Should we marry outside?

[greyhound stone]

Iam joking. Honnestly she she lives in the west she can do what she want. But if she marries out she shoulf understand that the somali community will not accept her half ajnabi kids. As long if she knows that we cool

Somali community acceptance is not needed. The only people who really matters is your family

 

[jabsveg276]

It may be the best decision to marry out. Just make sure they come from a accepting family and make sure he's muslim. Everything else can be set up. That's my advice. I get it sometimes its hard finding suitable partner of the same ethnicity

Their kids will have 0 culture, and her grandchildren will mostly likely be gaal if that happens

 

[greyhound stone]

You’re right, it’s not like Faraaxs have high standards either, as long as she’s gonna be a housewife with pretty decent looks and wants big family

House wife

Their kids will have 0 culture, and her grandchildren will mostly likely be gaal if that happens

Nah if he's muslim then it won't happen. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter. What maters the most if your own happiness

 

[Sophisticate]

You’re right, it’s not like Faraaxs have high standards either, as long as she’s gonna be a housewife with pretty decent looks and wants big family

I think Abdis aren't a one-size-fits all like a dirac. They are different and have their own tastes and preferences. A lot of millennials in the west aren't aiming for large families and many are dual income earners. There is nothing wrong with being a housewife but it doesn't seem as common among younger generations.

 

[jabsveg276]

House wife

Nah if he's muslim then it won't happen. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter. What maters the most if your own happiness

I don’t know about you but...

I WANT MY KIDS TO SCREAM “SOMALINIMO UNTIL I DHIMOOOOOOOO ”

 

[sailormoon]

I’m from Minnesota and it’s super easy to get boo’d up here

why u single then

 

[Sophisticate]

why u single then

It's not advisable for a teenager to marry.

 

[sailormoon]

If you are overweight and a little bit to dark then yess you should marry out. But if you look good then you should stay with the faraxs

If you are overweight and a little bit to dark then yess you should marry out. But if you look good then you should stay with the faraxs

U bastard take that back

 

[jabsveg276]

I think Abdis aren't a one-size-fits all like a dirac. They are different and have their own tastes and preferences. A lot of millennials in the west aren't aiming for large families and many are dual income earners. There is nothing wrong with being a housewife but it doesn't seem as common among younger generations.

I grew up in a split income household with only 2 children (my brother and I), and let me tell you, it was depressing as f*ck. My parents divorced (obviously since they followed the western family household), I can only talk to my brother (I love him but I wish I had more siblings), the house is always quite, I don’t have connections to other cousins bc they’re busy in their big families and more.

I’m gonna marry a wife (hopefully a housewife, I’ll 100% provide financially), and have at least 8 children, up to 12

 

[greyhound stone]

I don’t know about you but...

I WANT MY KIDS TO SCREAM “SOMALINIMO UNTIL I DHIMOOOOOOOO ”

I do as well. But we will see.

 

[sailormoon]

It's not advisable for a teenager to marry.

How do u know he’s a teenager

 

[jabsveg276]

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U bastard take that back

Don’t worry if you can’t find a faraax, I’ll marry you

You’re too beautiful to let this gaajo geeljires to get under your skin

 

[greyhound stone]

I grew up in a split income household with only 2 children (my brother and I), and let me tell you, it was depressing as f*ck. My parents divorced (obviously since they followed the western family household), I can only talk to my brother (I love him but I wish I had more siblings), the house is always quite, I don’t have connections to other cousins bc they’re busy in their big families and more.

I’m gonna marry a wife (hopefully a housewife, I’ll 100% provide financially), and have at least 8 children, up to 12

Bro I wish I had a family like you. I come from a family of 10. House is always loud and noisy. I wish I had a peaceful household like you sxb

 

[greyhound stone]

How do u know he’s a teenager

He said he's 17 on teh other thread

 

[jabsveg276]

why u single then

I’m not focused on women at the moment, I have goals and big aspirations

And I’m very selective of my women, most of the women here are cute but have ugly personalities and futures

 

[Molotoff]

I'm not having any luck with Somalis Loool. This is probably a problem with somalis across the diaspora. I see a lot of Somalis vent about this too, but I don't want to be single forever. I'm a grown woman and want to settle down with someone. I'm irritated by all of this. So many people around me are nearly 30 or above and still single. I'm afraid I am going to be the same. I talked to plenty of Somali men online since the pandemic started and none of them really wanted a relationship or were bored. I was a penpal most of the time. I got tired of all the games and don't use dating apps no moe or talk to them. I did have some phone calls recently with a few guys, and I wasn't getting any hint of interest from them. I was thinking that I might come off too strong and excited when I talk to a guy. I also have a habit of changing my voice to sound more attractive, and to get them to be more interested. Maybe I should look for a non-somali partner, but I'm not that attracted to them now and all the risks of them having racist family members or not being fully accepted by in-laws. And then you have the Somali men that shame Somali women for marrying outside and saying their kids ain't Somali, yet we all know how hard it is to find marriage with somalis these days. These brothers don't even seem to want us ladies anymore. Is any other sister going through this too?

Alright, this obsession with marriage has to stop.

Just marry someone already. As long as he is a pious man in touch with his deen and who respects his parents and you and your family.

Don't be picky with looks and money/status; the Almighty will provide and remember, what has been given can be taken away, everyone is born to die once, but character, honor and shame live forever. Think about it.

 

[sailormoon]

Don’t worry if you can’t find a faraax, I’ll marry you

You’re too beautiful to let this gaajo geeljires to get under your skin

Snacks my only mutual online I miss you U making me feel like a pedo stop it

 

[jabsveg276]

Bro I wish I had a family like you. I come from a family of 10. House is always loud and noisy. I wish I had a peaceful household like you sxb

It’s lonely. Trust me. Be glad you have a large household, theirs a reason that western people have the highest depression and anxiety rates

 

[sailormoon]

Alright, this obsession with marriage has to stop.

Just marry someone already. As long as he is a pious man in touch with his deen and who respects his parents and you and your family.

Don't be picky with looks and money/status; the Almighty will provide and remember, what has been given can be taken away, everyone is born to die once, but character, honor and shame live forever. Think about it.

Nigga shut the hell up broke boy. She should have standards still only rich farax saaxib be picky abayo don’t listen to this nigga

 

[jabsveg276]

Snacks my only mutual online I miss you U making me feel like a pedo stop it

Hey I turn 18 soon

Once I turn legal, ima make some moves with you