Spend his money and save yours

[A_A]

Yaree you are a miskiin

 

[NotMyL]

Loooooool

Thanks sis, I'm trying..

Subaag as in ghee, like if you give him food, he would never leave.

Your ayeeyo was giving you the pg13 version of this

 

[East side]

Not realistic in this day n age. Most men cant support several kids, pay for everything and live comfortable life. I personally wouldnt agree to that. Wife has to do atleast part time job. 25% of what we earn goes to bills. So she better have 25% ready or she will get her black bin bag quickly

 

[YourBroMoe]

Women: We're equal.
Men: Word?

Men: We're equal, so we'll split the bill equally, or pay independently.
Women: You pay because I'm a woman.
Men: SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEMS LEGIIIIIIIIT!

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Your ayeeyo was giving you the pg13 version of this
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My ayeeyo is old school Dee. Lmfao.

 

[Suldaanka]

My ayeeyo is old school Dee. Lmfao.

So what happened to being independent.
Go Cook and get you cadar on.


Sariirta waa lagu suugi.

 

[Kodeen]

Honestly, this is why cadaan women are absolute fucking queens.



Your co-worker is actively homebuilding while you're trying to knee-cap your man.

 

[Dalmoor]

You are obviously obsessed with my husband so enjoy! Hopefully you don’t save our picture and fap to it.

@Suldaanka @kickz

@TheDarkie I ain't your husband, your imaginary xaaji is waiting for ya. Stop the mashquul and trespassing of my own house.

 

[Kaiser]

You came to my thread asked who I was and I’m the irrelevant one? I wouldn’t even know who you were if you didn’t post here

When people join this thread, they're not thinking about you rather the topic at hand. I didn't even know who you were until i came across some of your absurd posts that basically make men pets that will do everything for you.

If you seriously think that i came to this thread just to ask about you (who i don't even know or remember), then you seriously need some help asap.

 

[HalimaJ]

My Eedo was/is a strong and good woman and wife and a wonderful person and mother.
She used to pay half the rent, back home. Because she worked.
You guys are just spoiled so called princesses.
Come back in reality.
Life is not easy. A single salary is not enough and if you want children,
your man will have to work hard,really hard. And you will leave him because "he works too much".
Be wise and pay your shit. It's not a relationship between a father/and his little daughter, his princess.
You are in relationship with a stranger who happens to be your husband. He doesn't share your DNA.
So you don't expect him too much and he is not there for fixing your finance problems.

I live in reality, i see that many women want the feminist agenda.
I understand why and they should embrace the split system.
50/50.

Women give birth and nurture children.

What is a mans sole responsibility then?

Talk about taking advantage.

Don't hide behind feminism.

 

[HalimaJ]

First of all doing the chores is not that difficult. It's the wife's job. Me going out working all day and then come home tired is too much. You're a woman so don't know what it feels like. I see how my parents operate and that's the kind of life I want. My mother loves it so the ungrateful Xaarlimos in the west can't twist gender roles. I'm sorry.

Are you stupid?

Most of the women on this board work full time you moron, we know how it feels to work and come home tired.

You on the other hand, just admitted you are a little college student.

 

[HalimaJ]

No, Somali men are there for their kids. I don't know what you mean by running after the kid?

If my kids run away then I'll chase them because I don't want them to get lost.

Besides, I expect my wife to send my kids to school and madrassa and collect them. Doing the chores is not that hard so I see no reason for women to complain. The Somali women I'm around with are strong women and respect their culture. You don't see men complaining about their long day of work or paying the bills.

My belief and the majority of people is if you want a traditional husband. Act as a traditional wife.

There is a reason why heaven is under the feet of the mother and not the father.

Raising children is indeed hard. Lets be greatfull to our mothers.

It wasn't 'nothing' for her.

I'm a woman that works full time and i wholeheartedly believe my mother who is a housewife has it harder.

 

[Mercury]

There is a reason why heaven is under the feet of the mother and not the father.

Raising children is indeed hard. Lets be greatfull to our mothers.

It wasn't 'nothing' for her.

I'm a woman that works full time and i wholeheartedly believe my mother who is a housewife has it harder.

Seems like a lot of guys assume the wife is home chilling

 

[4head]

Women give birth and nurture children.

What is a mans sole responsibility then?

Talk about taking advantage.

Don't hide behind feminism.

