Sister vs Wife

[NotMyL]

Suppose your wife and sister are in a disagreement, they're both right in their own way. Which side do you take?

I have seen a lot somali men take their sibling/parents side over their spouse. The most bizarre thing is when they say well they are my family, as if the wife isn't

 

[Jeesto]

Labadaba suun ban ku edbin lahaa

 

[NotMyL]

Labadaba suun ban ku edbin lahaa

Suppose you were more civilized and beating up your wife and sister wasn't the option.

 

[Jeesto]

Suppose you were more civilized and beating up your wife and sister wasn't the option.

Issa joke inaadeer

 

[YoungFarah]

I'll tell them to fix up and sort themselves out.

 

[NotMyL]

Issa joke inaadeer

Sorry violence against women isn't a joke, especially now when we are seeing more and more men kill their wives.

 

[NotMyL]

I'll tell them to fix up and sort themselves out.

You know that won't be an option lol you will be forced to chose a side.

 

[YoungFarah]

You know that won't be an option lol you will be forced to chose a side.

TBH it depends on what the problem is. Who is clearly right or wrong. How long I've been with my wife and the situation of our family. It isn't an easy decision and is always subjective to the state of the relationship you have with your sister and your wife or at least that's my two cents

 

[Foreman]

Who'm ever is right

 

[FarahAbdi]

It depends on lot of factors

 

[Gambar]

Labadaba suun ban ku edbin lahaa

Wax waalan baad tahay ileen. Yaa.

 

[Mixile]

Suppose your wife and sister are in a disagreement, they're both right in their own way. Which side do you take?

I have seen a lot somali men take their sibling/parents side over their spouse. The most bizarre thing is when they say well they are my family, as if the wife isn't

Between your brother and husband
which side do you take?

 

[agnes]

It's best not to disagree with your brother's wife. If you do, she's gonna take it as 'they don't like me'.

 

[NotMyL]

TBH it depends on what the problem is. Who is clearly right or wrong. How long I've been with my wife and the situation of our family. It isn't an easy decision and is always subjective to the state of the relationship you have with your sister and your wife or at least that's my two cents

Wrong answer, have you ever heard of the phrase happy wife happy life? lol I don't remember there being a phrase for the sister.

 

[NotMyL]

Between your brother and husband
which side do you take?

The thing is that rarely ever happens, it's always the husbands family that like to intervene. Especially his sisters and the mother.

 

[YoungFarah]

Wrong answer, have you ever heard of the phrase happy wife happy life? lol I don't remember there being a phrase for the sister.

If I don't have a family with my wife and she's clearly wrong then I couldn't care less what she thinks. It all depends on the situation. If the wife is clearly wrong then what?

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[NotMyL]

If I don't have a family with my wife and she's clearly wrong then I couldn't care less what she thinks. It all depends on the situation. If the wife is clearly wrong then what?

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So she becomes your family only after having your kids?

 

[NotMyL]

lol at the votes, I would be lying if I said I was surprised. Somali men have problem growing up, that's why most of them run to their mama's house even at the age 40.

 

[YoungFarah]

So she becomes your family only after having your kids?

My reaction to the situation changes with the family situation. Alienating my wife who has kids is the worst thing as growing up in a single parent house is never ideal for children.

 

[Mixile]

The thing is that rarely ever happens, it's always the husbands family that like to intervene. Especially his sisters and the mother.

True. It's more likely to see men staying in touch with their families after marriage than women.