Spoil your wife

[Mercury]

Mercury woman don't want a sweet guy.
They want to be conquered, dominated and challenged. If you do as you are suggesting they'll find you boring and offer the sweet nectar to in your definition a cave man. You better watch out.

Good to know you speak for all women

 

[Mercury]

All of you need comprehension skills. All i said is you shouldnt be talking about this publicly. And that a dayuus would do some shit like this. Its pandoras box. You already got @CaliSomali talking about some weird shit already. No need to put that shit so the whole world can see.
Every man loves his women. How they like to please and respect themselves shouldnt be documented

And What’s exactly wrong with telling people how you help your wife

 

[Abdisamad]

Good to know you speak for all women

No bro. This is well known facts about women.

 

[Mercury]

No bro. This is well known facts about women.

No cause all women aren’t the same

 

[CaliSomali]

All of you need comprehension skills. All i said is you shouldnt be talking about this publicly. And that a dayuus would do some shit like this. Its pandoras box. You already got @CaliSomali talking about some weird shit already. No need to put that shit so the whole world can see.
Every man loves his women. How they like to please and respect themselves shouldnt be documented

Weird shit? I'm talking about some pretty vanilla stuff dude. How was anything I said extreme?

 

[Abdisamad]

No cause all women aren’t the same

I am just trying to help you man.
Watch out. Most women don't like a soft guy.

 

[Baki]

I am just trying to help you man.
Watch out. Most women don't like a soft guy.

Most women ?, he is talking about wife's not some random women, and i 100% agree with him you should spoil your wife from time to time a individual you will spend the rest of your life with.

 

[Muji]

Most women ?, he is talking about wife's not some random women, and i 100% agree with him you should spoil your wife from time to time a individual you will spend the rest of your life with.

Most of the men agree with mercury even @Suldaanka DMed me saying “ignore what I’m writing in the forum sis, I love looking after women and running them baths and massaging their feet”.

 

[Basra]

This innocent cute thread about good advice to our dumb un-thankful farahs has gone platinum! Nice Job Mercury!

 

[Suldaanka]

Most of the men agree with mercury even @Suldaanka DMed me saying “ignore what I’m writing in the forum sis, I love looking after women and running them baths and massaging their feet”.

First off. I told you not to publicise our realtionship.
Still my point is dont publicise it.

 

[Zahra]

Word of advice

When you get married don’t take your wife for granted pamper her and spoil her from time to time give her that red carpet treatment send her to a spa or make a romantic candle light dinner followed by giving her a gift like that designer handbag she’s been looking at online or those shoes she wants to buy but couldn’t afford

At the end of the day stuff like this isn’t uncool It’s never uncool to show your wife you appreciate the kind things she does for you

Very good advice

 

[Halimo-2018]

My grandpa used to be an alpha. 4 wives and he used to be dominant and he never spoilt them.
Why would us spoil them girls?Soy boys do it lmao

Are you sure grandpa didnt put in tough guy persona in public?

 

[Tukraq]

Are you sure grandpa didnt put in tough guy persona in public?

how is the way he lived his life a persona let me guess he had four wives as an act too

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Naagteyda si gaar ah baan u suureyn. Quraac qado iyo cashoba bisaddeeda baan kadhigan sannadka ugu horreeyo aan is qabno.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Dumarkeena waa kheyraadkayaga ugu qaalisan. Tu yar oo cas marka aan arko tolow bisadeeda waa dhadhankee baan is iraah ma yar dhanaan baa ma yar kharaar baa ma macaan baa. Eeg chaa afkeyga ayaa wada calyoobey. Eebow kuu mahad naqay. Waliba tu yar oo local ah hadu calaf iga galo wey yaabi doontaa

 

[XawoTako]

Word of advice

When you get married don’t take your wife for granted pamper her and spoil her from time to time give her that red carpet treatment send her to a spa or make a romantic candle light dinner followed by giving her a gift like that designer handbag she’s been looking at online or those shoes she wants to buy but couldn’t afford

At the end of the day stuff like this isn’t uncool It’s never uncool to show your wife you appreciate the kind things she does for you

Mashallah I wish there were more somali men like you

 

[HalimaJ]

All of you need comprehension skills. All i said is you shouldnt be talking about this publicly. And that a dayuus would do some shit like this. Its pandoras box. You already got @CaliSomali talking about some weird shit already. No need to put that shit so the whole world can see.
Every man loves his women. How they like to please and respect themselves shouldnt be documented

If @Mercury was talking about anything sexual, i would be the first to agree with you, but the thing is he wasn't.

Talking to a woman a certain way, being kind to them, helping them around the house ect, are things the Prophet S.A.W has already adviced us to do.

The prophet S.A.W even used to tell the Sahabas how they should talk to their wives. There are hadiths in which Aisha may Allah be pleased with her narrates all the sweet things the prophet used to do for her so that other men can learn from him. And you're saying encouraging men to be nice to their womemfolk is dayuus behaviour?

Merely talking about good treatment of spouses is not dayuus behaviour.

If a woman was to advice us on sspot all the things we should do for our husband, i know for a fact you would not kick up a fuss.

 

[Muji]

Duties of a man


- help with the household
- provide an income
- go down on us every day

Duties of a woman

- teach sons to be feminists
- educate yourself
- teach children to speak out for oppressed people like he LGBTQ community and black people
- educate children on safe sex

 

[Abdisamad]

Duties of a man


- help with the household
- provide an income
- go down on us every day

Duties of a woman

- teach sons to be feminists
- educate yourself
- teach children to speak out for oppressed people like he LGBTQ community and black people
- educate children on safe sex

I don't mind that part as long as the following tools are available or provided to me.

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And this protection equipment to avoid any hazardous gases.
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[Vanessa]

I don't mind that part as long as the following tools are available or provided to me.
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This tool to kill off the germs
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And this protection equipment to avoid any hazardous gases.
Remember safety first

What’s wrong with u, we wash so frequently everyday. There’s no germ or odour