Abaayo,i don't want hear your life story, a simple retraction of your statement was more than enough.I'm speaking from personal experience; one of my siblings is an ESTP...imagine having to live over a decade with that type of personality in your personal space, it's a wild ride.
And to top it off, [some] ESTP guys-- they don't understand the meaning of NO, they just think it means try harder or a different strategy.
Next time, I'll say "not all" or "some" if it makes you feel better though.