Somali Girls aint Feeling us, Here's Why.

[VixR]

BC intelligence is masculine (Not)

BC just as in TVland, if a girl thinks for herself, she's troll ed. Even in geekdom, they're fugly to average, and anything above average is literally portrayed something to gasp at.

It was simultaneously an insult to women, femasculation, and a self-massage.

1) Women are dumb (ie insult to female intelligence)

2) Except Vixr (ie stripping me of femininity)

3) due to her masculinity (ie reaffirming perceived intelligence is as a masculine trait, being male, a self-massage to top it off)

I'm sure he was expecting a cookie. Evidently I'm one of a few who have an eye for reading the insecurities in his posts.

 

[Ferrari]

Of course but it just shows the lengths people are willing to go to. Most young Somali Western women would not agree to polgamy with a Somali man so I find this example jarring.

Somali women have more freedom then other Muslim women especially when it comes to marriage.

Yeah. They also would never agree to say yes to a somali man who wouldn't pay them meher but ajnabis never give them anything. I even know of cases where when the family refused, the girls would run off with the guy and the family says let's fund your marriage before you embarrass us(i.e get pregnant).
Yes your last come is also a factor. They aren't as controlled as some other women.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Somali women have more freedom then other Muslim women especially when it comes to marriage.

And it's a problem.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

And it's a problem.

Why is that a problem? Tell that to the Somali mother who's selling tomatoes in the market because her dead beat SOMALI husband won't work for the family.

What did the Somali women back home who are married to SOMALI men achieve? Other than hunger, pain and embarassment.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Why is that a problem? Tell that to the Somali mother who's selling tomatoes in the market because her dead beat SOMALI husband won't work for the family.

What did the Somali women back home who are married to SOMALI men achieve? Other than hunger, pain and embarassment.

U misunderstood. I'm saying Somali girls having too much freedom when it comes to the marriage process is a problem. I think fathers need to play bigger role in vetting potential suitors in order to make sure the daughter marries someone who is husband material. This laidback and careless approach of some fathers is inexcusable.

 

[merka]

BC intelligence is masculine (Not)

BC just as in TVland, if a girl thinks for herself, she's troll ed. Even in geekdom, they're fugly to average, and anything above average is literally portrayed something to gasp at.

It was simultaneously an insult to women, femasculation, and a self-massage.

1) Women are dumb (ie insult to female intelligence)

2) Except Vixr (ie stripping me of femininity)

3) due to her masculinity (ie reaffirming perceived intelligence is as a masculine trait, being male, a self-massage to top it off)

I'm sure he was expecting a cookie. Evidently I'm one of a few who have an eye for reading the insecurities in his posts.

I'm just a simple man. When I read something funny I laugh.

 

[Ubax45_]

And it's a problem.

U misunderstood. I'm saying Somali girls having to much freedom when it comes to the marriage process is a problem. I think fathers need to play bigger role in vetting potential suitors in order to make sure the daughter marries someone who is husband material. This laidback and careless approach of some fathers is inexcusable.

This requires a lot of work that most Somali parents are not willing to do, these Arab/South Asian parents both mother and father are stressed out about ensuring their offspring find suitable spouses within their life time.

 

[Southerner]

I read someone say ''Somali boys are black boys es'''and walle there might be some truth in that :siilaanyolaugh:

It's a non issue until one of us admits to losing his girl to a Tyrone

 

[WiilWaalan]

Great post. A thorough analysis. Was getting an intellectual boner until i saw the simpletons replying to your post

 

[TekNiKo]

U misunderstood me sxb. I was giving my take on their education level and its quality, I was talking about why Somali girls who are 'educated' will reject guys without a uni degree. It's because girls use things like degrees as status indicators, and if ur below her in too many indocators you'll get eliminated if she has enough options.

As for their education level, most would have been better served to stay home and learn af-soomaali and how to be good wives and mothers from their moms instead of being brainwashed in uni.

You hit the nail on its head bro, these useless Women Studies degrees and sociology are breeding ground for feminist idealogy which destroys family unit

 

[TekNiKo]

Just marry from back home problem solved,

 

[Tramo]

Just marry from back home problem solved,

considering how much ppl on here discuss marriage ad nauseum this might be the best idea. walle meesha waa lagu qooqanyahay

 

[Inquisitive_]

Why is that a problem? Tell that to the Somali mother who's selling tomatoes in the market because her dead beat SOMALI husband won't work for the family.

What did the Somali women back home who are married to SOMALI men achieve? Other than hunger, pain and embarassment.

