I am Sudanese male, I have lived in a big somali community, I had somali male friends and I lived in Puntland when I was 2. I have noticed the same issues regarding Sudanese women and Somali women, as soon as they become westernized their standards for their men goes through the floor but the minute some west african or some other non Somali/Sudanese comes through the door, they open their legs wide for them and except whatever baggage they have.