Somali girl dumps ajnabi bf because parents didn’t approve

[niggaibnh]

I found this thread on LipstickAlley & wanted to know your thoughts.

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threa...-didn’t-approve-of-him.4962496/#post-83861544

I think she made the right choice. Never choose a man over your family. I would have done the same thing. And born Muslims with tats tend to have a past so she dodged a bullet.

I don’t think it’s cuz of culture

“born Muslims with tats tend”
Him having tattoo’s basically ruins his chances even if he changed .
He just has that negative or haram thing that made the parents disagree .

At the end of the day
Both are Muslim so I hope everything goes well for them

 

[Waa dhamatay]

I wonder how the dating scene for Somali men and women looks once the older generation goes away…..

It’s already over, being the stable miskeen farax who gets settled for by these types of women to appease family expectations is not a flex. That’s the equivalent of incel

 

[Heavy Mountains]

Not hardly
I got this Malay friend he tells me most of the people are Muslim however they’re is atheist, Christians and Hinduism or whatever it is believers .
So yh he could probably be gaal you never know but in the same time a Muslim

Malay are similar to Somalis, Islam is interwind with their identity. A Malay in Malaysia must be a Muslim they are not allowed to convert to another religion.

 

[Yaraye]

Gaalo are idiots wallahi I mean encouraging her to pick a man over her blood I think they are giving those advice with bad intentions cuz anyone including gaalos know that a man can switch up quickly and isn’t reliable. Even they choose their family over a man

 

[ForwardSweep]

I wouldn't want my daughter marrying a man with tattoos. Yes, I'm judgmental as hell and when I see tattoos I think trashy.

 

[Angelina]

You highly doubt he’s a gaal?
The man has tattoos.

Honestly didn’t even read the contents of this thread. All I saw was Malays and going off of that. They tend to be a Muslim ethnic group, the way Somalis are. That is why i commented. Even officially according to their government, all ethnic Malays are Muslim. The gaals in their countries are basically the ones with Chinese and Indian origins.

 

[Angelina]

Not hardly
I got this Malay friend he tells me most of the people are Muslim however they’re is atheist, Christians and Hinduism or whatever it is believers .
So yh he could probably be gaal you never know but in the same time a Muslim

That is Malaysians of Chinese and Indian origins. I’m talking about ethnic Malays. Malaysia has different ethnic groups but the ones who are the originals of the country are all supposedly according to their government census Muslim and Shafi. They’re like Somalis in a sense that their ethnicity and religion is tied. They are an ethnoreligious group just like us.

 

[World]

Malaysia is a Muslim country im pretty sure

40 % of Malaysia is non-Muslim

 

[Angelina]

40 % of Malaysia is non-Muslim

That is non Ethnic Malays. Malays are an ethno-religious group.

 

[World]

That is non Ethnic Malays. Malays are an ethno-religious group.

The OP argued that the boyfriend was Muslim because he’s Malaysian, not ethnic Malay. Non ethnic Malays are still Malaysian.

 

[Magan95]

I found this thread on LipstickAlley & wanted to know your thoughts.

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threa...-didn’t-approve-of-him.4962496/#post-83861544

I think she made the right choice. Never choose a man over your family. I would have done the same thing. And born Muslims with tats tend to have a past so she dodged a bullet.

If you have a healthy family that loves you but doesn’t want a partner for you… don’t cut them off. Ever. Because they will always be there for you. I can’t say the same about men, they typically leave you when you get terminally sick.

 

[Somali Saayid]

Great News. Who cares if they advise her to go to the man, she choose her family alx. Blood over Romance any day of the week.

 

[Jaydaan]

They're actually encouraging the girl to cut off her parents for a man who can switch up on you anytime wtf

Tbh women tend to always encourage other women to choose man over family. Men tend to be more practical in how they see this, while women tend to choose emotions. Your love can overcome everything as long as you have each other

 

[Qeelbax]

Ive never seen a malay x somali couple thats interesting

Mira Sufi married a Malay guy

 

[Qeelbax]

That’s so funny, every xalimo who marry out always take the worst type of ajnabi ever, unemployed, criminal record, violent, ect

Where does it say he’s any of that? Go steal some stories

 

[senor chang]

Mira Sufi married a Malay guy

Who ?

 

[Qeelbax]

Who ?

Just search her up

 

[ogadeniaa]

Mira Sufi married a Malay guy

how did that go? put him all over yt social media and ended up divorced. pumped n dumped she even came out sayin she use to fund his lifestyle yaab id never receive that treatment from a malay lady why are western xalimos so cheap?

 

[senor chang]

how did that go? put him all over yt social media and ended up divorced. pumped n dumped she even came out sayin she use to fund his lifestyle yaab id never receive that treatment from a malay lady why are western xalimos so cheap?

U female or male ?

 

[ogadeniaa]

U female or male ?

You gay or a dwarf?