Somali women deserve better

[Hamzza]

She is saying, my mother allowed me to dance hadaan rabno waan is qaawinaynaa(if we want we will get naked) and no one can do anything to us.

This is what @malab#2 wants to encourage. We are Muslim and we reject your filthy message nayaa

 

[Odious Delirium]

Of course, severely beating her and hurting her face like this is wrong. But you take every measure at your disposal to prevent your daughter/sister from becoming a sharm#to. Letting her go and do whatever she wants as these people are suggesting is not an option.

No but if she's acting like a degen while a fully grown adult then she's already long gone all you can do at that point is warn her and advice her to leave that lifestyle behind. No amount of beating will change anything expect push her futher away.

Parents should be raising them right from the jump so they don't end up becoming degens set in there ways.

Very often people will say "but the parents are good" when that's not the point they have to be better then good and most importantly proactive and day by day it only gets harder as time goes on. Most parents are definitely not proactive enough and many are just out right terrible/absent.

 

[Radical]

Your female mahram are under your or your wali’s care until they get married.

I'm not responsible for another person's actions. I will try to advice her if she's in the wrong path, but at the end of the day her decisions are hers to make.

This infantlization and over protectiveness of women is part of the reason this shit happened in the first place. "Your female mahram are under your care" why does a grown up person need my supervision, surely you understand how demeaning that sounds.

I'm not gonna force an adult to behave how I want them to behave. She is an autonomous individual, not an extension of my honor or my ticket to janah. Free to make her own decisions and mistakes in life.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

I'm not responsible for another individual's actions. I will try to advice her if she's in the wrong path, but at the end of the day her decisions are hers to make.

This infantlization and over protectiveness of women is part of the reason this shit happened in the first place. "Your female mahram are under your care" why does a grown up person need my care, surely you understand how demeaning that sounds.

I'm not gonna force an adult to behave how I want them to behave. She is an autonomous individual, not an extension of my honor or my ticket to janah. Free to make her own decisions and mistakes in life.

Women aren’t lesser than men but they’re objectively more vulnerable. That’s why they’re under your care. She can be your ticket to jannah if you saved her from danger or haram.

 

[Odious Delirium]

She is saying, my mother allowed me to dance hadaan rabno waan is qaawinaynaa(if we want we will get naked) and no one can do anything to us.

This was my point all this beating did was create this type of reaction nothing good came out of this. He did a greater injustice then any dancing vid his sister could ever do by encouraging more women to follow suit aswell as take things futher and none of this was for honor but because his pride which is one of the worst sins was wounded.

there is no honor in beating anyone unjustly especially your mahram women who you should be protecting.

 

[El Nino]

Shaking futo in a society that does fgm, the low Iq is astounishing. Some of these women aren’t in the safety of the west kawaran. I personally blame Diana cream for giving our xalimos back home brain damage

 

[Waa dhamatay]

This was my point all this beating did was create this type of reaction nothing good came out of this. He did a greater injustice then any dancing vid his sister could ever do by encouraging more women to follow suit aswell as take things futher and none of this was for honor but because his pride which is one of the worst sins was wounded.

there is no honor in beating anyone unjustly especially your mahram women who you should be protecting.

There’s effective ways to respond to things, this type of violent reaction to dishonor is how dumb kids from muslim countries OD on western kool aid en masse

 

[niggaibnh]

I hate it that we’re handling this situation on TikTok and Twitter
It causes nothing but more chaos

 

[Radical]

Women aren’t lesser than men but they’re objectively more vulnerable. That’s why they’re under your care. She can be your ticket to jannah if you saved her from danger or haram.

This is why I said advice her, try to guide with council not fists. I would never impose my will on someone.

 

[barbiedreamzz]

Shaking futo in a society that does fgm, the low Iq is astounishing. Some of these women aren’t in the safety of the west kawaran. I personally blame Diana cream for giving our xalimos back home brain damage

First time we see consequences for shaking futoo on social media .

These women need to stop niiko infront of millions of people then nothing will happen lol.

You're lot are more worried about a view women sexualising themselves and going viral online (because of horny somali men who dont know how to lower their gaze) but not about the physical abuse countless of innocent somali women are facing ? I swear you people are the same ones who critise counties like India for being "backwards" while at the same time having neatherthal mindset. I expected this from spineless coons like @Hamzza but I guess yall are all the same.

 

[Abdisamad]

Somalis..

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[El Nino]

You're lot are more worried about a view women sexualising themselves and going viral online (because of horny somali men who dont know how to lower their gaze) but not about the physical abuse countless of innocent somali women are facing ? I swear you people are the same ones who critise counties like India for being "backwards" while at the same time having neatherthal mindset. I expected this from spineless coons like @Hamzza but I guess yall are all the same.

There is consequinces to your actions, why is she acting like that in a patriarchal society full of hotheaded men. What he did was wrong but Im baffled for what she did. She thinks she lives in damn Narnia. My sympathies goes for her but come on malab.

 

[Abdisamad]

You're lot are more worried about a view women sexualising themselves and going viral online (because of horny somali men who dont know how to lower their gaze) but not about the physical abuse countless of innocent somali women are facing ? I swear you people are the same ones who critise counties like India for being "backwards" while at the same time having neatherthal mindset. I expected this from spineless coons like @Hamzza but I guess yall are all the same.

Why dont you stick to your Ethiopian man, I mean you are not a Muslim and you don't like Somali men and think we are all backward arab slaves right? Why do you spend your time and energy on people you dislike?

 

[Hamzza]

No but if she's acting like a degen while a fully grown adult then she's already long gone all you can do at that point is warn her and advice her to leave that lifestyle behind. No amount of beating will change anything expect push her futher away.

Parents should be raising them right from the jump so they don't end up becoming degens set in there ways.

Very often people will say "but the parents are good" when that's not the point they have to be better then good and most importantly proactive and day by day it only gets harder as time goes on. Most parents are definitely not proactive enough and many are just out right terrible/absent.

Women are not like men sxb where you can tell him when he grows up to move on and build his life, girls are dependent on their father/guardian until they get married. There is no such thing as long gone. You can advise her, rebuke her and if she persists in her degeneracy confine her to the house.

You can't be lenient towards your daughter if she violates important Islamic principles such as modesty.

 

[barbiedreamzz]

There is consequinces to your actions, why is she acting like that in a patriarchal society full of hotheaded men. What he did was wrong but Im baffled for what she did. She thinks she lives in damn Narnia. My sympathies goes for her but come on malab.

Don't get me wrong I don't support women prostituting themselves online since that feeds the perverts and causes somali women to be sexualising or fetishized, however I do think he could handled this much better than beating her black and blue almost ending her life.

 

[GaradShabeel]

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[Lebron James]

He beat her up so bad, i keep seeing it on my fyp. I don't condone sexually dancing on social media but niggas gotta keep the same energy for guys chewing khat on the street and dividing their people through tribe daily back home. Can't be islamic one way and completely ignore the other. Anybody that defend this is crazy

 

[Waa dhamatay]

This is why I said advice her, try to guide with council not fists. I would never impose my will on someone.

Advice is usually ignored, you must also give a stern warning then punish her harshly if she transgresses. Beating black and blue is wrong but that doesn’t mean you should just let her off

 

[Scipio Africanus]

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Somalis are finished. The brother basically sealed her fate to become a wh@re by beating her blue-black.

A normal slap and forcing her to delete social media would have sufficed.

 

[GaradShabeel]

Somalis are finished. The brother basically seal her fate to become a wh@re by beating her blue-black.

A normal slap and forcing her to delete social media would have sufficed.

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