Sex before marriage

[Parailia somalensis]

Few people still think it’s reasonable to wait till after marriage but most people including muslims/Somalis give their loins freely after a couple of shots at the clubs. So why does this belief still linger in the thoughts of many individuals in the community?


How will you even know your compatibility with your partner matches without getting frisky before?

 

[Macalin M]

It is haram. Normalised in this dunya but it’s haram

 

[sambuusi]

are you okay?
all these new threads of yours are giving off zaani vibes

 

[Marsh]

Another one of these threads

 

[Helios]

BRo this guy you're just railing down the topics huh

Next thread from you: "Dabbling in Gay Relationships?"

 

[Parailia somalensis]

BRo this guy you're just railing down the topics huh

Next thread from you: "Dabbling in Gay Relationships?"

The quarantine is getting to me.

 

[a y a n]

normalizing zina
not a suprise at all especially in 2020

 

[Tjioux]

Few people still think it’s reasonable to wait till after marriage but most people including muslims/Somalis give their loins freely after a couple of shots at the clubs. So why does this belief still linger in the thoughts of many individuals in the community?


How will you even know your comparability with your partner matches without getting frisky before?

aar waaxad waasi kartid waas niyhow

 

[Sophisticate]

Sexual compatibility doesn't matter as much as you think. If the individual is one's first and only then there are no comparisons. You can accomplish more with one monogamous, committed individual that believes and practices fidelty and personal growth than a series of illicit conquests. Plus, married people tend to have better sex lives if were going by self-reported data.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

Sexual compatibility doesn't matter as much as you think. If the individual is one's first and only then there are no comparisons. You can accomplish more with one monogamous, committed individual that believes and practices fidelty and personal growth than a series of illicit conquests. Plus, married people tend to have better sex lives if were going by self-reported data.

More pseudoscience statements from the incumbent theorist.

 

[Shmurda]

It's very normal because it happens a lot even among somalis but if its a smart thing to do is another conversation

 

[Sophisticate]

More pseudoscience statements from the incumbent theorist.

Lol. At least refute.

 

[Nak Muay]

More pseudoscience statements from the incumbent theorist.

She's right though, the more sexual partners you have the more difficult it is to pair-bond with someone.
Why do you think everyone has such strong feelings for their "first love"?

 

[Sophisticate]

She's right though, the more sexual partners you have the more difficult it is to pair-bond with someone.
Why do you think everyone has such strong feelings for their "first love"?

Exactly. A woman who doesn't have sex with a man is less emotionally invested in him. Hence, she's coming from a position of strength. This power is stronger if no one has ever gotten to her.

Even secularists have their own mores around sexual activity where less is more. Especially for women. Women are at a biological disadvantage and have a higher parental investment than men.

Ever wonder why even these men do not like to hear about these women's body count. I wonder why? Because psychologically a man that is serious about a woman doesn't like the idea of someone else having been with her which includes non-Muslims. There are of course those few with cuckolding fetish or the consensually non monogamous types that don't care.

 

[Daacad90]

Dhaaf qalqiiga ilaheey

 

[AarHawd_7]

You really think I’m gonna get married to her with out even one testdrive? What if I marry her and I find out on our wedding night she has saggy breasts? Or a beer belly like the typical beer drinking Englishman?

 

[Odkac WRLD]

All jokes aside, it is very easy to save yourself.

Zina is a tremendous sin and black mark to have tbh. It’s best to stay away from it. The west loves to normalize it but the truth is it is degeneracy.

It’s not so hard to avoid Zina. I have done it myself for 20 years, 2 months, 8 days, 16 hours, and 35 minutes.

what I won’t tolerate is marrying a non virgin. I’m a nice guy but if I was cheated I’d race to her aabos house, drop her off, and shake the old man down for my mehr as well

f*ck you thought this was

 

[Sophisticate]

All jokes aside, it is very easy to save yourself.

I have done it myself for 20 years, 2 months, 8 days, 16 hours, and 35 minutes.

what I won’t tolerate is marrying a non virgin. I’m a nice guy but I’ll leave her ass at her aabos house and shake him down for my mehr as well

You aren't unique. Some have done that for longer and made a career out of it.

You're still adorable.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

You aren't unique. Some have done that for longer and made a career out of it.

You're still adorable.

A career out of being a virgin
Horta I need you to stop calling me adorable I’m a grown man

 

[Sophisticate]

A career out of being a virgin

An e-spicy one that makes a living from being unattainable. Men love what they can't have. And I'm kind of sadistic.