At what point are you going to take personal responsibility for yourself? If you cohabitate with an alcoholic or a bum, chances are that he will remain like this after marriage, dogs don't change their habits

Similar story if I got with a stripper/loose chick, then complain she is a loser that visits clubs and has cheated after marriage, no one will be surprised by it nor take me serious, the blame will fall on my shoulders for picking up garbage, so why is your case any different?


@VixR

Your assessment would be true if you used 21st century Eurocentric measurement of intelligence or the even the much worse IQ perhaps, your book smart no doubt, but the Geeljire women in the village whom you have been conditioned to believe is inferior blows you out of the water in every other department.

I have been very fortunate enough to spend time with both to see this, I don't read any new ideas from you or perspectives, just the old rehashed feminist narratives you regurgitate endlessly and mindlessly, if those books were taking away, you would have been a stagnate obtuse clueless type.

You remind me of this girl that recently fell pregnant watching months of pregnancy videos prior but was too scared when the moment arrived and ran off to her mother's house were she spent several months because she was utterly clueless, causing major issues for the husband, the same mum she used to call 'backwards' and 'out of touch'

Mind you this is your typical 21st century intelligentsia quackademic much like yourself that domesticated ultra useless 21st century types that you can't even trust with a baby, what exactly do you bring of intelligence or value that you are touting around here? care to explain and break this down for us?

 

[government]

At what point are you going to take personal responsibility for yourself? If you cohabitate with an alcoholic or a bum, chances are that he will remain like this after marriage, dogs don't change their habits

Similar story if I got with a stripper/loose chick, then complain she is a loser that visits clubs and has cheated after marriage, no one will be surprised by it nor take me serious, the blame will fall on my shoulders for picking up garbage, so why is your case any different?


@VixR

Your assessment would be true if you used 21st century Eurocentric measurement of intelligence or the even the much worse IQ perhaps, your book smart no doubt, but the Geeljire women in the village whom you have been conditioned to believe is inferior blows you out of the water in every other department.

I have been very fortunate enough to spend time with both to see this, I don't read any new ideas from you or perspectives, just the old rehashed feminist narratives you regurgitate endlessly and mindlessly, if those books were taking away, you would have been a stagnate obtuse clueless type.

You remind me of this girl that recently fell pregnant watching months of pregnancy videos prior but was too scared when the moment arrived and ran off to her mother's house were she spent several months because she was utterly clueless, causing major issues for the husband, the same mum she used to call 'backwards' and 'out of touch'

Mind you this is your typical 21st century intelligentsia quackademic much like yourself that domesticated ultra useless 21st century types that you can't even trust with a baby, what exactly do you bring of intelligence or value that you are touting around here? care to explain and break this down for us?

You didn't have to write all of that it's a known fact that men are smarter than women

 

[VixR]

At what point are you going to take personal responsibility for yourself? If you cohabitate with an alcoholic or a bum, chances are that he will remain like this after marriage, dogs don't change their habits

Similar story if I got with a stripper/loose chick, then complain she is a loser that visits clubs and has cheated after marriage, no one will be surprised by it nor take me serious, the blame will fall on my shoulders for picking up garbage, so why is your case any different?


@VixR

Your assessment would be true if you used 21st century Eurocentric measurement of intelligence or the even the much worse IQ perhaps, your book smart no doubt, but the Geeljire women in the village whom you have been conditioned to believe is inferior blows you out of the water in every other department.

I have been very fortunate enough to spend time with both to see this, I don't read any new ideas from you or perspectives, just the old rehashed feminist narratives you regurgitate endlessly and mindlessly, if those books were taking away, you would have been a stagnate obtuse clueless type.

You remind me of this girl that recently fell pregnant watching months of pregnancy videos prior but was too scared when the moment arrived and ran off to her mother's house were she spent several months because she was utterly clueless, causing major issues for the husband, the same mum she used to call 'backwards' and 'out of touch'

Mind you this is your typical 21st century intelligentsia quackademic much like yourself that domesticated ultra useless 21st century types that you can't even trust with a baby, what exactly do you bring of intelligence or value that you are touting around here? care to explain and break this down for us?

Is there a reason you assign a narrative and then argue against it? Kkk

If you love to hear yourself talk as much you love to argue with yourself in written format, just stick this shit on the wall and speak freely

 

[jugjugwacwac]

You didn't have to write all of that it's a known fact that men are smarter than women

On average yes. But some idiots here might think u mean every man is smarter than every woman, which is of course not the case. But when we're comparing the two genders as a whole, then yes men are smarter than women.

 

[government]

On average yes. But some idiots here might think u mean every man is smarter than every woman, which is of course not the case. But when we're comparing the two genders a s a whole, then yes man are smarter than women.

