Somalis and their obsession with young marriages

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  1. yasmin lan

    yasmin lan Satans step daughter

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    why do somali relatives find the need to always ask when you’re getting married? I swear I had an eedo come over when I was like 14 and ask so when’s she getting married :gucciwhat: and I know everyone can relate to this because it’s one of the most annoying and repetitive questions an aunty/uncle can ask. Once at a family they had the nerve to introduce a distant male cousins to me :liberaltears: i dont know why are people love seeing young couples 9/10 their gonna get divorced after 6months and leave her pregnant
     
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  2. yasmin lan

    yasmin lan Satans step daughter

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  3. Apollo

    Apollo Staff Member Moderator

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    This is the case with all Islamic cultures. They are all obsessed with early marriages.
     
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  5. yasmin lan

    yasmin lan Satans step daughter

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    :ulyin: Looks like you relate a bit too much huuh
     
  6. KULTA

    KULTA Fuck you im from Mudug

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    Habaryars offering me their girls 24/7:nahgirl:
     
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  7. GlitzyCue_

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    They use to get married early back home
     
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    You're new to town.

    We should be asking why your predecessors come on here and make the exact same threads after signing up.

    Every single one of you follow the same cadence.

    :faysalwtf:
     
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  9. Waxwaalan

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    It's not hard to get why diaspora kids go & get married young. They want a bf/gf & to be able to show them off= u have to get married so its halal
     
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  10. jamal9

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    married pple live longer.
     
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  11. yasmin lan

    yasmin lan Satans step daughter

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    Or maybe it’s because it’s something that on our minds
     
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    Seems all the Gaal Halimos think alike.
     
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  13. TekNiKo

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    Tired of these thirsty relationship threads. Over and Over don't you people get tired of the same troll characters with the same repetitive topics?:farole:
     
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    They're all on autopilot.

    It's just like in YouTube where you see people copy and paste the exact same content over and over and over and over and..........
     
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  15. xisaabiye

    xisaabiye Ibnu Suxuufi Ibnu Al Dhoobe

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    People get married when they want to get married, it's that simple:manny: . If I was financially able I would've married in my late teens :kanyeshrug: My kids could've been 18 when I'm 36-37:rejoice:
     
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    Those kind of questions are part of the Somali kaftan culture and humour, nothing serous about them.:snoop: :francis:
    Stop taking everything literally:wtfdis:
     
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  17. yasmin lan

    yasmin lan Satans step daughter

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    I’m Muslim.
     
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    :gaasdrink:

    No offence but it depends on what type of people you come from. Pressure to marry as a teenager is usually occurs for those who come from a very nomadic/no formal education background or those with highly Arab influenced culture. ( benadiris and jareer)

    Never been pressured myself. :ayaanswag:
     
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  19. Mercury

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    Never understood the point of early marriage why not focus on finishing your degree or your other goals in life and than get married?

    And those who say you should marry early because it says so in Islam what about Divorce that's strongly disliked

    And what about Backtalk? That's Haram yet you will see a habaryar gossiping about the couple
     
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  20. TekNiKo

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    I think people in the West in general get turned off by the idea of marriage. The system is skewed against proper parenting and sides with the women in court. Why should western folks get married when they get sex for free?

    As @LarryThePuntite would say its bad investment.
     
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