Very good point about needing a stepmother.
Yeah, all these Abdis in this thread are all just chatting crap. If they fall in love with a girl, they won't care that she partied and dated guys before.
I've seen this, time and time again, over and over.
Men don't want the quiet, shy homebody girl. They want the outgoing, full of life, having a ball type of girl. The girl at the Maxamed BK concert on Saturday, organising the uni Somali society party for Friday and catching a plane on the Saturday to spend a weekend with her girlfriends in Barcelona. That's the girl they want.