Long ago, it's was Protection and Stability.
Now, the State provides for many families in the West.
Money is given to those families. And for the security -> they have the Police.
So man is not needed for those things.
And it's not biological. Use your brain for once.
Bearing kids is biological.
Stealing my money for egocentric reasons -> it's not natural and she won't get it.
The OP wants the money of her man as if it is hers.
Lmao. It's finished when we were living in poor and devasted regions where stability was needed and where the State wasn't there (Somalia was a difficult region in the past and still.)
but the West is secure and you can live decently with your family.


The OP is muslim and believes in the traditional way. I fully understand.
But living in the West, there's not excuse of stealing her man's money. If she wants help for her family, she can get the welfare. If she's in danger, the Police is there. Wasting his money while protecting hers -> this is what I call "being a parasite".

 

[HalimaJ]

Long ago, it's was Protection and Stability.
Now, the State provides for many families in the West.
Money is given to those families. And for the security -> they have the Police.
So man is not needed for those things.
And it's not biological. Use your brain for once.
Bearing kids is biological.
Stealing my money for egocentric reasons -> it's not natural and she won't get it.
The OP wants the money of her man as if it is hers.
Lmao. It's finished when we were living in poor and devasted regions where stability was needed and where the State wasn't there (Somalia was a difficult region in the past and still.)
but the West is secure and you can live decently with your family.


The OP is muslim and believes in the traditional way. I fully understand.
But living in the West, there's not excuse of stealing her man's money. If she wants help for her family, she can get the welfare. If she's in danger, the Police is there. Wasting his money while protecting hers -> this is what I call "being a parasite".

A man providing is also biological. It is in the nature of the man to provide and protect.

Going by your argument, i could argue a woman raising a child is merely following social conventions.

If its the state's job to provide, then we can also make it the states job to raise children. Lets throw kids in foster homes whilst we are at it.

 

[Kodeen]

A man providing is also biological. It is in the nature of the man to provide and protect.

Going by your argument, i could argue a woman raising a child is merely following social conventions.

If its the state's job to provide, then we can also make it the states job to raise children. Lets throw kids in foster homes whilst we are at it.

Will you watch your husband go bankrupt and stress day in and day out when things don't go his way financially? Then walk out on him when succumbs

Smh, HalimaJ, why is love such a foreign concept to African women

 

[HalimaJ]

Will you watch your husband go bankrupt and stress day in and day out when things don't go his way financially? Then walk out on him when succumbs

Smh, HalimaJ, why is love such a foreign concept to African women

Marriage is a partnership. He has your back, you have his.

Will you watch your wife grow old and wrinkly after years of giving birth to your kids, looking after the home and trying to keep you happy, only to replace her with a younger model, because now you have a bit more money?

Kodeen why is love such a foreign concept to African men?

 

[4head]

A man providing is also biological. It is in the nature of the man to provide and protect.

Going by your argument, i could argue a woman raising a child is merely following social conventions.

If its the state's job to provide, then we can also make it the states job to raise children. Lets throw kids in foster homes whilst we are at it.

Come again and i'll welcome you in reality.
Police -> provides security,
the Govt - > Welfare.
That's where many somali families got their thing going.
For the part "who will raise them" -> the parents. Idealy.
In reality ; many kids are "raised" by their teachers in School. Because parents are absents.
-> A man providing is also biological.
IT IS NOT BIOLOGICAL. It's societal. Just like Justice, Social Norms and Monogamy. It's societal.

Man is not for your egocentrical pleasure, as some girls in the Thread want. If you want to be a little princess and entitiled for money, you can stay with your father.

 

[4head]

Marriage is a partnership. He has your back, you have his.

Will you watch your wife grow old and wrinkly after years of giving birth to your kids, looking after the home and trying to keep you happy, only to replace her with a younger model, because now you have a bit more money?

Kodeen why is love such a foreign concept to African men?

> Love,

And women in the thread are after their men's money.
I love that irony from spoiled Somali women.

 

[Kodeen]

Marriage is a partnership. He has your back, you have his.

Will you watch your wife grow old and wrinkly after years of giving birth to your kids, looking after the home and trying to keep you happy, only to replace her with a younger model, because now you have a bit more money?

Kodeen why is love such a foreign concept to African men?

Who said I would do that? It's the girls in this thread that are unwilling to contribute.

"I pawg not for light skin kids, but for love" - Kodeen