Somali husband stole money from his wife to finance his side chick in somalia

[cooli3o]

These men don't leave their wives, that's the issue. Usually they keep the first wife around and have other wives on top of that. Also, they try to make divorce difficult and use emotional blackmail and family to pressure her to stay.

The truth is, most men do care if their first wife asks for a divorce or remarries. Especially if he is still attracted to her, as many men only love with their eyes. And when they don't 'care' about her, they 100% care about another man playing daddy to his kids.

every man is different, alot of men don't care for their wives, but their wife is a sign of pride for them,so he would not want his wife divorcing him, so the husbands would prefer to keep her married even if they don't like her, also men who love with their eyes do not love, all you are is a sex object to him, he doesn't care about your feelings or anything, I wouldn't call this love, they just want you to please them for their own benefit.

also what men are we talking about here? I am assuming the older generation?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

The whole thread was about a man stealing money to finance his second marriage and you come up with that? Stick to the topic at hand. You’re a troll that is trying to be controversial.

As for the men wanting more children, 9/10 times they don’t raise those children since they’re too old with health problems and then they expect their first wives who’ve sacrificed a lot for them throughout the years to help them when they’re sick instead of expecting that from their new young wife who isn’t going to waste her youth on an old Ill man. Also, I know several cases of the first set of kids having to finance the children of this odey who wanted to play house when he can’t even do it because of age and lack of money.

Your type want to use women’s youth, beauty and fertility and once they’re no longer of use you want to abandon them and leave them lonely.

This is why I don't recommend Somali women to have babies back to back like a baby machine. Somali women need the 'soft life' and not listen to pick-me's and 'raaliyo's who got treated like donkeys and brainwashed.

It's better for women to stay as healthy and well-rested as humanely possible, even hiring help at home if need be. Put yourself before everyone, eat before your children and husband eat and make sure number 1, is good at all times. Husbands can leave and die, and children also leave the nest at some point, so don't get left whilst broken and sucked dry.

 

[Angelina]

The problem is that most of the older men who do this are not providing for their first wife and children. The ones in Africa actually provide for their families but the men that come from western countries leave their family to fend for themselves and the first wife has to struggle in taking care of the family. If your wife or child has to work low paid jobs or depend on ceyr polygamy is not for you. Polygamy is only for the men that can actually provide for their families.

Funny, it’s a Western concept when it’s time to grow old together but not when aging men expect their wives to look after them when sick, out of ‘love’.

If it’s every man for himself and men want to use biology to be selfish then so should women.

 

[reer]

You’re disgusting and you’re taking the trolling to far. You’re using the deen in a case in which a man steals money from his wife to marry again and thus being a thief and abandoning his children.

You’re 30, you’re too old to be doing this. Grow up.

if you abandon your kids you are oppressing them. i detest faraxs who do that crap. we have an epidemic of deadbeat dads. also there are too many stories of a xalimo bringing a husband from somalia and he leaves her when his paperwork is done. in uniform-like fashion. and becomes deadbeat.

 

[cooli3o]

The whole thread was about a man stealing money to finance his second marriage and you come up with that? Stick to the topic at hand. You’re a troll that is trying to be controversial.

As for the men wanting more children, 9/10 times they don’t raise those children since they’re too old with health problems and then they expect their first wives who’ve sacrificed a lot for them throughout the years to help them when they’re sick instead of expecting that from their new young wife who isn’t going to waste her youth on an old Ill man. Also, I know several cases of the first set of kids having to finance the children of this odey who wanted to play house when he can’t even do it because of age and lack of money.

Your type want to use women’s youth, beauty and fertility and once they’re no longer of use you want to abandon them and leave them lonely.

he isn't justifying it hes just explaining the reasoning behind it

 

[reer]

No man cares about his first wife after divorce. He was the first to taste her so why would he care who gets his leftovers?

Nope stealing money and betraying your wife financially is deplorable. I was referring to men who become wanting of more children when their first wife reaches old age. I provided an example and you accuse me of using the deen. I simply explained the logic behind it. Many of you have romantisiced Western ideals of “growing old” together and monogamy so I wouldnt expect anything less.

if your son has cornrows and is wearing durags going to xamar to get a second wife is dumb. you cant even raise one family properly.

 

[Angelina]

if you abandon your kids you are oppressing them. i detest faraxs who do that crap. we have an epidemic of deadbeat dads. also there are too many stories of a xalimo bringing a husband from somalia and he leaves her when his paperwork is done. and becomes deadbeat.

Well then just know, this nonsense will continue since women who talk sense and tell women to put themselves to avoid this B.S are called feminists in our community and that all of this doesn’t happen since it’s a lie to ‘taint’ the community. I’m seen as a man hater on this forum when every day you have a habar or a fob on TikTok crying because she’s been screwed over. It’s now a norm and it’s annoying.

 

[reer]

Well then just know, this nonsense will continue since women who talk sense and tell women to put themselves to avoid this B.S are called feminists in our community and that all of this doesn’t happen since it’s a lie to ‘taint’ the community. I’m seen as a man hater on this forum when every day you have a habar or a fob on TikTok crying because she’s been screwed over. It’s now a norm and it’s annoying.

wallahi sad weeye i keep seeing garoob women raising kids on their own with no father. imagine having a crying baby at night and aabaha is nowhere to be seen or busy in aroos instead of his kid. too much weeye.

 

[Angelina]

if your son has cornrows and is wearing durags going to xamar to get a second wife is dumb. you cant even raise one family properly.

