approval. Any discussion between marriage should be done within the family. You as a man should only hear yes or no. Don't give man a headache or months of discussions

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Don't talk to her kulaha, is she a cow? that's why you're single.

No father will give his daughter to a neck bearded, loser.

You will forever be single, Nacala kugu yaal.

 

[RichEnoughForGucci]

Is it because your too scared to acctually approach a girl? this isn't the way to go about it

 

[Fang4]

That’s only if it’s arranged marriage, it’s best to go her father when both of you are ready for marriage

 

[Steamdevolopment]

Don't talk to her kulaha, is she a cow? that's why you're single.

No father will give his daughter to a neck bearded, loser.

You will forever be single, Nacala kugu yaal.

He's just taking a patriarchal religion to its logical conclusions.

Under most Islamic schools your right to marry is entirely the choice of the Wali, except Hanafi.

 

[Hmmmm]

Your advice would work hundreds of years ago but we in 2018

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

He's just taking a patriarchal religion to its logical conclusions.

Under most Islamic schools your right to marry is entirely the choice of the Wali, except Hanafi.

Stop lying!

 

[Steamdevolopment]

Stop lying!

Your consent matters alright, but it is not determinative as to your ability to enter the marriage contact.

The Wali have the ultimate veto, unless you're divorced.

 

[GeKo]

Your consent matters alright, but it is not determinative as to your ability to enter the marriage contact.

The Wali have the ultimate veto, unless you're divorced.

The wali can't force the girl to marry someone she doesn't want. So she has the ultimate veto in deciding

 

[AussieHustler]

The wali can't force the girl to marry someone she doesn't want. So she has the ultimate veto in deciding

GeKo

You know the sort of emotional games that some control freaks Somali parents play with their kids. They will bring home the clan sheikh and read her Abu hurayra and Abu tahriibi said.....& she will marry him. Loveless marriage and 3 years later, she is a single mum.

 

[bluebird]

 

[jamal9]

how about if u chat to her online aka DM or text her on mobile? is that allowed?

 

[GeKo]

GeKo

You know the sort of emotional games that some control freaks Somali parents play with their kids. They will bring home the clan sheikh and read her Abu hurayra and Abu tahriibi said.....& she will marry him. Loveless marriage and 3 years later, she is a single mum.

What you're stating is cultural backwardness and not a religion problem which steamdevelopment is trying to make it out to be

 

[Basra]

What you're stating is cultural backwardness and not a religion problem which steamdevelopment is trying to make it out to be

Geko

Maybe Steam and Aussie are of the same S.O.U.L

 

[Muji]

Loooooool

I see incels

Incels everywhere


@Steamdevolopment @AussieHustler @GeKo why do you think the Somali community has so many incels?

 

[Basra]

Loooooool

I see incels

Incels everywhere


@Steamdevolopment @AussieHustler @GeKo why do you think the Somali community has so many incels?

They are soft by nature. But at least homosexuality is a NO NO for them. Unless it is harmless, like getting futo licked in Jerome's case

 

[AussieHustler]

how about if u chat to her online aka DM or text her on mobile? is that allowed?

Jamal

If you are into cougars, meet mama Basra.

Loooooool

I see incels

Incels everywhere


@Steamdevolopment @AussieHustler @GeKo why do you think the Somali community has so many incels?

Knowles

Segregation of the sexes and saying aqii and uqtii when they are on Ummah and other salafi forums made them unleash their inner demons here.

 

[Muji]

Jamal

If you are into cougars, meet mama Basra.

Knowles

Segregation of the sexes and saying aqii and uqtii when they are on Ummah and other salafi forums made them unleash their inner demons here.

Right

The crazy posts have heightened recently. We have men fantasising about honour killing their sisters for imagined sins.

This guy wants a woman’s choice to be removed so she is forced in to marry him. Isn’t this just rape?

 

[AussieHustler]

Right

The crazy posts have heightened recently. We have men fantasising about honour killing their sisters for imagined sins.

This guy wants a woman’s choice to be removed so she is forced in to marry him. Isn’t this just rape?

Knowles

What’s the solution?

 

[Muji]

Knowles

What’s the solution?

They die out in their basements and they don’t pass on their inferior genes?

All jokes aside, I’m glad they’re having difficulty finding a partner.