Soul sucking friends
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The solution is to never have "friends" maybe people you talk to once or twice but friends are just a waste of time.
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cismaan maxamuud
>Wise words from a 96 atar veteran,dhadweynaha somaliyeed sii fiican uu dhageeyso
Its the only way to live in the Gaals world saxib>Wise words from a 96 atar veteran,dhadweynaha somaliyeed sii fiican uu dhageeyso
I myself used to be a nacas who believed in " friendship bracelets" and "BFFS" until I learned my lesson the hard
Now the only friends I have are the shadows and my somali family friends daughters
I made a Facebook post about it, they'll see it soon enough.
I have good friends from school and uni. I'm still figuring out the best way to ditch them.
I love the good friends I have. These two are more like acquaintances that don't understand boundaries.
Yeah I've always been a people pleaser and that's why I occasionally attract users. I will follow your advice sis. I feel better today but that's because I'm ignoring their phone calls.
Be that xaax xaasid xalimo abayo. Step on these hosts, step on these s.
That's what I was like before I decided to work for a mental health charity. Now I'm just soft because of the job.
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cismaan maxamuud
Are you a male or female.
Female ayeeyo
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Why does your shit say man,I was confused for a while,never thought a Somali man would have a dilemma like this.
They all dog you in the end.
The reason we make friends is to hinder the thought of death. Even though only we will feel the sadness of dying we distract our selfs from the inevitable through feeling we are part of a community. Hence we attain a sense of immorality. This is obviously an ill conceived notion but it calms our mind about death.This form of thinking is evident in all parts of our lives whether it be qabil, gobol Iyo qaran.
I'm sorry if that was a bit deep, it was the realisation I came to in my experiences
I've been in a similar situation. It was three of us, the always depressed girl, bubbly girl and I. When we were all together we would be able to have fun, but eventually me and the bubbly girl had a falling out, and it was just me and depressed girl. It's like we never had anything to talk about that didn't relate to her home life. Constantly 9 out of 10 times we spoke it was about her miserly. I felt for the girl, I really did, but please for the love of all that is holy can we for once talk about something else? I loved her too much to ever tell her that though. It's like bubbly girl kept our relationship stable and once she was gone so was the balance.
I would suggest having a serious chat with them and telling them what you told us. If there are no changes in their behavior towards you, cut them off and let them know why. Tell them I told what you were doing was a problem and you continued to do it regardless. So goodbye as you're not good for my mental health.
I would suggest having a serious chat with them and telling them what you told us. If there are no changes in their behavior towards you, cut them off and let them know why. Tell them I told what you were doing was a problem and you continued to do it regardless. So goodbye as you're not good for my mental health.
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