I fail to understand what makes someone leave there comfortable home and go to war and destruction. only to be impregnated by racist Arab and lastly beheaded like an animal by the opposition. I hate to say it, most of our women are gullible, they are easily misled and lead. I believe it begins in the home when parents are themselves, extreme (secretly) but also in the deen. almost to the point, you can't pick up dirt from the ground without someone saying you will be banished into hell. it's fine thine line between extremest and sheik preaching the word of god. it takes someone with enough knowledge to see the blurred line because they look the same and preach the same. I have a little niece and I'm very mind of what she watches, I can't stop her wanting to learn the deen and doing good for herself. but I'm also actively around her, monitoring her. to be fair to the woman on here, Somali men do leave their western home to fight useless war but I don't care about Somali men as I do care about the somali woman