So to tell you my story I need to go back 7 years ago! when I was 23 and I had a boyfriend. My first boyfriend, in fact I wasn't crazy over him but I was more interested to have a man and to be somebody's woman ... All my friends had men except me, so really and truly I wanted to taste what it felt like... So anyway, me and this boy used to go out and have fun and one day I called him from my little sister's phone (she was 18 years old) and then few weeks later, I don't remember how I found out the guy was chatting up my sister, when I confronted him he was like I didn't know how to tell you but your sister is the one that kept texting me and starting up conversations. He said to me, I love you and i don't want anything to do with your sister. I was a bit upset and hurt by my sister's act (to be honest I didn't like him that much anyway!) so I did speak with her and she said 'I was just being friendly nothing else'. Anyway, I cut all my relationship with him and I thought my sister have learned her lesson but months later my best friend told me that my sister was chatting up her boyfriend at the time. I confronted her AGAIN and she said the guy was interested in her so it wasn't her fault if he likes her! and my best friend kinda changed on me and she also cut him loose. So years pass by and we never talked about it again!
Fast forward, I am happily married to an amazing guy and let me add he is a handsome man with two kids. The problem is my sister wants to work in my city (my family lives in another city) and she wants to come and stay with me until she gets a place....
Now I forgave her but I can't forget... I don't want to open doors that I can't close... And I don't want to have paranoia when she is around my husband.... I love my sister so much but I can't trust her!
Ladies am I right to be paranoid? Should I rent a room for her somewhere else? Or should I give her a second chance?
Please advice I need an advice !