Somali women deserve better

[Abdisamad]

Somalis are finished. The brother basically seal her fate to become a wh@re by beating her blue-black.

A normal slap and forcing her to delete social media would have sufficed.

Their house must've been very disfunctional... The boy is violent and the girls is seeking attention on social media.. Anyway I'm tired of females like @malab#2 coming online to condemn all Somali men, like they're all on social media and support beating women.

 

[Abdisamad]

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Where are these people living?

 

[GaradShabeel]

Where are these people living?

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[barbiedreamzz]

Their house must've been very disfunctional... The boy is violent and the girls is seeking attention on social media.. Anyway I'm tired of females like @malab#2 coming online to condemn all Somali men, like they're all on social media and support beating women.

I didn't say all somali men are women beaters? In the previous thread I obviously had an anger outburst, as a somali woman of course ill get triggered seeing that. I know that there are good somali men I am just tired of scumbags like him getting a slap on the wrist, I am tired of how the somali society doesn't take this serious.

 

[Shirib_queen]

But I must say one thing as a girl, Somali girls way halaabeen, it’s strange because we are a Muslim country, and girls are taking videos of them with a piece of cloth on their head and calling it a hijab, and men in their families no longer care they are dayooth wllhi. Where is your haya? Somalia needs sharia wllh bllh

 

[Odious Delirium]

Women are not like men sxb where you can tell him when he grows up to move on and build his life, girls are dependent on their father/guardian until they get married. There is no such thing as long gone. You can advise her, rebuke her and if she persists in her degeneracy confine her to the house.

You can't be lenient towards your daughter if she violates important Islamic principles such as modesty.

These types don't give you a choice tho they will run away and even if you confine them to your house you can't keep that up and internet can be accessed anywhere. You don't have the ability to lock her up even if you tired to prevent her from having any access to the outside world and expect her to not come out of that more messed up then before and more likely to scam her way out of that solitary confinement to escape you forever to be free to do much worse.

There is such a thing as long gone but that doesn't mean you give up on them it Just means nothing you do will have an effect on them

 

[no 3456]

Don't beat women vice verse
Don't do negative thing that may harm you your family and have to answer too allah

 

[Abdisamad]

I didn't say all somali men are women beaters? In the previous thread I obviously had an anger outburst, as a somali woman of course ill get triggered seeing that. I know that there are good somali men I am just tired of scumbags like him getting a slap on the wrist, I am tired of how the somali society doesn't take this serious.

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[Abdisamad]

She didn’t get beaten up by anyone (she said it herself). It’s also a filter or make up that she’s put on for the bruises because the forehead ones have disappeared in 7 hours.

What?

 

[Odious Delirium]

I didn't say all somali men are women beaters? In the previous thread I obviously had an anger outburst, as a somali woman of course ill get triggered seeing that. I know that there are good somali men I am just tired of scumbags like him getting a slap on the wrist, I am tired of how the somali society doesn't take this serious.

Having outbursts and painting everyone with the same brush and not having self control just alienates the people you expect to help/make change.

Your an adult act like one. Injustice happens all the time being triggered doesn't help the situation.

This is general advice to anyone that doesn't want to push people away from a cause that requires there help.

 

[Mozart]

What?

I commented on the wrong thread

 

[barbiedreamzz]

Having outbursts and painting everyone with the same brush and not having self control just alienates the people you expect to help/make change.

Your an adult act like one. Injustice happens all the time being triggered doesn't help the situation.

This is general advice to anyone that doesn't want to push people away from a cause that requires there help.

Oh get off your high horse, seeing someone being almost beating to death in a country that gives zero support to women in those conditions will of course create a reaction. With all due respect but I couldn't give a single f*ck if your sensitive ass got offended, you're not the victim in this situation the girl is.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Oh get off your high horse, seeing someone being almost beating to death in a country that gives zero support to women in those conditions will of course create a reaction. With all due respect but I couldn't give a single f*ck if your sensitive ass got offended, you're not the victim in this situation the girl is.

I never said anything about me being offended I'm talking generally here but I understand your reaction you are currently triggered and emotional. I'm stating what is theoretical the best approach in these types of scenarios.

I stated earlier in the thread what I think about all this already.

 

[Hamzza]

These types don't give you a choice tho they will run away and even if you confine them to your house you can't keep that up and internet can be accessed anywhere. You don't have the ability to lock her up even if you tired to prevent her from having any access to the outside world and expect her to not come out of that more messed up then before and more likely to scam her way out of that solitary confinement to escape you forever to be free to do much worse.

Who said we don't have the ability to lock them up, remember we are not talking about people living in the degenerate West. These cases happen in Djibouti, Somalia, and Ethiopia. you can perfectly confine her to the house and take the phone from her until she acts in a proper Islamic way.

I don't know why you are going to distances to defend degeneracy and Dayousnimo. You sound very liberal. I guess you're against capital punishment and other types of retributions because they don't bring any tangible results.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I guess you're against capital punishment and other types of retributions because they don't bring any tangible results.

No.

you can perfectly confine her to the house and take the phone from her until she acts in a proper Islamic way.

You missed my point applying this pressure just makes them more dishonest in trying to escape you which you still can do in those countries aswell. Those places are a lot more liberal now adays and breed more hypocrites and fake Muslims. Forcing submissions by beating or locking up especially with women tends to not work that often or well.

 

[Hamzza]

No.

You missed my point applying this pressure just makes them more dishonest in trying to escape you which you still can do in those countries aswell. Those places are a lot more liberal now adays and breed more hypocrites and fake Muslims. Forcing submissions by beating or locking up especially with women tends to not work that often or well.

You would've been more consistent if you held such views and I guessed this because the arguments you make for degeneracy to spread are the same ones far-left liberals make when they are criticizing classical punishments.

 

[Odious Delirium]

You would've been more consistent if you held such views and I guessed this because the arguments you make for degeneracy to spread are the same ones far-left liberals make when they are criticizing classical punishments.

I did state what the prophet said on this exact point earlier that was the basis for my take here. Go back and read all my posts in this thread and you wont come to that conclusion. Plus Hadd is regulated and by the state so no one goes around taking matters into there own hands.

 

[GemState]

She is saying, my mother allowed me to dance hadaan rabno waan is qaawinaynaa(if we want we will get naked) and no one can do anything to us.

This is what @malab#2 wants to encourage. We are Muslim and we reject your filthy message nayaa

There's a simple rule you must never break to have a good society of men: Don't open it up to women or homos.

It really is that simple. It really is that fucking simple. Open up to either and in no time all your energy is wasted in absolute inane shit.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

He beat her up so bad, i keep seeing it on my fyp. I don't condone sexually dancing on social media but niggas gotta keep the same energy for guys chewing khat on the street and dividing their people through tribe daily back home. Can't be islamic one way and completely ignore the other. Anybody that defend this is crazy

This. Y'all never have smoke for the men doing criminal activity and ruining communities

 

[Gerigo'an]

Instead of blaming each other, maybe you should work together to fix our issues? Just a thought.
All this finger pointing and blame assigning does not help you or your community.

There's no doubt there's much that we need to improve on as community. Let's not blame each other and sow further division. At the end of the day, if you're Somali, the reputation of your community will impact you, and you won't be able to escape it by blaming the other gender.