I know that's exactly what I meant thank you for clarifying that because some people would've jumped on me calling me sexist and other insults

 

[xisaabiye]

A girl was telling me a lot of somali females she knows marry a handsome spouse just to have a cute baby . One day I was smoking shisha xaga bariga magaalada in a infamous lounge and I overheard a somali girl saying on the phone to her mom "ha nin jamaykeen asal ah ayaan aabo ukeeneya"..I also heard huuno(HA, OG & GB share this L).

 

[TekNiKo]

At what point are you going to take personal responsibility for yourself? If you cohabitate with an alcoholic or a bum, chances are that he will remain like this after marriage, dogs don't change their habits

Similar story if I got with a stripper/loose chick, then complain she is a loser that visits clubs and has cheated after marriage, no one will be surprised by it nor take me serious, the blame will fall on my shoulders for picking up garbage, so why is your case any different?


@VixR

Your assessment would be true if you used 21st century Eurocentric measurement of intelligence or the even the much worse IQ perhaps, your book smart no doubt, but the Geeljire women in the village whom you have been conditioned to believe is inferior blows you out of the water in every other department.

I have been very fortunate enough to spend time with both to see this, I don't read any new ideas from you or perspectives, just the old rehashed feminist narratives you regurgitate endlessly and mindlessly, if those books were taking away, you would have been a stagnate obtuse clueless type.

You remind me of this girl that recently fell pregnant watching months of pregnancy videos prior but was too scared when the moment arrived and ran off to her mother's house were she spent several months because she was utterly clueless, causing major issues for the husband, the same mum she used to call 'backwards' and 'out of touch'

Mind you this is your typical 21st century intelligentsia quackademic much like yourself that domesticated ultra useless 21st century types that you can't even trust with a baby, what exactly do you bring of intelligence or value that you are touting around here? care to explain and break this down for us?

At what point are you going to take personal responsibility for yourself? If you cohabitate with an alcoholic or a bum, chances are that he will remain like this after marriage, dogs don't change their habits

Similar story if I got with a stripper/loose chick, then complain she is a loser that visits clubs and has cheated after marriage, no one will be surprised by it nor take me serious, the blame will fall on my shoulders for picking up garbage, so why is your case any different?


@VixR

Your assessment would be true if you used 21st century Eurocentric measurement of intelligence or the even the much worse IQ perhaps, your book smart no doubt, but the Geeljire women in the village whom you have been conditioned to believe is inferior blows you out of the water in every other department.

I have been very fortunate enough to spend time with both to see this, I don't read any new ideas from you or perspectives, just the old rehashed feminist narratives you regurgitate endlessly and mindlessly, if those books were taking away, you would have been a stagnate obtuse clueless type.

You remind me of this girl that recently fell pregnant watching months of pregnancy videos prior but was too scared when the moment arrived and ran off to her mother's house were she spent several months because she was utterly clueless, causing major issues for the husband, the same mum she used to call 'backwards' and 'out of touch'

Mind you this is your typical 21st century intelligentsia quackademic much like yourself that domesticated ultra useless 21st century types that you can't even trust with a baby, what exactly do you bring of intelligence or value that you are touting around here? care to explain and break this down for us?

This guy just ethered @VixR her whole argument has been dismantled, btw I bet the geeljire's wife probably knows how to effectively track a lost goat simply by its footprint, a skill that would give her a mental breakdown.

Im sure she knows Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and Newtonian quackademic gravity formulas :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Codeine]

The solution to this is so simple. I don't understand why Somali guys are so adamantly against going for foreigners. It's the reverse for virtually every other ethnic group in the world. I'm starting to believe in caraweelo and the matriarchal roots. The vast majority of men have next to no problem fucking, cuffing or marrying foreigners but the women do. For some reason it's the reverse in our community and a handful of others. We're so much like Moroccans but a decade or two behind, no wonder we've always gotten along so well.

Like one of the other posters stated, you can never change their mindset of Somali men as a collective. At best you can vastly improve your personal standing with them, despite your Somaliness. The diaspora in the west is a tiny percentage of Somalis, nothing non-fiscal would be lost if every Somali under 35, man and woman, ceased to have children. Contrary to what people would have you believe, the vast majority of non-Somalis barely know what Somalis are. You could literally tell them it's in the Caribbean, and they'll think on it for a second before accepting it as a fact. From personal experience, you won't get free points (except with some non-Somali Black girls) but I'm telling you, at least you'll have a blank slate. The worst they stick on you is the Black man stereotype but that quickly goes out the window if you're somewhat well-spoken, show connection to your roots and some conservativeness. Not to mention most Somalis being Muslim. To a shocking number of people Black and Muslim is mutually exclusive.

But why don't they? Why willingly handicap yourself? I'll be honest, this is more so a pattern I've noticed on twitter and here. My brothers and pretty much all of my closer Somali friends are not sipping the kool-aid.