I don’t think choosing a white partner means you hate your skin color! Everyone has preferences, you know whit height, body typ, skin color etc. So why don’t we call the short xalimos wanting a 6“ and taller men, self hating? Because Somali and a lot of black people feel like to be beautiful you need to be white and that’s the standards of the European who took our land. They have left but their standards and culture is still there. Did you know chai is a British thing that they took from India and brought it to us? I’d rather be black as f*ck, tbh!