Since when were those men ‘raising’ a family in the first place? Everything to do with the kids and house has been put on the shoulders of the wife, and unfortunately a lot of older gen women are a problem. They teach their sons to live by that dynamic. They will criticize their daughter in law if they find out their son cooks or cleans or even changes his child’s pampers but they’d cry when their husbands marries again after years of essentially doing nothing at home and not paying full bills due to benefits. He’s become used to actually being useless.

 

[TekNiKo]

The problem is that most of the older men who do this are not providing for their first wife and children. The ones in Africa actually provide for their families but the men that come from western countries leave their family to fend for themselves and the first wife has to struggle in taking care of the family. If your wife or child has to work low paid jobs or depend on ceyr polygamy is not for you. Polygamy is only for the men that can actually provide for their families.

Why would you need to provide for your children when they are 20+ and you are in your 60s? Dont they have Cayr system in the West? The system actually pays single mothers more benefits those kids would never starve

 

[cooli3o]

Why would you need to provide for your children when they are 20+ and you are in your 60s? Dont they have Cayr system in the West? The system actually pays single mothers more benefits those kids would never starve

kids in their 20s still need help with money

 

[TekNiKo]

if your son has cornrows and is wearing durags going to xamar to get a second wife is dumb. you cant even raise one family properly.

They are idiots! I would never have kids in the West by Allah! I would never bring a child to this rotten world. Its why you marry in Africa and all your problems are solved. If you need a wife outside in the West look for a girl who doesnt want kids. Thats what I did

 

[Angelina]

Why would you need to provide for your children when they are 20+ and you are in your 60s? Dont they have Cayr system in the West? The system actually pays single mothers more benefits those kids would never starve

Kids or not, you’re meant to provide for your wife. You have no right to leave and not give her money. Might as well divorce her at that since it isn’t a marriage but a mockery of one.

As for benefits? Why should your family be on benefits when you’re a fit man? This is why our community is a joke. You have married hooyos protesting for better council houses whilst their man is on the hunt for a new wife.

The lowest of men, thinking of only their lower regions but can’t provide or lead. We see the ramifications of our community. This is what you reap and sow.

 

[attash]

You’ve purposely missed the point. Wishing your dad and his hot new wife? Get out of here. Really hate the hypocrisy. Y’all will be saddened and disgusted if a mother stole her man’s money and one of us said we’d wish her and ‘hot’ new man well.

No one said that a child should be caasi to their parents or that one should argue with their dad, but it’s crazy how permissive you lot are of a father stealing and abandoning his own family. Most people would be horrified if their parent was a thief, but it’s all wish him the best if he can get a younger woman than your mother right?

The sociopathy on this forum is scary.

Like he said, he was trolling in that last part, so I kind of ignored it. If one of you said something similar, I wouldn't have cared. I might have even laughed. People like to joke around here, welcome to the internet.

In fact, you should be more concerned with some of the other replies. Some of the others said that they would kill their father if that happened to them. If there's anything sociopathic, it's that. The fact that you didn't condemn them made me think that you sort of agreed with them, which is why I responded to your post.

For the record, I would be saddened and disgusted if either of my parents did something like this. But I wouldn't cut them off or hate them because of it. If we can both agree on this, we're on the same page.

 

[Kane]

 

[TekNiKo]

Kids or not, you’re meant to provide for your wife. You have no right to leave and not give her money. Might as well divorce her at that since it isn’t a marriage but a mockery of one.

As for benefits? Why should your family be on benefits when you’re a fit man? This is why our community is a joke. You have married hooyos protesting for better council houses whilst their man is on the hunt for a new wife.

The lowest of men, thinking of only their lower regions but can’t provide or lead. We see the ramifications of our community. This is what you reap and sow.

Go ask your relatives and those in UK Council homes. The government has become the new daddy and Aabo has become obsolete.

 

[Angelina]

Like he said, he was trolling in that last part, so I kind of ignored it. If one of you said something similar, I wouldn't have cared. I might have even laughed. People like to joke around here, welcome to the internet.

In fact, you should be more concerned with some of the other replies. Some of the others said that they would kill their father if that happened to them. If there's anything sociopathic, it's that. The fact that you didn't condemn them made me think that you sort of agreed with them, which is why I responded to your post.

For the record, I would be saddened and disgusted if either of my parents did something like this. But I wouldn't cut them off or hate them because of it. If we can both agree on this, we're on the same page.

I wouldn’t cut my parent off for that, but the only and only reason why is because of fear of hell. Apart from that I’d be disgusted and angry and only the deen aspect would stop me from doing the haram of cutting them off. Only because it’s haram. Not out of love, nothing.

 

[Angelina]

Go ask your relatives and those in UK Council homes. The government has become the new daddy and Aabo has become obsolete.

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As a man if you act useless, you’ll be treated as such.

 

[Unbothered]

They are idiots! I would never have kids in the West by Allah! I would never bring a child to this rotten world. It’s why you marry in Africa and all your problems are solved. If you need a wife outside in the West look for a girl who doesnt want kids. Thats what I did

Your misogyny disgusts me. May your wife cheat on you . May you raise children that are not yours. women in Africa are ruthless

 

[reer]

Kids or not, you’re meant to provide for your wife. You have no right to leave and not give her money. Might as well divorce her at that since it isn’t a marriage but a mockery of one.

As for benefits? Why should your family be on benefits when you’re a fit man? This is why our community is a joke. You have married hooyos protesting for better council houses whilst their man is on the hunt for a new wife.

The lowest of men, thinking of only their lower regions but can’t provide or lead. We see the ramifications of our community. This is what you reap and sow.

Go ask your relatives and those in UK Council homes. The government has become the new daddy and Aabo has become obsolete.

go raise and provide for your kids before they start robbing people.